Alright, but I'm warning you now that it's a complicated IRL-related problem, so don't open the spoiler if you're not prepared for a read. I'm using single letters instead of names, just for the sake of privacy.
So... Here goes:
In the time that I've been gone, I've kinda fallen for a girl, L, and I've been spending lots of time with her as a friend before I even try to ask her out. I'm 21 and she is as well. About a week ago, she left for a cruise for her vacation this year. The same day that she left, I was introduced to my friend L's best friend/ex-girlfriend, T, who is 16. At first, I thought they were still dating, but it turned out I was wrong. The night after we were introduced, I hung out with, both L and T. L fell asleep early, while T and I stayed away most of the night talking. I really opened up to her (she's ridiculously easy to talk to) and we became really good friends by morning. The next night, she invited me and L to come over and watch American Horror Story with her, but L decided not to come (I forget the reason). So I spent that night with her and we watched the first episode together. When it ended, instead of watching the second episode, we sat on her bed talking. She begged me to stay the night, and I couldn't say "no". Eventually, we ended up confessing that we had feelings for each other and ended up sleeping in the same bed that night. For the rest of the week, we spent all of our time (when we weren't working) together. Friday morning, she told me that she technically had a boyfriend, who lives out of state and, ironically, has the same first name as I do. She said she had plans to dump him as soon as he told her that he wasn't going to move here for her like they had planned. That same day, though, he finally told her that he was going to go through with it. Since that point, she became distant, but still says that nothing is different.
So, I'm asking... What do I do about this, if anything?
Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2015 8:36 am
V6a6m6pyro
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I may have a bit of input for you, but that would be a PM on FB if you wanted to talk (I'll be lucky if i can get back on here any time soon ;_wink
4166 Well, I made the situation worse... For a little while at least. It seems like it's already getting better, but now it just needs time. So... I think I'm good for now. sweatdrop
Posted: Fri Jun 19, 2015 9:39 pm
V6a6m6pyro
4166 Well, I made the situation worse... For a little while at least. It seems like it's already getting better, but now it just needs time. So... I think I'm good for now. sweatdrop
4167
Sorry, I meant to respond sooner, but things kept popping up. *nervous laugh* Good to hear it'll get better with time.
What to do in a situation like this? Simple. I would not get too involved with T if I were you. Unless it's for a friends only sort of stuff.
Doesn't look like the thing to do even if them feelings get in the way as they usually do.
I'm late I'm late, I know.
Posted: Tue Jun 23, 2015 4:53 pm
4171 Ah Naia, it's been awhile.
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2015 7:42 pm
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It's always great to see Naia and Soubi here. Though it sounds like we'll always be in the background....lurking...waiting...watching. I'm an angel zombie now, so I'm in need of brains.
Posted: Fri Jul 03, 2015 6:32 pm
4173 And I'm a regular zombie now, apparently. So, you know, brains.
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