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 Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 2:37 am
I don't get hit on as such, I usually get girls coming up to me at shows and rock clubs saying things along the line of "why are you all alone?" and "why do you look so miserable?" then I generally tend to hang out with them the rest of the night as opposed to my friends.
The thing I guess is that I usually fly straight into "friend" territory pretty much from the off. So instead of getting lucky I end up holding their hair back while they shout rainbows into a toilet, then helping them home and ringing them in the morning to see if they feel better.
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Posted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 5:44 pm
Mmm... Last time I was hit on ... well... hm...
I am usually suspicious with the peeps that do approach me. I'm like 'How much are you getting paid?" xDD [bad habit i know]
Well hm.. there was this one time I was at a store. [Trader Joe's Market!] And they give out these random free samples so being the freeloader I am I grabbed a small cuppy thingy. Well the chick handin em out said I was pretty.. I was like .. Mmmm .. thanks. And I tried walking away but she kept asking questions and junk and well it was odd... But thanks to her I questioned my sexuality. [no lie] XD
am now bi-curious.
and I haven't been to a trader joe's in 3 or 4 months.
xP
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Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 9:04 am
Wow.
I wanna get hit on by women crying
This probably sounds terrible, but I don't mean it in a negative way, it's the truth... I only get hit on by black guys. Reasonably attractive ones, but my mom hates the idea of me in a bi-racial relationship (not racist, doesn't care about others having it, she just thinks it'd be hard). Plus, I prefer t3h white guys.
At least seriously, other than my friends who joke with me and that one co-worker who flirts with everyone.
I think she tried to figure out my sexuality the other day, I tell everyone I'm straight even though I'm probably really bi (I've only been with men, I've only had crushes on men, but I see nothing wrong or gross with thinking a girl is pretty and dating a girl if I found one I liked... 'cept my mom would kill me). She was telling me how straight girls are the most fun to mess with because she finds the ones that say they're straight but are really bi-curious and they act so embarassed constantly with her sweatdrop I just nodded and laughed when she was telling me, and one of our male co-workers looked at her when she said it, then he gave me this weird look... I'm guessing because I didn't act grossed out or offended and I didn't say "Oh yeah, I love doing that too". A lot of the people at my job act shocked or grossed out if somebody likes the same gender, but usually it's especially so with guys... I had one co-worker find out another was gay and he asked me "Are you still going to treat him the same?"
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Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2006 10:30 am
I usually get hit on alot...hmm.
I love getting hit on by a girl though because you know you have to look good because when it comes to girls looking at other girls...we're kinda picky and more honest if you're beautiful or not than a guy is (example: guy with skinny girl who has ugly dog face guy: "omgz ur body is rockin...ur beautiful..let's do it!!11!!!"). So it's much more flattering, and bold because it's hard to tell who is a lesbian/bi and who is not.
I think a best girl-hit on was this chick I had known for awhile and I thought was completely straight. Well one day we're hanging out and she just looks at me and goes "Now don't be freaked out, but I'm really attracted to you. And it's weird because you're the only girl I've ever been attracted to in 'that' way."
That had to be the most flattering thing ever.
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Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 5:46 pm
I must find more lesbians, and be hit on by them.
Probably part of it is that I live in Alabama, and when I was at Montevallo (public liberal arts school with a bunch of lesbians) I was a hermit.
Today I think I was hit on.
I was working and selling this guy a large drink, and while I'm fixing it he goes "I got divorced today." Now this guy had to be somewhere around my age, maybe not 20 but give or take a few years... so I seriously doubted it, but because it was so random I just smiled and laughed a bit (I smile when I get nervous or confused) and kept fixing his drink. He goes "Oh, now you're smiling and laughing at my pain." I told him I didn't mean to, but my bosses want me to smile all the time so I was doing that for them. He told me "I remember when I could still smile, I miss it." and I was still confused so I handed him his drink. As he was walking off he was mumbling to himself and all I could make out was "If you're single call me"... So I guess it was him trying to hit on me?
It's a shame, I wish I had his number because even though I have a boyfriend, I liked his techniques and would've called him in hopes of being his friend.
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Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 6:01 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty I must find more lesbians, and be hit on by them.
Probably part of it is that I live in Alabama, and when I was at Montevallo (public liberal arts school with a bunch of lesbians) I was a hermit.
Today I think I was hit on.
I was working and selling this guy a large drink, and while I'm fixing it he goes "I got divorced today." Now this guy had to be somewhere around my age, maybe not 20 but give or take a few years... so I seriously doubted it, but because it was so random I just smiled and laughed a bit (I smile when I get nervous or confused) and kept fixing his drink. He goes "Oh, now you're smiling and laughing at my pain." I told him I didn't mean to, but my bosses want me to smile all the time so I was doing that for them. He told me "I remember when I could still smile, I miss it." and I was still confused so I handed him his drink. As he was walking off he was mumbling to himself and all I could make out was "If you're single call me"... So I guess it was him trying to hit on me?
It's a shame, I wish I had his number because even though I have a boyfriend, I liked his techniques and would've called him in hopes of being his friend. Haha yeah he probably was trying to hit on you. If he didn't really have a divorce I find his technique very cute. When are you going to post pictures of you man? I wanna see 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 6:49 pm
*hits on teh dead pirate ghosty* hey sexeh. *pokes* biggrin
hehe
Oh man ... I got asked out today. [i think]
am so lost. x3
I was bored in geo. so I was messing around with my friend's [Ashley] sidekick. it was cool so i just kept messing with it. out of the blue Valentin looked me dead in the eye and said,
"Would you go out with me if I gave you a dollar?"
Me, being so not used to that stuff, panicked and started laughing.
Me: "Heheh .. sidekick.. ninja "
Well Ashley and Alex [other guy there] looked at him then at me. I was mouthing to them "Shut up. Shut up."
So .. awkward.
Then he kept adding more money and stuff and I was like ... um ... Sidekick? sweatdrop
I have no problem with the guy but if you're gonna ask me out do it right. As in, don't whore yourself out to me. Cheese and rice!
Just made him
Totally less attractive.
I was willing to say yes, [and for free too 3nodding xD] but .. it was just weird maaan.
whee
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 12:24 am
I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I can only think of one time that actually constitutes, in my mind, as being "hit on."
One time I was at the bus stop, and there was this drunk guy there. He needed help catching the right bus, so I decided to help him out by reading the schedule.
At one point, I looked directly into his eyes to ask him a question, and he said, "You're beautiful."
Oh, might I mention he had to be 40 or 50-something xd but I thought it was sweet, and it made me feel good about myself, even if he was drunk.
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:04 am
Haha that's kind of cute.
Well if they don't hit on you then maybe it's time to be a little more outgoing? [I personally think that's pretty hot.]
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:14 am
Little Rachael I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I agree with Lady on this one: confidence is key. There is nothing wrong with your looks at all, yes looks help at first but personality is everything. The brain looks at the world through suggestion, no really what's there. So if you act like you are gorgeous you will soon believe it and so will others. Now personally I think I'm a sexy beast, I'm a size 22 and have acne. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. I've had multiple boyfriends in satifying relationships. And I don't just get FAs, I get the guys who normally date just skinny chicks. I make them change their mind about fat girls. It is ALL personality. Just start standing up straight, chin up, and think of something that makes you smile as you walk down the hallway so you have a happy face and remember that people aren't as mean as you may think they are so don't be scared to come up and talk to them....just don't be afraid, be happy and excited and smile.
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 11:33 am
kissingfategoodbye Little Rachael I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I agree with Lady on this one: confidence is key. There is nothing wrong with your looks at all, yes looks help at first but personality is everything. The brain looks at the world through suggestion, no really what's there. So if you act like you are gorgeous you will soon believe it and so will others. Now personally I think I'm a sexy beast, I'm a size 22 and have acne. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. I've had multiple boyfriends in satifying relationships. And I don't just get FAs, I get the guys who normally date just skinny chicks. I make them change their mind about fat girls. It is ALL personality. Just start standing up straight, chin up, and think of something that makes you smile as you walk down the hallway so you have a happy face and remember that people aren't as mean as you may think they are so don't be scared to come up and talk to them....just don't be afraid, be happy and excited and smile. o.o ... *eye-humps-her* biggrin HI! xd i kid, i kid.
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 2:12 pm
Lady_Valentine kissingfategoodbye Little Rachael I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I agree with Lady on this one: confidence is key. There is nothing wrong with your looks at all, yes looks help at first but personality is everything. The brain looks at the world through suggestion, no really what's there. So if you act like you are gorgeous you will soon believe it and so will others. Now personally I think I'm a sexy beast, I'm a size 22 and have acne. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. I've had multiple boyfriends in satifying relationships. And I don't just get FAs, I get the guys who normally date just skinny chicks. I make them change their mind about fat girls. It is ALL personality. Just start standing up straight, chin up, and think of something that makes you smile as you walk down the hallway so you have a happy face and remember that people aren't as mean as you may think they are so don't be scared to come up and talk to them....just don't be afraid, be happy and excited and smile. o.o ... *eye-humps-her* biggrin HI! xd i kid, i kid.
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 2:28 pm
kissingfategoodbye Lady_Valentine kissingfategoodbye Little Rachael I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I agree with Lady on this one: confidence is key. There is nothing wrong with your looks at all, yes looks help at first but personality is everything. The brain looks at the world through suggestion, no really what's there. So if you act like you are gorgeous you will soon believe it and so will others. Now personally I think I'm a sexy beast, I'm a size 22 and have acne. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. I've had multiple boyfriends in satifying relationships. And I don't just get FAs, I get the guys who normally date just skinny chicks. I make them change their mind about fat girls. It is ALL personality. Just start standing up straight, chin up, and think of something that makes you smile as you walk down the hallway so you have a happy face and remember that people aren't as mean as you may think they are so don't be scared to come up and talk to them....just don't be afraid, be happy and excited and smile. o.o ... *eye-humps-her* biggrin HI! xd i kid, i kid. *tackles* ninja
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 7:10 pm
Lady_Valentine kissingfategoodbye Lady_Valentine kissingfategoodbye Little Rachael I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I agree with Lady on this one: confidence is key. There is nothing wrong with your looks at all, yes looks help at first but personality is everything. The brain looks at the world through suggestion, no really what's there. So if you act like you are gorgeous you will soon believe it and so will others. Now personally I think I'm a sexy beast, I'm a size 22 and have acne. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. I've had multiple boyfriends in satifying relationships. And I don't just get FAs, I get the guys who normally date just skinny chicks. I make them change their mind about fat girls. It is ALL personality. Just start standing up straight, chin up, and think of something that makes you smile as you walk down the hallway so you have a happy face and remember that people aren't as mean as you may think they are so don't be scared to come up and talk to them....just don't be afraid, be happy and excited and smile. o.o ... *eye-humps-her* biggrin HI! xd i kid, i kid. *tackles* ninja *hug*
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Posted: Sat Dec 09, 2006 7:34 pm
kissingfategoodbye Lady_Valentine kissingfategoodbye Lady_Valentine kissingfategoodbye Little Rachael I don't get hit on often. I hear about it from my friends, and sometimes I wonder what's wrong with how I look, that guys never seem interested in me. I agree with Lady on this one: confidence is key. There is nothing wrong with your looks at all, yes looks help at first but personality is everything. The brain looks at the world through suggestion, no really what's there. So if you act like you are gorgeous you will soon believe it and so will others. Now personally I think I'm a sexy beast, I'm a size 22 and have acne. I also have guys hitting on me all the time. I've had multiple boyfriends in satifying relationships. And I don't just get FAs, I get the guys who normally date just skinny chicks. I make them change their mind about fat girls. It is ALL personality. Just start standing up straight, chin up, and think of something that makes you smile as you walk down the hallway so you have a happy face and remember that people aren't as mean as you may think they are so don't be scared to come up and talk to them....just don't be afraid, be happy and excited and smile. o.o ... *eye-humps-her* biggrin HI! xd i kid, i kid. *tackles* ninja *hug* *huggles* xp whee
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