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 Posted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 6:39 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 7:50 pm
Honestly I'd say just be straight forward with her. Ask her to dance and while you are dancing with her tell her how you feel about her and how at that one dance you noticed how truely beautiful she is and that you really truely love her and how you feel about her with this other guy and everything. that's what I wanted my boyfriend to do because somtimes you don't pick up on those subtle hints till it's too late. but I decided to change things I broke one persons heart doing it but I got him on his feet after it and now we are all happy. just be straight forward with her and tell her how you feel.
and for the dance and everything ask her to dance with you for a certain song and then put one of your (her's and yours) faveriot songs on and then do that. I know that I didn't know that my b/f liked me till I decided to tell him straight forward how I felt. and he didn't catch all my hints that I was giving him for like a year and he didn't think that I really liked him.
so yeah just tell your feelings. and if she is a true friend then don't worry about what her reaction will be. and she probibly won't try to embarass you or anything of the sort either.
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Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 3:35 pm
First off, thanks for the advice, but I don't think it will work that well.
I don't know what would go over well. I would probably die. xp
Note the words subtle and non-blunt, got any in that department, especially in the department of seeing whether or not she likes me.
This would be greatly appreciated.
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Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 4:44 pm
but subtle and non-blunt don't always work because sometimes hey don't really get picked up. just tell her you like her and things will be fine. you won't die. it's just being shy and you think too much about what would happen if she really didn't like you. honestly if any guys like a girl even if she dosn't like him back the girl would like it. just try it. it always works like a charm. and if you just flat out tell her she's not going to smack you and run off and try to get away from you. and if you're scared of an awkward moment if she dosn't like you and you tell her you do, then don't worry about it. in love you have to take chances. and it's not like if she find out you like her she's going to hate you or go around telling everyone. Heck today everyone loves nerds and geeks. you really don't have much to worry about.
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Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 7:27 pm
blue_Twilight you won't die. Heck today everyone loves nerds and geeks. you really don't have much to worry about. Oh, I will die. I consider myself a dork. Nerds know how computers work. Geeks drool over how computers work. Dorks just use the comuter and don't worry about the little people who make it work backstage. Until it stops working. Then we whack 'em  !!!
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 9:00 am
Bump! The dance is coming up very fast. Any last minute advice???
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 9:47 am
1: Be yourself! Relax. Most people are too busy worrying about what everyone else is thinking of them to notice anything else.
2: I wouldn't tell the girl on the dance floor. If I were the girl, I'd feel a little trapped. (That may just be me.) I'd find a quiet corner -- note I said corner and not room! -- where neither of you need feel that all eyes are on you. Take a deep breath and tell her simply what you've told us. Blue_Twilight is right about the subtle cues. Relationships take work and even risk-- you can't propose to someone by subtle cues! Not that you are proposing just now but it's similar. You need a definite answer and the only way to get it is to ask. For all you know, she likes you too but doesn't think you're interested because you're too shy to talk to her.
Best of luck!
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 10:36 am
Itesa 2: I wouldn't tell the girl on the dance floor. If I were the girl, I'd feel a little trapped. Just ruin my plans why don't you? Just kidding. Thanks for the advice.
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Posted: Sat Sep 16, 2006 4:33 pm
Please let us know how it went!
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 2:31 pm
Alright, an update on what happened:
I actually was able to ride next to her on the way down. But on the other side was one of her other friends and so we didn't talk that much. The dance was at a branch way far out in the stake, so not many wards showed up. We dance after half an hour, but it was so short that all we really got to talk about is what superpower I could have. (In case you are wondering, it was either ninja skills or extreme mind manipulation.)
Will finish later.
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:27 pm
When we last left our hero, he was dancing with the love interest of the story. Let's find out what happens next!:
Alright so the rest of the dance, I flirted with her and messed around. We were the only ones that were really doing anything. I got tired, and tried to fall asleep in a chair, but the aforementioned guy unpinned the lights above me and woke me up. Then he tried to give me a "purple nurple". Jerk. I got up and pushed him into the wall, twisting his n****e cause I was trying to sleep. I was seriously about to punch him, but, I had my reasons not to:
A. It is the wrong thing to do.
B. She was around, and even though she didn't see the rest of this, she would have seen a fight.
C. I would have gotten my butt kicked...badly...
So I wrote it off as just playing with him. Have any of you ever watched Naruto? Ya' know that lightning stuff that goes on between Naruto and Sasuke in the earlier episodes. Yeah that's what happens between me and him.
So I resume me occupation with sleep until a song I recognize plays. I immediately ask her to dance with me. I don't know what the name of it is, but the lyrics were:
I don't want to run away, but I can't take it I don't understand.
Yeah, you know the song. I didn't talk to her the whole dance, I wanted her to hear the song because it pretty well described what I felt about her. (Well, not all of it.) Also, I was tired. But mostly, I was deciding whether or not to tell her that I liked her. Because of the advice of the people of this guild, I decided not to.
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:49 pm
Riffe When we last left our hero, he was dancing with the love interest of the story. Let's find out what happens next!: That was a funny intro. (Reminds me of my husband smile .) You deserve to be snapped up; too bad for her if she can't see that. Riffe Because of the advice of the people of this guild, I decided not to. Yaaaaaargh. Why???
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 6:57 pm
Itesa Riffe When we last left our hero, he was dancing with the love interest of the story. Let's find out what happens next!: That was a funny intro. (Reminds me of my husband smile .) You deserve to be snapped up; too bad for her if she can't see that. Riffe Because of the advice of the people of this guild, I decided not to. Yaaaaaargh. Why??? Thanks for the compliment. Yeah, I can be funny, but I usually get tongue tied when I say something and it comes out all nonfunny like. I'm way more funny on the internet. Well, keep reading I just didn't want to tell her as I was dancing with her, someone said it would make her feel trapped. It made sense to me.
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 7:28 pm
Back at the dance---
So we were dancing, but I wasn't talking to her, however, I tried to make it clear I wasn't ignoring her. I tried to make eye contact, but she couldn't keep it. (Point one for the guys of the world!) In the car earlier, I had intentionally positioned my arm in a way that it would touch her to she if she was relaxed or not. She jumped/twitched, but seemed okay with it. So I tried the same technique on her hand. I squeezed my grip on her hand a bit, making it less loose. Her hand jumped but once again she was smiling.
The dance felt awkward, but I noticed something...She was smiling... I mean, she was smiling all night, but this was different. This was about me.
I continued to do stuff with her the rest of the dance, my dance with her reinvogorated me, so my occupation with sleep was gone. I didn't sit next to her on the way back, but she fell asleep, so it didn't matter anyway.
That night, I was devoted. I talked to my mom about it. (I have a very close relationship with her) I was committed to writing a note to her to give to her on Sunday, to tell her that I liked her. I wrote it. That's a step.
In the morning, during Sunday school, I said something to her sister about not knowing what Frogger was. (Seriously, I thought everyone had played Frogger, or at least heard of it)
Turns out that that and something else really depressed her sister, and later that day, her mom attacked me about it. Not something her mom would do usually, she's cool. Turns out I really really ticked her off. I apologized, but I still felt really bad. And I didn't know what she would think about me upsetting her sister. And I thought that she should still know what Frogger was.
After church, I got Frogger offline and sent her an e-mail apologizing again. This really helped. Turns out that some stuff in life had upset her and that it was not just me.
After Losing a bunch of Disposition points, I actually managed to regain above my previous level. How's that for extreme mind manipulation?
Whahahahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahha!!!
That's not even all of the story. I also found out that she doesn't like the other guy as much as I thought, it seems more like she could like both of us.
------------------------ heart And Riffe lived happily ever after until Tuesday Night. heart
P.S. I just realized that it was you that suggested I not tell her on the dance floor! Don't Yaaargh me!
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 9:27 am
Riffe I also have a few reasons that I don't talk to her a lot. 1. We don't go to the same school. Hmmm... good point. Email her instead.2. I rarely sit with her at anything. (The main reason for this is that the other guy counts seats and makes sure he sits by her.) What a control freak! Sit by her anyway!3. Anytime we go anywhere in a car, she falls asleep. ha! Minmay! jk. And he's Kyle. hope she dumps him tooOkay Iknow this is taken out of context, but I had to comment. Great job with the dance and stuff. whee
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