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 Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2004 7:49 pm
My perfect guy is, above all, extremely funny. I want a guy that can make me laugh easily. Yes, it's pretty easy to make me laugh, but still...I want a guy who has a GOOD sense of humor, who can joke around and have a good time. Of course, I need him to be serious when necissary, but other than that, as I said, humor in 'my man' is a top priority.
And equally important, 'my man' must be very loyal. No cheaters! My poor low self-esteem can't take that, not to mention my heart. x_x
And, of course, I also have the standard needs: protective (but not overly so), kind, caring, loving, etc. You know, what every girl wants.
If he has the same interests as myself, that would be perfect, but above all, he needs to be himself. I can't love a lie, after all. A guy who's into rock, industrial, techno, anime, manga, video games, going out of the house a lot to have a good time, Harry Potter, reading, etc. is nice, but...not if he's only pretending to like those things for one reason or another. And opposites can attract, you know.
As for physical stuff, I prefer dark hair and bright eyes. Long hair on guys really makes me melt, but only if it looks good on them. I also like tall guys. I'm only 5'1 myself. Hee. ^^ As far as build goes, I prefer healthy bodies, to overweight bodies. I usually don't go for twigs, or those who are obese (unless a few pounds lost would drop them to just overweight), and I don't think I'd ever go for anyone morbidly obese. Just a preference, you know. I can be friends with those people, definitely. ^___^
...Oh! And he must be willing to kill any spider for me. No matter how large, out of reach, or fast. o_o;
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2004 8:41 pm
My ideal guy makes me laugh. And laughs at me. I like laughing with someone. I need to be made fun of, sometimes, and I want a guy who isn't afraid to do so. He has to be nice, and smart enough to hold a conversation with. Can't be ghetto. I've had way too many bad experiences with them for that. Christian is good, or else just respects the fact that I am a Christian, and am not changing for anyone. Open to new ideas. Spontaneous at times, and random. Random is good. Can't be emo. I need someone upbeat, who can keep me upbeat as well. Err... Can't hate my taste in music. Similar music taste is good. Uh... Can't keep stuff from me, has to be honest with me. Someone I'm comfortable talking to. Yeah. That's all I can think of for now.
Oh, and for that physical stuff... Uhh... Brown or blonde hair? Whichever looks better on him. Some guys look good with longer hair, and I like long hair, cause it's fun to play with, but short is good too. Eyes.. brown or blue? I'm not picky. At all, really. Physical appearance isn't everything. Yeah. Taller than me, though. Tall is good. And ... strong. Masculine.
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2004 8:42 pm
Quote: ...Oh! And he must be willing to kill any spider for me. No matter how large, out of reach, or fast. o_o; That rules me out. I will not participate in your sick orgy of green-blooded gore! scream
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2004 8:48 pm
Fuzzy Necromancer That rules me out. I will not participate in your sick orgy of green-blooded gore! scream Heeey...it's not sick. If there is a spider in the house, it must be killed. Unless of course he's willing to take it outside and let it go. But, I've yet to meet anyone (guy or girl) who'd go through all that trouble for a bug. ...and I didn't know they had green blood. o_o
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Posted: Mon Aug 23, 2004 8:54 pm
Eridani Black Fuzzy Necromancer That rules me out. I will not participate in your sick orgy of green-blooded gore! scream Heeey...it's not sick. If there is a spider in the house, it must be killed. Unless of course he's willing to take it outside and let it go. But, I've yet to meet anyone (guy or girl) who'd go through all that trouble for a bug. ...and I didn't know they had green blood. o_o I would. I don't like killing things. I even feel guilty killing a mosquito after it's bloated with my blood. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 2:45 am
Lemon Candies whee My perfect guy would be skinny, but not skin and bones. He wouldn't be overly muscular, although being strong would be a definite plus as long as he didn't have visible muscles. He would be a little sexy, but mostly cute and cuddly. When he held me i'd like to feel all warm and fuzzy and happy inside. whee He'd have to love to snuggle and cuddle, and not need or obsess over too much sex, although he wouldn't avoid sexual situations if i seemed interested. He wouldn't gape at pictures of other girls, or other girls in general, and he wouldn't have a lot of female friends to flirt with constantly. He'd be the type who was faithful and loving, and who would be protective to a certain degree, but not to the point where i'm restricted from things i love. He would also dislike violence, save for movie and video games (because you gotta know action movies rock.). He wouldn't spend more time on video games than anything else, nor would he completely neglect speaking to me in order to go to work or spend time with friends (i don't expect a guy's constant attention, though. a guy who wanted to spend ALL his time with me, and never do anything else would scare me, because people need their space and time to themselves) . He would be kind and caring, and wouldn't hesitate to save a wounded animal or donate a few dollars to a charity on an impulse one day. He would be anti-war and pro peace and love, just like me, and he would have a love for 60s-70s music, as well as be a bit of a hippie like i am. whee He would love obscure movies like Rocky Horror Picture Show or Jesus Christ Superstar, and he wouldn't mind my strange sense of humor or my art. He would have an appreciation for art, although he wouldn't be an artist himself. Maybe a musician or a poet, or a writer. He would be intelligent, much like myself, and he would set his sights high, getting all As and Bs in school for the most part, and taking some advanced classes. He wouldn't be overly into sports, but he would have an appreciation for watching golf or the olympics, and wouldn't mind watching a hockey game on tv, just for kicks. He would shy away from playing sports and wouldn't be on any teams, but wouldn't mind going out with his girlfriend and playing badminton or going on a walk in the park. He'd have a bit of a childish side, but would be rather mature and be able to talk about politics and such. He might not agree with all my political views, but he and i would have such similar views that we would be able to have discussions about world events without arguing over things. Oh! whee And he'd have a feminine side, and would be sensitive, wouldn't be ashamed to like pink and purple things, or cute little kittens. He wouldn't be overly masculine, either, and he would like cats more than dogs >>; xd Wow, thats long. Wow, you really know what you want. xd Most of the stuff you said describes my boyfriend perfectly. (I wouldn't call him feminine though, and he does like sports. Oh yeah, and he likes dogs.) He is perfection to me. *sigh* heart
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:08 am
Fuzzy Necromancer Quote: ...Oh! And he must be willing to kill any spider for me. No matter how large, out of reach, or fast. o_o; That rules me out. I will not participate in your sick orgy of green-blooded gore! scream Yes...spiders have to die. So decrees the queen of aracnaphobes. xp A spider crawled up my leg once when I was wearing shorts and I nearly passed out I was so afraid sweatdrop I should add that to my 'perfect guy' list...has no fear of creatures with more than four legs. (Let a centipiede ANYWHERE near me, could be twelve feet away, and I will COMPLETELY have a mental breakdown and run away.)
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:11 am
La Belle Bleu Fuzzy Necromancer Quote: ...Oh! And he must be willing to kill any spider for me. No matter how large, out of reach, or fast. o_o; That rules me out. I will not participate in your sick orgy of green-blooded gore! scream Yes...spiders have to die. So decrees the queen of aracnaphobes. xp A spider crawled up my leg once when I was wearing shorts and I nearly passed out I was so afraid sweatdrop I should add that to my 'perfect guy' list...has no fear of creatures with more than four legs. (Let a centipiede ANYWHERE near me, could be twelve feet away, and I will COMPLETELY have a mental breakdown and run away.) You dont like spiders i love them ^.^ They are just so cute *recieves weird stares from everyone* what? blaugh
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:25 am
MusicBitch La Belle Bleu Fuzzy Necromancer Quote: ...Oh! And he must be willing to kill any spider for me. No matter how large, out of reach, or fast. o_o; That rules me out. I will not participate in your sick orgy of green-blooded gore! scream Yes...spiders have to die. So decrees the queen of aracnaphobes. xp A spider crawled up my leg once when I was wearing shorts and I nearly passed out I was so afraid sweatdrop I should add that to my 'perfect guy' list...has no fear of creatures with more than four legs. (Let a centipiede ANYWHERE near me, could be twelve feet away, and I will COMPLETELY have a mental breakdown and run away.) You dont like spiders i love them ^.^ They are just so cute *recieves weird stares from everyone* what? blaugh 0shudders- well, to each their own..but I despise the little buggers. Now snakes and lizards I like. I want a gecko! They are so cute...My mom can stand spiders, but if she sees a picture of a snake she'll look away from it.
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:30 am
I have two pet toads Trevor and Milton, they are awesom. I had a nightmare that they got ate last night. sad
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:37 am
I love snakes but i hate lizards kinda weird yes @.@ Now i am mostly afraid of rats and mice *hides in a corner*
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:47 am
hmmm das perfect girl.....
well lesse, body type ive already explained. Somone who i can joke around with and deal with my sarcastic sense of humor, but be serious with me when i need them too. I need someone with a postivie out look on life in general because no one has the perfect life. I LIKE FLAWS. i would never be able to live with a perfect person. i want you to be pissy sometimes or cry, or b***h at things or me, i want you to be shy about things or loud and abrasive sometimes.
someone who likes sports and trys to keep themself healthy. as for taste in music or ideals, opposite attract somtimes, but haveing the same taste in music, clothes, etc is good as well.
i hate ignorant or completely bitchy, spolied or bratty girls. you can have the perfect figure, but looks arent everything. if you are any of those three or put others down you can forget about it. theres no way youll ever look attractive to me.
religion is the farthest thing from my mind. the girl can be pagan/jewish/buddist/catholic whatever. i wouldnt care. i want a girl thats open about life, who likes to experiment with new expericence in general. Someone who can be mature and hold serious conversations with me. but still has that little kid inside of them and doesnt care about being immature and crack jokes.
im the kind of guy who likes to please my girls first, buy them something everyonce in a while, do "things" for them, etc, before im happy. So if shes not happy them im not that happy.
someone who is comfortable with themselves and loves me for me, not because im a big guy or because i like certain things. i want someone who cares for me, faults and all.
.......yeah i guess i woulda posted this here. this is some of the things i look for, but im not uber strict on it....unless said girl is a b***h, brat, spoiled, ignorant, im very strict on that.
.....i guess thats it sweatdrop god im bored, i dunno why i posted it. i already got my ideal girl.....
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:49 am
MusicBitch I love snakes but i hate lizards kinda weird yes @.@ Now i am mostly afraid of rats and mice *hides in a corner* *protects Music from the rodents using the stick of DOOM*
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 11:58 am
Obach Stove MusicBitch I love snakes but i hate lizards kinda weird yes @.@ Now i am mostly afraid of rats and mice *hides in a corner* *protects Music from the rodents using the stick of DOOM* Thank you! *huggs and kisses cheek ^.^*
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Posted: Tue Aug 24, 2004 12:00 pm
MusicBitch Obach Stove MusicBitch I love snakes but i hate lizards kinda weird yes @.@ Now i am mostly afraid of rats and mice *hides in a corner* *protects Music from the rodents using the stick of DOOM* Thank you! *huggs and kisses cheek ^.^* another advantage of being an FA, big girls give awesome hugs! *blushes* redface
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