Well hello there!
So I have a few SoA I can offer your way, if you're at all interested.
For Athalia, if you're looking for some more Ela'wadiyi RP, I have a fellow from the Bird Clan.
He's an adult, but he's really good around younger sorts, and suffers from a hero-complex. He wants his name to become legend someday, but is a very good hearted sort. He likes to save others in need (though not many are ever in need) and feels it's his duty and calling to protect all in the pride.
He just needs some general RP since he doesn't have too many other friends . . .
For Ekrem!
If you'd like him to find a role model, right now I have a rogue whom I think would be a good sort.

This is Jawara. He came from a pride that was full of fighters, so he was big and was supposed to grow up mean and aggressive. Unfortunately for the pride, he was the odd duck in that he never really condoned violence. After the death of some in his family, he left the pride and never looked back. He's definitely laid back and kind of a gentle-giant. He's calm, cool, and composed and is figuring out where to belong. He's a gentle spirit, but is certainly no push over, and any who want to mess with him will see a much more aggressive side.
I like to think of him as a hippy, so . . . I dunno. At the very least I think he might be able to draw out your boy from his shell a little, if that was of any interest. Just thought I'd offer! I just need to get Jawara some more RP and development!
Unforutnately I have no one in the Bahari'mtoto so . . . can't RP with your girl there. >:
For Eros though I have . . . a few differnent options.

Meet Nemanja. He's the god of Apathy. He kind of shows up wherever, and sometimes flops in one place for a very long time. I don't know if he'd fit in any of your girls plots, but she sounds pretty petrified of the world AND aloof. I think if they ever met, it would be interesting to see how she started to respond because . . . well, he has a power where he exudes apathy. The longer someone is around him, the more apathetic they start to become. So it is possible that her secret terror of the world might be lessened by his presence. It's up to you how she might be affected, but . . . I figured I'd offer. MIght let her calm down, even falsly, for a day . . . Given, his apathy can be fatal so he usually avoids others if they stick around for long BUT . . . a little bit wouldn't hurt.

Ngozi might be good for the MINE! plot, if you're at all interested. She's a rogue at the moment, but is super sweet and very gentle in nature. She's always giving and sharing and really doesn't let a persons attitude get her down. She needs some friends, and I think would adore your girl, would look up to her as a friend. . . even if they weren't exactly so. She'd bring her gifts and presents to cheer her up, and generally be a positive influence. Exactly how close they became is up to you, but . . . I don't see her really getting in much trouble. Her father is never arond much, her mother she doesn't know, and she's mostly under the watch of her sister (whose owner I don't think does much RPing in SoA anymore).
She will eventually have some plots and such with a swampie boy but . . . would be interesting to see how she managed her two friends. xD And would be very interesting to see how Eros reacted when she'd talk about her new friend or whatnot. Given, her new friend won't be present in her life for long, and will only show up again when he's on his naming quest but . . .you know. Could be interesting to see what goes down. : P
Anyway, am getting dragged out. I've other options as well, just let me know!