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x-ImperfectPrincess-x

PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 12:25 am


Oh and BTW I forgot to add what is foreplay???
PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 7:15 am


ChaoticIntervention
Oh and BTW I forgot to add what is foreplay???


It's the kind of sexual "play" that you do before having sex. Kinda like warming you up for the main event! 3nodding

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Nikolita
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 10:15 am


ChaoticIntervention
Okay I just did it twice in a row for the exact same post!!!!!! (deleted what I was triing to say stressed stressed stressed )

Let's try again!!!!! How could a tampon break the hymen? Woudl you ntohave to shove it in pretty far? Or is your v****a not actually that deep? Sorry XD I don't knwo much about all of this. Also would it hurt if you "accidently on purpose" broke your own hymen with a tampon? Would it be hard? How old were you when you used a tampon your first time and how long had you had your period for?

Also!!!! (more questions!!!!) This commment is sort of freaking me out...
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If you're not physically a virgin, meaning your hymen has been broken before you have sex for the first time, it means you might not bleed, and it means it might not be as painful as it might be if your hymen were intact.
Might not bleed, Might not be as painful... AAAHHHHHH I am beginning to hate those words with a passion!!!

Also I'd like to ask about one more thing. What exactly is a yeast infection? I have heard about them but I don't know what they are.. How do you contract them? Could I be at risk? How do I know if I have one? Are they painful? Have you ever had one?

I am going to stop asking questions so that I don't delete my post ((for the 3 effing time!!!!!!!!!!!!)). Oh please answer all of them if possible!!! I think it is important that I know about all of this stuff... without reading 8 or 10 stickys... I've already read like 3 full ones!!! XD Don't hate me for all of the questions!!! please??? Thanks. Bye.


The hymen isn't that far into the v****a, to my knowledge. It's close enough that a tampon can break it, I'll put it that way. Try looking it up online, to see if you can find a diagram or something if you're still unsure. It is possible though, and same with a yeast infection applicator (that's what I did whee ).
Yes it might hurt, for some people it might not. With me, I suspected I broke my hymen after inserting a yeast infection appliucator pretty deep, and then felt it run up against something hard, like a wall sort of, and then break through it. It didn't hurt, it just felt kinda weird. Like the applicator was breaking through something.
Regarding your tampon question, I've never used one, and I've had my period since I was 11 (I'm almost 19 now).

I know I say "might not" this, and "might not" that, but that's pretty much how it is. Not all female will have painful sex during their first time, not all will bleed, not all will like it, etc etc. It is different for every person.

I think there's yeast infection info in the STD sticky... I'll post something though in case it isn't. And yes, I've had at least 3 or 4 yeast infections. They're annoying but nothing more.

Taken from: http://www.healthy.net/scr/article.asp?ID=1607

Yeast infections are the most common type of vaginal infections. Other names for this are Monila, Candida or fungus infection. Vaginal yeast infections result from the overgrowth of Candida albicans which is normally present in harmless amounts in the v****a, the digestive tract and the mouth. Some women rarely have a yeast infection. Others have them regularly. Certain things may trigger them such as:

- Hormonal changes that come with pregnancy or even before monthly periods.
- Taking hormones or birth control pills.
- Taking antibiotics especially "broad spectrum" ones.
- Taking steroid medicines such as prednisone.
- Having elevated blood sugar such as found in uncontrolled diabetes.
- Vaginal intercourse, especially with inadequate lubrication.
- Douching.


Symptoms can range from mild to severe. They include:

- Itching and irritation and redness around the external genitalia.
- A thick, white discharge that looks like cottage cheese and may smell like yeast.
- Burning and/or pain when you urinate or have sex.


Prevention

To help prevent yeast infections:

- Practice good hygiene. Wash regularly to clean the inside folds of the vulva where germs are likely to grow. Dry the vaginal area thoroughly after you shower or bathe.
- Wipe from front to back after using the toilet.
- Wear all-cotton underpants and panty hose with cotton crotches.
- Don't wear slacks and shorts that are tight in the crotch and thighs or other tight fitting clothing such as panty girdles.
- Change underwear and workout clothes right away after exercising.
- Use unscented tampons or sanitary pads and change tampons and sanitary pads frequently.
- Don't use bath oils, bubble baths, feminine hygiene sprays, perfumed or deodorant soaps.
- Don't sit around in a wet bathing suit.
- Shower after you swim in a pool to remove the chlorine from your skin. Dry the vaginal area thoroughly.
-Take antibiotics, especially broad spectrum ones such as Keflex, Ceclor, Bactrim, Septra, amoxicillin, ampicillin, etc. only when necessary to treat bacterial (not viral) infections. These promote the growth of yeast.
- If you tend to get yeast infections whenever you take an antibiotic, ask your doctor to prescribe a vaginal antifungal agent as well or use an over-the-counter one.
- Eat well and include food products such as yogurt that contain live cultures of "lactobacillus acidophilus".
- Get plenty of rest to make it easier for your body to fight infections.


Treatment

Treatment for vaginal yeast infections are:

- Vaginal creams or suppositories that get rid of the Candida overgrowth. These can be over-the-counter ones. Examples are Monistat, Gyne-Lotrimin, etc. or ones prescribed by your doctor such as Terazol or Vagistat, etc. They should be inserted right before you go to bed.
- Oral medicines which include Diflucan (a pill taken once per episode of infection), Sporanox, Nystatin and Nizoral.
- Gentian violet, a purple-colored solution applied to the vaginal area.

It is important, though, to make sure that you have the right problem diagnosed. A burning sensation could be a symptom of a urinary tract infection caused by bacteria which requires an antibiotic. Antibiotics will not help a yeast infection. They make them worse.
Trichomoniasis mimics yeast infections.

You should check with your doctor if:

- This is the first time you have symptoms of a yeast infection.
- You are not sure that your problem is a yeast infection.
- If the infection you treat comes back within two months.
- If the infection does not respond to treatment.
- Chronic vaginal infections can be one of the first signs of diabetes, sexually transmitted diseases or HIV/AIDS in women.

Self-Care Tips

To get rid of a yeast infection, try the following:

- Use an over-the-counter vaginal cream medicine or suppositories, such as Monistat, as directed. These used to be available only with a prescription. Women who have had yeast infections whenever they have taken antibiotics in the past should use this during the period of antibiotic treatment.
- Douche with a mild solution of 1 to 3 tablespoons of vinegar diluted in a quart of warm water. Repeat only once a day until the symptoms subside, but not longer than a week. Too much douching can lead to a flare up of the infection.
- Limit your intake of sugar and foods that contain sugar since sugar promotes the growth of yeast.
- Eat yogurt and other food items that contain live cultures of lactobacillus acidophilus several times daily especially when taking an antibiotic. If you can't tolerate yogurt, ask your pharmacist for an over-the-counter product that contains this beneficial bacteria (lactobacillus acidophilus).


On a final note, if you want the information, read the stickies. I know it's a lot to read, but it's better you read it than asking questions which can be answered just by reading the stickies. I don't mind answering these questions, but I just wanted to let you know for future reference.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 10:16 am


Oni-Angel
ChaoticIntervention
Oh and BTW I forgot to add what is foreplay???


It's the kind of sexual "play" that you do before having sex. Kinda like warming you up for the main event! 3nodding

Yep. 3nodding Teh smart Oni-Angel beat me to it.
Foreplay is what she said - a sexual "play" that people do before sex. It can include erotic or sensual things (taking a bath together, oral sex), or more minor things, like kissing or touching or stimulating with hands, etc. Anything to get the people involved aroused and prepared for sex.

Nikolita
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x-ImperfectPrincess-x

PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 1:31 pm


Crap Ijust read all of that... that was long but oh well. umm thanks for answering all of the qhuestions anyways xd thanks bye.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 2:28 pm


9 Loocks down and toris not to criy

Amber_Sciys


Lady Roa

PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 4:21 pm


I was eleven when I was grabbed by 3 grade seven guys.

I still don't call it losing my virginity. They broke the hymen, that's it. I haven't given anything up yet. *is stubborn*
PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 5:07 pm


Roa Michiyo
I was eleven when I was grabbed by 3 grade seven guys.

I still don't call it losing my virginity. They broke the hymen, that's it. I haven't given anything up yet. *is stubborn*
well, if you didnt want to be grabbed I hope you reported them.

Music Never Stops


The Eighth House

PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 11:21 pm


Eh. Heh. Um. This is going to sound pretty bad. *cough*

I'm 13 right now and have only had sex with other girls. I can't be with my boyfriend right now, but if I could, that would already be done.

...And now somebodies going to flame me about how I'm so immature and not old enough.

I'm not going to listen.

whee
PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 10:38 am


Sixteen, still a virgin. Boyfriend is nineteen, still a virgin.

Also, ChaoticIntervention, I got my period a month before my thirteenth birthday, and I've switched pretty much entirely to tampons now. Unless they leak you don't even know they're there - as in, you can't feel them. Great for sports and swimming, although they do carry a TSS risk. But if you use them properly there should be no problem.

Fran Salaska


x-ImperfectPrincess-x

PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 10:02 pm


Okay thank you Rinaqa. I was just curious because of my situation with my mum and sis and swimming I started using them earlier than what I figured most girlsdo... Yep and I think I was right!! The whole TSS thing sorta frks me out buuuut 2 bad because they are just so much more convenient and pads feel like diapers. xd L8r.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 10:26 pm


Roa Michiyo
I was eleven when I was grabbed by 3 grade seven guys.

I still don't call it losing my virginity. They broke the hymen, that's it. I haven't given anything up yet. *is stubborn*
i know how you fee.l it was my step brother, i was 9. crying eek

Amber_Sciys


+silLLy_d0rk+

PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 4:23 am


i lost my virginity when i was 14. I felt ready at the time & i was in a serious relationship
PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 6:03 pm


Well I'm still a virgin at 20, I just haven't found a guy I want to be with yet.

Fairy Sonia


MidgetteMaki

PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 6:38 pm


I haven't and don't plan to any time soon. 3nodding
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