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 Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 11:31 am
I have no issues with skinny guys or muscley guys. Actually I tend to find them more attractive. Mostly because they have something I don't which is of course....no flab. I'm very insecure about showing of my body though. Which kinda makes it really hard when my soft and cuddly boyfriend wants to get intimate with me. That and I feel I'm not attracted to him but we've only been going out for a month now. And I'm just ranting.
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 12:54 pm
I feel that when I'm with an attractive male, my ugliness is emphasized. I mean, compared to them I look horribly fat, and we look like strangely mismatched people. I can't help but think in my mind that people are wondering "What's he doing with a girl like that?"
My last boyfriend was very skinny compared to me. We got along just fine, but it took a lot for me to be willing to be seen in public holding hands with him. I didnt want to get judged, I guess.
Another thing is I kind of just hope to God they dont notice certain flaws, and when they pay attention to them it makes me even more insecure than before.
Uhh... yep. I still think skinny boys are cute though. 3nodding heart
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Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 3:25 pm
I'm afraid of skinny guys..
and yes thats because.. i'm afraid it would be a sick joke.. ._.
i have no self confidence whatsoever and thats all thanks to me ''former friends'' there wa sthis guy i liked.. he was skinny and i'm fat.. well and i told my friends.
so my friends laughed at me and went to this guy.
they had him PRETEND to like me.. and then tell me to go loose weight or die.. o.o; [i'm making no sense am i?]
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 7:38 am
[.+ Pyromaniac +.]
I'm afraid of skinny guys..
and yes thats because.. i'm afraid it would be a sick joke.. ._.
i have no self confidence whatsoever and thats all thanks to me ''former friends'' there wa sthis guy i liked.. he was skinny and i'm fat.. well and i told my friends.
so my friends laughed at me and went to this guy.
they had him PRETEND to like me.. and then tell me to go loose weight or die.. o.o; [i'm making no sense am i?]
You made sense.. and that's horrible.. sad Don't be afraid of 'skinny' guys because your friends and him were assholes. Obviously not everyone is like that. This guild is proof. And if you're always afraid..you could miss out on someone great.
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 4:53 pm
Yumi Yasha I have no issues with skinny guys or muscley guys. Actually I tend to find them more attractive. Mostly because they have something I don't which is of course....no flab. I'm very insecure about showing of my body though. Which kinda makes it really hard when my soft and cuddly boyfriend wants to get intimate with me. That and I feel I'm not attracted to him but we've only been going out for a month now. And I'm just ranting. Aww. =( You know, you don't have to settle with somebody who's not attractive to you, and there are lots of guys who would find you attractive. Flab is teh smex. x3
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 9:42 pm
I always say that I'm afraid of skinny guys because if we ever had sex, I'd be afraid of breaking them.
There are certain males, however, especially in this guild, that I wouldn't mind giving it a try though. You know, just to see if they really would break. wink
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 10:00 pm
I assure you, were are far more durable than we appear. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 11:57 am
Fuzzy Necromancer I assure you, were are far more durable than we appear. 3nodding Feel like proving me wrong? wink heart
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 1:26 pm
*agrees with Fuzzy* Yes, very much so. We don't exactly break that easily, then again, I say I'm fat, lol. Yet you women all say I'm not, so meh. stressed
I'm sure the guys here wouldn't mind letting you test your theory though, I know I wouldn't, lol sweatdrop ninja
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 2:21 pm
*Sigh.* If only there were boys around here who openly felt that way.
Ohhh welllll. heart That's why SnS is a magical place.
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 9:09 pm
Eh.. I'm female and sometimes I don't even understand. I'm on the skinnier side of being fat. (Just a little chubby) So, people would concider me average. But, I love bigger girls, I know that one girl I really liked used to avoid me and I always felt weird about it. I thought I was ugly or something. But, then she said I was, "Trying to set her up for a prank because no one likes a fat girl." I seriously felt so bad... I think it's that people will put people so far down in the slums about their body saying it's not perfect because it's not a size 2, and girls start to think they're ugly because of it and start to feel self concious and think people are out to get them or make fun of them. I say screw those people who say you need to be a size two. Everyone is beautiful to differnt people.
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 9:38 pm
kristinarr *Sigh.* If only there were boys around here who openly felt that way. Ohhh welllll. heart That's why SnS is a magical place. Where do you live? *has been wanting to move somewhere new anyway*
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 9:43 pm
Locke_Dirks kristinarr *Sigh.* If only there were boys around here who openly felt that way. Ohhh welllll. heart That's why SnS is a magical place. Where do you live? *has been wanting to move somewhere new anyway* Blech. Wisconsin. I wouldn't recommend it.
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 11:06 am
Duuuuuudettte!
You dwell in the land of Cheese and Firecrackers? =o
Tre awesome!
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 12:28 pm
You say too late to start with your heart in a headlock
I'm always afraid of handsome guys.
Recently one broke my heart.
I liked him, he knew.
We got a picture taken together backstage during Brigadoon, he wrapped his arms around me in a hug during the picture.
I asked him to prom, he said "I'm going alone"
Story ends there.
Another guy I liked said he didn't like me that way. We still talk to each other occasionally, but I pine for him. I really,really liked him. Like a lot.
When he said he didn't like me I cried all day. Then I saw him that evening and cried some more.
So of course because of bad experiences, yes...I am afraid of handsome guys. Guys around HoCo are superficial twats that don't know a real woman when they see her.
You know you're better than this
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