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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 11:45 am


Div3h
Im 14, And I Took A "Gay Test" A Couple Of Months Ago, I Came 48% Gay, I Todl A Few Mates Thinking It Was Funny. The Making Fun crying
Problem Is I Think I Might Be Gay/Bi Coz I'm Interesting In Gay Things, And Have Loads Of Girl-Friends.. And Get On Well With Them
Although In A Class, I Got Told Hormones Interfere With Your Feelings. I Dno Wot To Do sad Be True To Myself And Say Im Gay/Bi Or Keep Denying And Pretend Im Not In A Homophobic School stare
I've seen this case many times... so of course I know how to handle it (since it's happening to me right now, as well)
Here's the simplest way to think about it (well, kinda)
You can either:
A) tell everyone you're bi and not have to lie about it, but face ridicule
or
B) not tell anybody, but have to deal with holding something like that inside.

If it were me, I'd choose A. You say you don't even know for sure if you're bi, so there's always the chance that you're actually straight, but if you told them you were bi, it wouldn't matter, you'd still face the ridicule, only this would be worse, because you wouldnt even be gay or anything.

Just being gay/bi/les/anything else doesn't mean you have to go telling everyone, like I tell everyone who asks, wait until you're SURE of the consequences, and you're SURE you're willing to accept them.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:05 pm


No problem, Anata. ^_^ It was actually very constructive for me to write out that list, i'm sure it would be helpful for other people too, but it was good for me because it helped refocus what's been done in my own group and gave me a bit of a better idea of how to run a club (I'm always behind the scenes, but I was prez/vp in some high school groups, and I really sucked at it ^^; wink . And it made me all happy to write it.
Good luck with it, and keep us all posted as to how it turns out. ^_^

Nebbie


steveosaurus_rex

PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 1:21 pm


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 1:45 pm


Well it would be dificult to say. You really just need to find out more about yourself first, then once you are more sure of yourself, try and look for someone who will like you for that.

ARC Trinity


Anriazna

PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 4:20 pm


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 9:48 pm


i just think i need to talk ane meet more people. some other time, when im more confident. i guess its just my paranuia of being alone. ill try not to let that get in the way of expressing who i am

steveosaurus_rex


Kurai.Kitsune.Yasha

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 5:55 pm


Black_Rain
Transsexual: Means that you change from one sex to another and the sexuality is thus referred to as Transsexuality.

Pansexual: It's similar to bi-sexuality but it is more fluid. A person who could honestly find love despite the sex. Rather than just being attracted to the same sex.

Bisexual: Being physically or emotionally attracted to both sexes.

Heterosexuality: Being physically attracted to people of the opposite sex.

Homosexual: Being physically attracted to people of your same sex.

Male Identified Lesbian: A man who isn't gay but identifies himself as a lesbian in personality and mannerisms. Kinda like a male feminist.


This might be a tough question:What would you call a girl (like me and others i know) how are defined as bi.....their feelings are: They want to be a dude, but they want to be a "gay dude", and they like girls in the same situation(a girl that wants to be a gay boy, but likes strait boys and girls that want to be boys that are gay...and bi girls)
sweatdrop I know its confusing....sorry...i must know though....
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Brandon Yamata

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 7:22 pm


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 11:08 am


Kuraikitsuneyasha
Black_Rain
Transsexual: Means that you change from one sex to another and the sexuality is thus referred to as Transsexuality.

Pansexual: It's similar to bi-sexuality but it is more fluid. A person who could honestly find love despite the sex. Rather than just being attracted to the same sex.

Bisexual: Being physically or emotionally attracted to both sexes.

Heterosexuality: Being physically attracted to people of the opposite sex.

Homosexual: Being physically attracted to people of your same sex.

Male Identified Lesbian: A man who isn't gay but identifies himself as a lesbian in personality and mannerisms. Kinda like a male feminist.


This might be a tough question:What would you call a girl (like me and others i know) how are defined as bi.....their feelings are: They want to be a dude, but they want to be a "gay dude", and they like girls in the same situation(a girl that wants to be a gay boy, but likes strait boys and girls that want to be boys that are gay...and bi girls)
sweatdrop I know its confusing....sorry...i must know though....

^^ That was like me too!!! I was sooooo confused...it's basically just bi. That's what Rain and Jyger told me. *nod*

Anriazna


Kurai.Kitsune.Yasha

PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 2:20 pm


mokubahv
Kuraikitsuneyasha
Black_Rain
Transsexual: Means that you change from one sex to another and the sexuality is thus referred to as Transsexuality.

Pansexual: It's similar to bi-sexuality but it is more fluid. A person who could honestly find love despite the sex. Rather than just being attracted to the same sex.

Bisexual: Being physically or emotionally attracted to both sexes.

Heterosexuality: Being physically attracted to people of the opposite sex.

Homosexual: Being physically attracted to people of your same sex.

Male Identified Lesbian: A man who isn't gay but identifies himself as a lesbian in personality and mannerisms. Kinda like a male feminist.


This might be a tough question:What would you call a girl (like me and others i know) how are defined as bi.....their feelings are: They want to be a dude, but they want to be a "gay dude", and they like girls in the same situation(a girl that wants to be a gay boy, but likes strait boys and girls that want to be boys that are gay...and bi girls)
sweatdrop I know its confusing....sorry...i must know though....

^^ That was like me too!!! I was sooooo confused...it's basically just bi. That's what Rain and Jyger told me. *nod*

x-o thanks........
PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 8:25 pm


...o.o

Anriazna


Dexoian

PostPosted: Sat Sep 24, 2005 11:31 am


im confused a few days ago i was straigh and now im half gay! someone help me crying
PostPosted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 10:33 am


OK, I have a question. I'm not a member of this guild,but I hope this is alright.You guys can send an invitation if you want wink

Ok,so i'm 15 years old,and almost 3 to 5 times a week, me and another guy give each other oral sex,and we both like it. Does that mean i'm gay?

Sweens6591


E.Ocelot

PostPosted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 7:59 pm


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