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 Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 10:16 am
Dark Eagle Babe cloakedinshadows Dark Eagle Babe icomeinpieces ok i have a wierd question why is it that i feel fine dating a girl but it feels like i'm almost missing something whenever i go anyfurther, but then it feels wierd to want to date a guy but i don't feel like there's something missing when i sleep with one I'm sorry, this is what happened to Martin. It's the curse of bisexuality. I'm afraid it is. You'll always have that feeling, unless you're in a three-way-relationship. Heh.. it cursed his relationship with me.. But fine, it's alright.. I guess I can't really blame him.. hmm well at least it wasn't a stupid question in the long run thanx for the feedback, didn't think many people had this "curse"
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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 10:20 am
icomeinpieces Dark Eagle Babe cloakedinshadows Dark Eagle Babe icomeinpieces ok i have a wierd question why is it that i feel fine dating a girl but it feels like i'm almost missing something whenever i go anyfurther, but then it feels wierd to want to date a guy but i don't feel like there's something missing when i sleep with one I'm sorry, this is what happened to Martin. It's the curse of bisexuality. I'm afraid it is. You'll always have that feeling, unless you're in a three-way-relationship. Heh.. it cursed his relationship with me.. But fine, it's alright.. I guess I can't really blame him.. hmm well at least it wasn't a stupid question in the long run thanx for the feedback, didn't think many people had this "curse" Yeah.. I'm sorry.. ><;;
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 11:28 am
Dark Eagle Babe icomeinpieces Dark Eagle Babe cloakedinshadows Dark Eagle Babe icomeinpieces ok i have a wierd question why is it that i feel fine dating a girl but it feels like i'm almost missing something whenever i go anyfurther, but then it feels wierd to want to date a guy but i don't feel like there's something missing when i sleep with one I'm sorry, this is what happened to Martin. It's the curse of bisexuality. I'm afraid it is. You'll always have that feeling, unless you're in a three-way-relationship. Heh.. it cursed his relationship with me.. But fine, it's alright.. I guess I can't really blame him.. hmm well at least it wasn't a stupid question in the long run thanx for the feedback, didn't think many people had this "curse" Yeah.. I'm sorry.. ><;; that's alright glad there's people that can relate to to how i am right now
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 3:03 pm
icomeinpieces that's alright glad there's people that can relate to to how i am right now
You'd be suprirsed. There're billions of people in the world. Even if it feels like it, it's highly unlikely you're alone. And, in a more immediate range of people, I get what you're saying. ^_^
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Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 6:24 am
cloakedinshadows icomeinpieces that's alright glad there's people that can relate to to how i am right now
You'd be suprirsed. There're billions of people in the world. Even if it feels like it, it's highly unlikely you're alone. And, in a more immediate range of people, I get what you're saying. ^_^i'm glad for that thnx
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Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 8:18 pm
I have a question: My family is a very Christain family most of my family are pastors, I have recently discoverd that I am Gay/Bi how do I tell them? My family would go crazy.
I do not know weather im Gay or Bi yet...
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Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 9:36 pm
BlackXFlameXShadow I have a question: My family is a very Christain family most of my family are pastors, I have recently discoverd that I am Gay/Bi how do I tell them? My family would go crazy. I do not know weather im Gay or Bi yet... First off, it would probably be better to wait until you know, for sure. If you tell them you're bi, but discover yourself to be gay later, they're possibly going to retain the hope (and push it onto you) that you'll still end up with someone of the opposite sex. Secondly, it depends on how comfortable you would be with them knowing. If they're going to make your life hell, I'd say don't do it; that's messed up a lot of my friends' lives.
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 4:15 am
Anata BlackXFlameXShadow I have a question: My family is a very Christain family most of my family are pastors, I have recently discoverd that I am Gay/Bi how do I tell them? My family would go crazy. I do not know weather im Gay or Bi yet... First off, it would probably be better to wait until you know, for sure. If you tell them you're bi, but discover yourself to be gay later, they're possibly going to retain the hope (and push it onto you) that you'll still end up with someone of the opposite sex. Secondly, it depends on how comfortable you would be with them knowing. If they're going to make your life hell, I'd say don't do it; that's messed up a lot of my friends' lives.
Yeah exactly..
My parents aren't completely comfortable with bisexuality, so before I bring a gal home with me, they're just not going to know. There's not really a point in them knowing, I think
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Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:13 pm
Anata BlackXFlameXShadow I have a question: My family is a very Christain family most of my family are pastors, I have recently discoverd that I am Gay/Bi how do I tell them? My family would go crazy. I do not know weather im Gay or Bi yet... First off, it would probably be better to wait until you know, for sure. If you tell them you're bi, but discover yourself to be gay later, they're possibly going to retain the hope (and push it onto you) that you'll still end up with someone of the opposite sex. Secondly, it depends on how comfortable you would be with them knowing. If they're going to make your life hell, I'd say don't do it; that's messed up a lot of my friends' lives. M, Ok well thanks a ton.
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 10:27 am
I'm wondering if anyone else here identifies as gender queer*? It's just really weird sometimes, and I have a hard time remembering that some of my friends don't know it. I've even had a few of my friends say that I should get gender reassignment surgery, but that's really not what I want. I think it's just a little bit weird because I'm being pushed more by my friends than I am by myself to resolve my "gender issues."
*Gender queer-when someone identifies as being neither male nor female inwardly, not to be confused with the physical aspect of a person's gender.
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 11:22 pm
Evil-Pinkness I'm wondering if anyone else here identifies as gender queer*? It's just really weird sometimes, and I have a hard time remembering that some of my friends don't know it. I've even had a few of my friends say that I should get gender reassignment surgery, but that's really not what I want. I think it's just a little bit weird because I'm being pushed more by my friends than I am by myself to resolve my "gender issues." *Gender queer-when someone identifies as being neither male nor female inwardly, not to be confused with the physical aspect of a person's gender. would you be implying that you feel you shouldn't be male or female but some how a third sex or gender, and if in that case i really couldn't say i can indentify with you but as for the pressre it's just them talking about it and you shouldn't feel pressured by what they say about themselves unless they are actaully suggesting it to you every once in a while and in that case just tell them that in time you'll figure your self out and you'll let them know if you choose to follow thier advice or not
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 3:52 pm
KnightBlazer Iwakura I think I'll try telling my best friend. I'm sure he'd understand, but he doesn't like gay people. Then again He does have a gay cousin... OOHH! tell your best friend that is female. girls love gay guys xp oh yes we do! soooooooooo sexy whe nthey kiss!!!! and for some reson , guys think that girls kissing is sexy. wierd
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 6:45 pm
darkmariel KnightBlazer Iwakura I think I'll try telling my best friend. I'm sure he'd understand, but he doesn't like gay people. Then again He does have a gay cousin... OOHH! tell your best friend that is female. girls love gay guys xp oh yes we do! soooooooooo sexy whe nthey kiss!!!! and for some reson , guys think that girls kissing is sexy. wierd 3nodding 3nodding 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 5:37 am
mokubahv darkmariel KnightBlazer Iwakura I think I'll try telling my best friend. I'm sure he'd understand, but he doesn't like gay people. Then again He does have a gay cousin... OOHH! tell your best friend that is female. girls love gay guys xp oh yes we do! soooooooooo sexy whe nthey kiss!!!! and for some reson , guys think that girls kissing is sexy. wierd 3nodding 3nodding 3nodding Girl's kissing, ewwwww! lol
No seriously, telling a female friend is always safer then telling a male. Guys tend to...freak out. I know, trust me.
But then again, if you tell a guy, you have a small chance of him being curious and well...you know where it goes from there. rofl
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Posted: Thu Nov 17, 2005 12:35 pm
Im bi, but the only people i have told are two of my best friends (who are girls) as i know i can trust them. I'd tell my parents if i didn't think they'd freak and ignore me for the rest of my life or summit stupid like that cry .
But two of my best friends know, and i'll work it outwards from there. smile
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