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HonestlyThatNeverHappens

PostPosted: Wed Oct 11, 2006 7:22 pm


iMito


Also, there's the economic factor. People choose to be gay because you don't have the children to deal with or pregnancy scares. Plus, they want to take advantage of the marriage benifits of tax breaks.


that is one of the most ignorant claims i have ever heard... you think some people choose to be gay so they wont have kids? wtf is wrong with you? people choose to be gay so they wont have preg scares? god youre stupid...
PostPosted: Wed Oct 11, 2006 7:25 pm


iMito
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Clearly it's a choice. We all know this.


are you effing serious? that's supposed to be sarcastic you idiot...

HonestlyThatNeverHappens


xconfusedx

PostPosted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:30 pm


In 147810748231billion years when the world still has food and water left people will be thanking us gay people for not having kids and adopting others so that the worlds reasources last longer... but its not a choice.. things would be so much eaiser being strait..
PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 2:25 pm


I haven't read the whole thread, because I'm really tired, it's past midnight and I need to go sleep... but here's my two cents:

- Being gay's not natural.

Whatever they may say... I have seen video footage of male bonobos (pigmy chimpanzees) going at it. I have seen video footage of female bonobos going at it. There have been documented accounts of homosexual dolphins, there were cases of male penguins who got together and "adopted" rocks as eggs that stayed together even with the introduction of more females... and I have seen, with my own two lil brown eyes, a pair of male giraffes mating in the wild.

It's found in the "natural" world. Therefore, it's natural.

- The Bible says so [Not only in Leviticus].

Not everyone is Christian. My religion says that we worship God by loving others, regardless of gender. Homosexuals could get married under the laws of my religion. Who's to tell me that Christianity is right and my belief system isn't?

- It's just gross.

That's a matter of opinion. I think male/female sex is gross. But I'm not going to b***h at my straight friends for being cutesy lovey-dovey. It's their right! And it's kinda sickeningly cute.

- It's a choice.

It's a choice to acknowledge who you are, a choice to live as a gay person, a choice to say "I'm going to live the way God made me, and screw what the world says!" But no one chooses to be gay to start with. Why choose to be persecuted by our societies, and even those we love?

Saeth-chan


Taeryyn
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Man-Hungry Ladykiller

PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 5:58 pm


Grotesqke, not that I expect you'll read this, but don't attack other users, please. If you'd actually read most of the thread (it's not very long, so you don't have an excuse), you'd realize that 'mito's playing the devil's advocate. rolleyes
PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 3:06 pm


Saeth-chan
- The Bible says so [Not only in Leviticus].

Not everyone is Christian. My religion says that we worship God by loving others, regardless of gender. Homosexuals could get married under the laws of my religion. Who's to tell me that Christianity is right and my belief system isn't?


Ay, but the sad reality is, for the US at least, you don't matter unless you're Christian, as far as our government's concerned. Of course, they'll protect jewish people, but that's about it. Muslim, pagans, atheists, etc. are all heathens in the eye of our government. This is never stated allowed, but it's very evident.

I do not know the way of most other countries, however, so I can only speak for the United States.

iMito
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nekocatboy

PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 2:37 pm


see your wrong, being gay is a part of everyone. there is no one who isnt even a little bit gay. i just find myself very much attracted to guys. if you think being gay is wrong i have to argue for one reason, love is love. it dosnt matter if its between 2 men, 2 women or a women and a man
PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 11:03 pm


- Being gay's not natural.
Well, the animal kingdom doesn't seem to know this, then. My female dog was having quite the fun time humping another female just the other day. Poor other creature did look scandalized, though. xp

Wikipedia's article on homosexuality here has a theory that homosexual behavior is an evolutionary advantage, for dolphins at least. I don't agree with the theory, but the rather, the idea that it is an evolutionary advantage. There's whole lists of animals that participate in homosexual relationships, ranging from the occasional mating to full courtship and bonding for life while raising young (that are supplied to them, as they do not produce their own).

In Greece & Rome, there were quite a few well-documented lesbians or gays. Sappho, of course. Or perhaps, I believe I read somewhere that Alexander the Great was gay. And c'mon, Socrates & Plato and a whole slew of brilliant young men. To be gay was a sign of masculinity in some of the countries. Greek & Roman mythology certainly have enough homosexual moments to prove that.
There was even a whole army of same-sex lovers. The Sacred Band of Thebes was created because lovers apparently fought better together then random soldiers strung together.
Heck, they even held same-sex relationships in higher esteem then they did male-female ones. Though, the fact that females weren't that high status wise may have played a larger role in that...
In ancient Japanese times, the soldiers often had a younger boy in training that tagged along with each camp. This boy would basically serve as their sexual slave, and though some may find that revolting... it was to boost the morale and health and whatever of the soldiers. I'm not a fan of it, but it does show that outside of Christian society, homosexuality was a known and embraced subject. It certainly wasn't seen as unnatural. If something that has existed in animals for centuries is unnatural, then really... tell me what IS natural.


...wow, I really drifted offtopic. Whoops.

GallopingMaDnEsS


Taeryyn
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Man-Hungry Ladykiller

PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 11:37 am


nekocatboy
see your wrong, being gay is a part of everyone. there is no one who isnt even a little bit gay. i just find myself very much attracted to guys. if you think being gay is wrong i have to argue for one reason, love is love. it dosnt matter if its between 2 men, 2 women or a women and a man


Love is love?
I love Pepsi. I love karate. I love my fish. I love my friends. I love my family. I love my boyfriend.

Don't try and tell me that the the "love" between me and my fish is the same as the love between me and my boyfriend.

Secondly, even Kinsey believed that some people are exclusively straight, and he did a LOT of research. Do you have any proof or evidence to suggest that "everyone is a little bit gay"?
PostPosted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 8:19 pm


being gay is not wrong!!! nowadays, people arent forced to marry by their families or anything, like they used to (unless its part of the religion, which by the way, i think is wrong anyway). apparently we are allowed to love anyone we want... doesnt that mean we are allowed to love ANYONE we want???!!! that means it doesnt matter what race, sex, etc. we are. why should that be illegal or discriminated against? if you love someone a lot, how can you know someone doesnt love someone of the same sex just as much as you love that person of the opposite sex? the bible is written by people of that religion and it is usually the way you SHOULD live not the way you HAVE to live... so you dont have to follow it. you may think its gross, but other people may not!!! most things arent natural... crawling is not natural, but we all crawl at some time in our lives... what is the definition of natural; based on a sense of wrong and right... and love is right no matter what!!!

kitylvr920


[Bunny Luv]

PostPosted: Sat Nov 25, 2006 9:06 pm



Hold the Insomniac all night...


- Being gay's not natural.

Actually, scientific studies have shown that in wolf packs, packs of wild dogs, herds of sheep, and herds of cows, homosexuality is a fairly normal event.

- The Bible says so [Not only in Leviticus].

The Bible also says there's a God and that some dude named Jesus could walk on water. Do you really expect people to believe such hogwash?

- It's just gross.

And sticking your p***s into a slimy cavity that bleeds every month isn't?

- It's a choice.

So is smoking. So is having children. So is watching TV. So is buying a car. Choices don't make things wrong.



I don't have to have these dreams no more
PostPosted: Sun Nov 26, 2006 2:52 pm


iMito
Being gay is wrong. Prove me wrong.

This is more insight for me than anything else, I'm not against homosexuality, clearly. However, I want to see how the members of this guild argue against the arguement condemning them. [Well, maybe not arguement, statement really.]

Contradictory arguements to take into account:

- Being gay's not natural.
- The Bible says so [Not only in Leviticus].
- It's just gross.
- It's a choice.


1. Neither are eyeglasses, automobiles, or polyester. rolleyes It's been known to occur in nature, too.

2. Five words: Seperation of Chruch and State. They can't say it's wrong if it's relating to the bible. I don't even believe in the bible, and most people don't. Biased argument.

3. That's an argument? That's a little like toddlers going 'ew, poopie!'

4. Give me proof. I've heard a theory with evidence that it relates to hormones. A lot of gay people say that they just...never were attracted to the opposite gender. Get over it.

Fluffy the Comic Geek


[Bunny Luv]

PostPosted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 7:10 am


Shoraku The JKF Fan

2. Five words: Seperation of Chruch and State. They can't say it's wrong if it's relating to the bible. I don't even believe in the bible, and most people don't. Biased argument.

Hold the Insomniac all night...



I hate that phrase. It appears nowhere in the Constitution. It was written in a personal letter from Ben Franklin to a friend in France. It has never been used in a legislative or judicial document. Also, most people do believe in the Bible, or at least some religion. True, it may be a biased document, but the Founding Fathers never said that religion couldn't influence politics. They just stated that Congress shall not establish a religion or make a religion "official." There is no seperation of Church and State - look at marrige. Marrige is a Christian institution controlled by the government. Civil unions aren't, but marrige specifically is.

And it doesn't matter if its a biased argument - anything anyone says is biased. I'm biased against this sort of topic because I'm gay. Republicans are biased against Democrats. Libertarians are biased against the government. Everything is biased.



I don't have to have these dreams no more
PostPosted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 2:34 pm


[Bunny Luv]
Shoraku The JKF Fan

2. Five words: Seperation of Chruch and State. They can't say it's wrong if it's relating to the bible. I don't even believe in the bible, and most people don't. Biased argument.

Hold the Insomniac all night...



I hate that phrase. It appears nowhere in the Constitution. It was written in a personal letter from Ben Franklin to a friend in France. It has never been used in a legislative or judicial document. Also, most people do believe in the Bible, or at least some religion. True, it may be a biased document, but the Founding Fathers never said that religion couldn't influence politics. They just stated that Congress shall not establish a religion or make a religion "official." There is no seperation of Church and State - look at marrige. Marrige is a Christian institution controlled by the government. Civil unions aren't, but marrige specifically is.

And it doesn't matter if its a biased argument - anything anyone says is biased. I'm biased against this sort of topic because I'm gay. Republicans are biased against Democrats. Libertarians are biased against the government. Everything is biased.



I don't have to have these dreams no more


Even though there's nothing saying "Seperation of Church and State", the arguement is that by endorsing any given religion, they are being biased towards that religion, and, thus, making it inherently official.

It's either do something in consideration of all religions or none. Thus, the religious text of one religion shouldn't be used as an arguement in government.

iMito
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tamagokoro

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 9:01 pm


iMito

- Being gay's not natural.
- The Bible says so [Not only in Leviticus].
- It's just gross.
- It's a choice.


Ok then, not natural... Lots of people said this already: So is everything man-made. Plus, being gay/bi is at least partailly psychological, as is, for instance, depression. And yet, people are excepting of depressed people for the most part.

The Bible says so.
And if you're not Chrisain? One religion doesn't decide something like this, no matter how wide spread the religion is.

It's just gross.
'Gross' is an opinion, and everyone is entitled to their own opinion, right?

It's a choice.
Again, going back to psychology: You can't control how you feel. You can't just decide one day 'I wanna be gay' and suddenly actually be gay. It's the same thing as saying 'I wanna be sad today' and being honestly, truely sad.
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