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My first times...

My first kiss was with my first boyfriend (Andy). We had a lot of them same friends in 8th grade, but never met face to face. We started talking online one day because I had a computer problem (he's like a computer genius) and we hit it off right away. For 4 months we IM'd each other constantly. After a while we exchanged phone numbers, and talked on the phone a lot. We decided to meet in real life for the first time (with a mutual friend) on March 8th, 2003. That was our first date (my first ever date, really).

Three weeks later (the 29th) we were at another mall, and we decided to go see Head of State (I still have the ticket!). We were about half way through the movie, and I was snuggling with him, and I just gave him a tiny peck on the lips. He just completely surprised me by giving me a total French kiss, but I liked it.

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The first time I got/gave head was some day during Spring Break in the 9th grade. I left my house early in the morning and told my brother I was going to the mall a few towns over to hang out with my friends who lived there. I hopped a bus and rode for a really long time to get to the station by my boyfriend's house (Andy, again). I walked a few blocks before meeting up with him, and we went to his house. His parents were both at work, and we had secretly planned our get together for a while (we had been together for about a month).

We went downstairs to his game room (you know: video games, slot machine, etc) and made out, and eventually moved into his bedroom. We weren't really ready to have sex, as I was only 14 and he was 3 months younger than me. But we did give each other oral. It was also my first time being fingered, and oh my god. Andy was so good at it. He knows just where and how to touch a girl...

But as far as I know, he hasn't had a girlfriend since we broke up (3 1/2 years ago) and is still a virgin.

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I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I had been friends with Jacob for 6 months, and I was totally in love with him, even though he'd been on and off with his girlfriend for 6 years. His girlfriend knew that we had something going on, and he had told her that he was in love with me. We had promised her that we wouldn't do anything beyond cuddling, but that night we broke our promise.

We were watching our favorite movie, Moulin Rouge, and I loved him so much and I wanted to share myself completely with him. I started crying and told him that I wanted to have sex with him. He asked me a few times if I was really sure that I wanted to, and I said yes. He was a lot more experienced than me (he'd been with about 30 or 40 girls). And like most first times, it was completely unsatisfying.

Apparently I am pretty tight, and his girlfriend was really loose, and he wasn't used to a tight fit. He came after about a minute, and I didn't feel anything the whole time except for some pressure.

It got better as we kept doing it though. Eventually he broke up with his girlfriend and we started going out. We dated for almost two years, and a few months before we broke up we got a hotel room (Thanksgiving) and had a six hour marathon. After 6 hours I was just starting to get tired. He needed a break. Before that day our longest session was 3 or 4 hours without a break.

I haven't been with anyone else sexually since him (just over a year now), though a few of my guy friends have offered to help break my 6 hour record and give me my first orgasm. But I don't believe in hookups (no matter how badly I may want to). I told myself I won't do it with someone unless I love them.

I had been dating my boyfriend for 13 months, but we had been very good friends for 2 years before we started dating...

after 9 months of dating we moved in together to go to college...we wanted to wait till marriage and I think we lasted a really long time, but we had been doing other sexual things for some time, and eventually after sleeping in the same bed for so long, we caved....he caved I should say...I had been begging him for weeks, and finally I climbed on top of him and he gave in. It didn't hurt the first time, but it did the second, which I thought was weird...

My first kiss was on the 9th of October 2006 with my first proper boyfriend.
We'd went to the park and just wandered around for a bit. Then we sat on a bench and just talked for a while. Then he walked me back to mine and kissed me outside his house.
First french kiss was 2 days after outside a pub. We were planning on going into town for a drink but only got half way there. We ended up making out outside the pub for a bit.
First time I gave head was on the 29th of October with him aswell. Wasnt really anything special, he was actually quite small lol, and he didnt come or anything.
First tinme I recieved oral was on January 10th with my current boyfriend. We were planning on having sex, but the condom was too small redface . We ended up just giving and recieving oral instead.
First time I had sex was last night. I snuck out the house at 2 in the morning and jogged all the way to his. He snuck me in and we ended up doing it on the sofa, in the bathroom and up against the sink lol. The first 2 thrusts hurt a little, but after that it was fine, and thankfully I didnt bleed lol!

the first time i had sex was with my current fiance at the time. We had been in a relationship for a year now.I was over at his house in texas (we met on the internet)and we went into his room to have sex.WEll, we were going and going the first penitration hurt of course because well we were both virgins(and both 1 cool after awhile we decided to try a different position,doggy style. To put it short he missed. yeah we stopped after that.To only try again later it was much better.

We've been together for about 4 years now and we are planning on getting married next year in July.

i dont know the date of my first time!!!is that bad?

Hm. The first time I was ever touched by a guy was a tiny bit after I turned 15 by a guy named Josh. He was not good at all. His nails were too long, and he just seemed frustrated with even trying with me. Once even tried pressuring me into sex at four in the mourning. I kept saying "I don't know" until he lost his hard-on. Yay.

First time I gave head...It was during this really long and romantic sex with a guy named Andy. Well it was the first time that it lasted over twenty minutes at least. It was my third time having sex. He stayed with me for an hour and a half just having sex. I had no clue what I was doing. Not one bit. Before him I was scared to death of sex, and even touching a guy down there. Anyways he didn't really get anywhere with me doing that. He pretty much had to tell me how to give a blow job. Ha. How wierd.

First time receiving oral was that same night. It was super akward for me since I was kind of uncomfortable having a guy's face down there. I didn't experience anything like that before, and I did like it, but I still always felt uncomfortable. Some day maybe I'll let a guy make me orgasm.

Crazy stuff.

I've only had sex with three guys. I've done stuff with three other guys, but I never let it get too far. I hate flings. Ick.

mmkay. i suppose i shall join in on the "first time" posts.

February 14, 2007
first off my boyfriend and I did NOT know it was Valentines Day when we took the "jump". xp my mum dropped me off at his house at about 6:50 that morning. [she didnt know what was happening. him and i had originally planned to help him with his homework!] but when my mum dropped me off. i went in his side door. and he was sitting there in just a pair of my girl pants. emo ninja he's my emo-skater-stoner-hippie boy. well anywho. we went to his room, [we forgot about his homework] and started to makeout. and when we were just lying there cuddling, we both said at the same time "do you want too?" it was kinda funny. we then grabbed a condom that my friend gave us. and well ya know. it kinda well happened. i was suprised it didnt hurt. and i climaxed about 3 times.[my record is 10] but when we finished we finally realized, "how in the world are we getting to school?" so we kinda freaked out. cuz we both cant afford any absences. so we called all our friends. and finally got a ride from a friend. she laughed at us. all the way to school. cuz we were both uber-happy. and such. but i guess that was an over view of my first time. i'd tell you all of it but it would take awhile to complete. heart sweatdrop 3nodding ninja