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@Mab: I don't know your definition of a small town but Singapore is much smaller than a state. Much much smaller. It's a dot on the world map, literally.

Don't most great inventors say that you have to fail many times to succeed?

I've found that to be very true in my life.

The important thing is to not wallow in pity and agnst over the failure, but to look at it, see what you did wrong and what you did right, and move on.

It's only when you wallow in failure that it truely pulls you down.

If you let it go then all it really is, is a stepping stone that helps you become more awesome as time goes on.

Oh yes...one more thing.... You can Never Fail At Life! It's just infailable. Life is expiriences. That is all it is. And YOU get to choose what those espiriences are going to be.

Just as you can choose how others are or aren't going to affect you with their actions.

It's all about love and happiness...and I don't mean from outside sources, but from inside yourself.

The funny thing is that the moment you learn to love yourself no matter what and be happy, then you suddenly start attracting people into your life who will love you for exactly who you are.

We can fail at life. It's like a status ailment that goes away after time. And if you're being awesome, it'll go away faster.

Never shun the possibility of failure or think that it'll never happen. Because everything has a chance of happening, even if its less than 1% cos' nothing is ever 0%.
Like Mab spontaneously giving birth to a horde of alien ninja zombies.
It could happen.

I'm not being pessimistic (or 'realist', as what my pessimistic friend would say)
My belief in the world is that there are two things that make up life.
We have Destiny, which is... destiny. The sequence of things already planned to happen...
And then there is Decisions... Okay, I haven't thought of a cooler, nicer to use, more easier to sum up word, but...
Decisions basically is the amount of effort you put in to change aforementioned Destiny, thus throwing the whole sequence off and leading you onto another spiral of events through a parallel universe exchange.

What I'm saying is, look however you want at life, but if you ever make a mistake, whether you want to continue down the path aforementioned mistake started or choose another path, that's entirely up to you.
There's no such thing as a thing that's completely bad. Even a path laden with mistakes may lead to more opportunities.
So never see something as being worse, but as an alternative.

You can never do badly. All you do is... open more room for improvement biggrin





WHAT THE ******** AM I TYPING. I LOST MYSELF IN MY OWN WORDS.

I shan't EVAH give birth to alien ninja zombies

but alien zombie ninjas...that can be arranged

Instead of 'Decisions'...Bapp should use 'Free will' or 'Choice'...if not out of complete seriousness, then to mess with the people who don't believe in it
-myself...to a small extent-

Narcolepsy biggrin

PFFFF. Coline and Xei could... sleep together?

...

Hurr. |D~

Knowing Jessie's luck he'd end up carrying them BOTH around.

And then Xei would fall in love with him.

... gonk

HOLY s**t

Bapp abandoned his need to break down the door?!

Aw, but I was gonna torture you by saying that the doors were being taken out as part of reconstruction plans... and wouldnt be put back in for another 5 rp months...