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Divash

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 2:24 pm


Moonlite Symphony
That's fine I suppose. I haven't got anything worthwhile to say to it. I don't believe any of that stuff anyway.


*grin* Must be a lot easier to get dressed in the morning for you, then!
PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 7:02 pm


I have to say, to some extent I agree with Muslim women who feel that modest attire is liberating, in that it draws the focus away from your body and appearance to your actions and deeds. People see you for what you say and do rather than how you look.

Also, nobody has mentioned that there are modesty laws for men in many religions as well, such as in some sects of Islam and in Orthodox Judaism. (Men don't cover their heads with a kufi or a kippah for nothing!)

And to a certain extent, women traditionally dress the way they do in Islam because of the climate in the Middle East. Notice that men often wear keffiyah in Arab cultures, even when they are not Muslim, because it helps them keep their heads warm in the desert at night, and also keeps the sand out of their face in the day. Women traditionally wear hijab partly for that reason.

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 1:33 pm


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I have to say, to some extent I agree with Muslim women who feel that modest attire is liberating, in that it draws the focus away from your body and appearance to your actions and deeds. People see you for what you say and do rather than how you look.

Also, nobody has mentioned that there are modesty laws for men in many religions as well, such as in some sects of Islam and in Orthodox Judaism. (Men don't cover their heads with a kufi or a kippah for nothing!)

And to a certain extent, women traditionally dress the way they do in Islam because of the climate in the Middle East. Notice that men often wear keffiyah in Arab cultures, even when they are not Muslim, because it helps them keep their heads warm in the desert at night, and also keeps the sand out of their face in the day. Women traditionally wear hijab partly for that reason.


Actually, I believe I did mention the Orthodox Jewish requirements for men's modesty. I focused more on women's requirements solely because those are the requirements I follow myself, so I know more about them.

In the Middle East, where both Islam and Judaism were born, one could tell the status of a person by how much they wore. Slaves were undressed much of the time. It enabled their masters to save money or labor on providing clothing for them, as well as making them obviously available for "use" by anyone (with the master's permission). Furthermore, it left them without protection, should they choose to flee their master's home -- clothing keeps moisture within the body so one doesn't get dehydrated, and it also protects from cold, sunburn, and the abrasions of sandstorms. Furthermore, loose clothing allows air to circulate beneath it, cooling the body in hotter climates.

By contrast, the higher one's status, the more clothing one could wear. This was because one could show that one could afford more clothing, and also to indicate that the highborn person was not to be oggled and objectified. Clothing which conceals skin and disguises one's exact shape is a sign of nobility. I wear modest clothing for this reason, which is common to Judaism and Islam. If I wear a tight shirt or a mini-skirt, people think either, "I'd like to sleep with her," or "I'd never sleep with her." They are drawn to me, or reject me, based solely on the way I look. But if I wear modest attire, people automatically think, "I wonder what she believes, that causes her to dress this way." It subtly forces people to deal with my thoughts, values, and beliefs rather than with my appearance. It is empowering and liberating, allowing me to view myself as a person of nobility and others to view me as a person of thought and emotion rather than just a body they might want to touch.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 2:16 am


modesty laws pertaining to women in Judaism were created with the idea that while women are on a higher and holier spiritual plane than men, men are so weak that they cannot stand to see the curvetures (elbows, knees, collarbones, and not to mention private areas) without having ungodly thoughts, thus driving their minds away from their prayers. so womens modestly laws are created to prevent men from focusing on anything but her words and her mind, so that she would be appreciated for the holy person she was. mens modesty laws were created (again0 to keep their mind on G-d. a kippah is woren to constantly remind a man that he is always in the presence of G-d and should act as such. his tzitzit katan is to remind him of the mitvot he is obligated to and he should always make an effort to look nice to honor this presence of G-d. women are not covered up because they are dirty things to be hidden, completely wrong! they are beautiful people who have just as much beauty inside as out and both should always be recognized. this is why we have modesty law (or how i understand it, but i am very sleepy so i might have left something out).
Shalom!

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 3:12 pm


I believe the modesty laws had to intertwine with their laws of morality and behavior. Such as... say adultery. or promiscuous behavior, it is frowned upon, to help people from not committing any of those acts... laws of modesty are developed to cut the imagination short of anything... inappropriate...
PostPosted: Fri Apr 27, 2007 8:00 pm


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1 Timothy 2:9 says that women should dress modestly and not adorn themselves.

I Corinthians 11:13-16 states that women shall grow their hair long rather than wear a veil to cover themselves

1 Peter 3:3 says that wives shouldn't adorn themselves

Deuteronomy 22:5 says that women shouldn't wear pants and men shouldn't wear dresses or skirts

Isaiah 3:16-23 God will destroy women who wear ornament

And I'm sure there are others, these are just the ones I've Googled on short notice. I'm not Christian, but this was the easiest to go with razz . This is why Pentacostal, Mennonite, and conservative Quaker women wear long skirts, long hair, and little to no makeup and jewelry.

Looking at the context, though, it can be seen that God wanted people to follow that because they could not be confused with the local pagans, who had prostitutes at the temple who braided their hair and wore jewelry, and that was how one was distinguished as one of them (a pagan). I'm a Christian, but I don't believe that applies today.

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:51 pm


Well, I'm agnostic and my beliefs are probably most close to Wiccan (if only because that was the last religion I experimented with) so there are no modesty laws I follow, other than my own desire not to be seen as a whore. However, I can understand what many others are saying about clothing laws being used so that people see what is inside a person, and not what she looks like, or to remind men that they are in the presence of God.... I don't know why I'm posting, since I have nothing valid to add to this topic.... But I'm going to stick around and lurk for a little while... ninja
PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 10:36 pm


You know, you probably wouldn't believe it, but in the really deep occult world, some of those people dress like they think they are freaking rock stars. Some of them are so vain and hot on themselves that you wouldn't believe it. I was surprised personally. I figured they would all be wandering around in robes, taking themselves quite seriously. I was completely weirded out when I heard that from my friend.

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PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2007 10:48 am


Divash

The verse is almost surely directed against rites in Syrian religion during Biblical times, in which men and women exchanged garments with one another as a prelude to idolatrous worship and/or public sexual rites, both of which are forbidden to Jews.

Public sexual rites were performed to encourage fertility, not only of men and women, but of the land, and were/are NOTHING to be ashamed about. They were also religious rites in reverence of one of the many similar goddesses in the area who claimed dominion over fertility, among other things.

I understand that your faith decrees the worship/reverence of other deities as heretical/idolatrous, especially when such rites include symbolic referrence (i.e. an idol); however, in this context, you should note that an idol is used in worship, not that an idol is worshipped.

Furthermore, although I am not Wiccan, I admire the Initiatory Wiccan tradition of conducting ritual skyclad (i.e. in the nude) as a declaration of one's freedom.
It is my personal understanding that one is modest through one's actions and not by the content of their attire.
PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2007 12:41 pm


Lila Malvae
Divash

The verse is almost surely directed against rites in Syrian religion during Biblical times, in which men and women exchanged garments with one another as a prelude to idolatrous worship and/or public sexual rites, both of which are forbidden to Jews.

Public sexual rites were performed to encourage fertility, not only of men and women, but of the land, and were/are NOTHING to be ashamed about. They were also religious rites in reverence of one of the many similar goddesses in the area who claimed dominion over fertility, among other things.

I understand that your faith decrees the worship/reverence of other deities as heretical/idolatrous, especially when such rites include symbolic referrence (i.e. an idol); however, in this context, you should note that an idol is used in worship, not that an idol is worshipped.

Furthermore, although I am not Wiccan, I admire the Initiatory Wiccan tradition of conducting ritual skyclad (i.e. in the nude) as a declaration of one's freedom.
It is my personal understanding that one is modest through one's actions and not by the content of their attire.


I think you're arguing against something she's not saying. She never said the worship was something to be ashamed of, but rather that it was forbidden to Jews (and it is, quite clearly, in the Bible).

Also, there were ancient traditions that actually worshiped idols, though I don't know about the Syraic ones specifically, and even then, "graven images" of all kinds are forbidden in Judaism, so, from a Jewish standpoint, not much distinction would be made.

And I believe both action and attire can be modest. In fact, I think being in the nude can make it more easy to be modest than wearing short skirts and tube tops, because, well, those clothes are worn typically for the purpose of flaunting one's body, which can be considered immodest, while being in the nude is a natural state, and not necessarily intended to flaunt one's body.

Does that last part make any sense?

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PostPosted: Mon May 28, 2007 2:36 pm


Lila Malvae
Divash

The verse is almost surely directed against rites in Syrian religion during Biblical times, in which men and women exchanged garments with one another as a prelude to idolatrous worship and/or public sexual rites, both of which are forbidden to Jews.

Public sexual rites were performed to encourage fertility, not only of men and women, but of the land, and were/are NOTHING to be ashamed about. They were also religious rites in reverence of one of the many similar goddesses in the area who claimed dominion over fertility, among other things.

I understand that your faith decrees the worship/reverence of other deities as heretical/idolatrous, especially when such rites include symbolic referrence (i.e. an idol); however, in this context, you should note that an idol is used in worship, not that an idol is worshipped.

Furthermore, although I am not Wiccan, I admire the Initiatory Wiccan tradition of conducting ritual skyclad (i.e. in the nude) as a declaration of one's freedom.
It is my personal understanding that one is modest through one's actions and not by the content of their attire.


I've never claimed that public fertility rites were shameful in any way, only that they're not permitted to Jews. I'm aware that idols are not the objects of worship, as well; they simply act as a reminder of the object of worship.

For anyone who thinks, "Why forbid something to Jews and not to non-Jews," I'll point to other things which are good for some people and bad for some people. Shellfish. Peanuts. Limes. Milk. Penicillin. Fish. Wheat. Those are all healthy, nutritious foods -- for most people. For some people, they can be problematic. For some, they can be deadly. Therefore, if you've got an allergy to one of those foods, that food is effectively forbidden to you. Well, according to Jewish law which is outlined in the Torah, Jews have a soul-allergy to certain foods and to certain behaviors. No, they don't kill us, but they do have negative effects upon us, and not on other people.

People who have allergies to peanuts don't necessarily want to stop others from eating them, but rather, they don't want to eat peanuts for themselves, and the more severe allergies can be deadly even if there's simply peanut-breath in the air (which is why if you have a deadly allergy, you should call up an airline and make sure they're not serving anything of that type of food on your flight -- the air is recycled, but not cleaned, so you could die just because other people have eaten what will harm you).

Finally, Jewish modesty laws do concern attire. But they also concern a person's behaviors, words, the way they look at other people, the tone of voice. Most of the time when people discuss modesty, they're focusing on the outwardly visible sign of it (attire), however, rather than the deeper issue of mindset, which is much harder to identify and judge. It takes time to learn someone's mindset, while it takes no time and all to look and decide, "Yeah, that person's dressing to present themselves as available to the world."
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