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 Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 11:17 am
To me it's all about the element of surprise. I'm planning to keep it a secret to most people, perhaps have some girlfriends for a while, and then someday...... WHAM!!! I come home holdings hands with a guy and say: "Hi this is my new boyfriend."
My parents would be too shocked to react on it and they'll be forced to accept it. twisted
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 2:13 pm
ease into it, don't go head on in and you may end up giving one of your parents a heartattack.
Mine just kinda... figured it out I guess 'cause I was going out with a girl and all.
Meh, they have to deal with it now, my g/f and I have been together for almost 2 years now, meaning we're serious. 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:47 pm
Hm, I haven't yet. I plan to do it when I move out.
So I don't have to go to counseling or talk to the pastor of their church and tell them I don't believe in god either. I know if I tell them now they'll try to "fix" me and tell me what I'm doing is wrong.
I don't want to go through all that so I'll just wait.
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Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 9:49 pm
[.c**t Commander.] Hm, I haven't yet. I plan to do it when I move out.
So I don't have to go to counseling or talk to the pastor of their church and tell them I don't believe in god either. I know if I tell them now they'll try to "fix" me and tell me what I'm doing is wrong.
I don't want to go through all that so I'll just wait. I will never tell my bi side.
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 2:35 pm
idk...i guess i've always planned on waiting till im outta the house, but i dont know, imean all my friends know and no one in my fam does and yeha it's that thing that i hate hidding it but i know they wont except it
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 8:30 pm
dont come put to your parents till your 19
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:12 am
im_ru i want to really come out to my parents but i dont know how...any suggestions afraid i cant help... as i havent myself... my family are die hard catholics... they probably burn me at the stake... no seriously... im not allowd to go out with guys till 16...lol... (im only 14) and i think mum would die if i went out with a girl... i'll wait till i move and probably never tell my familly...
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:18 am
im_ru they'd say something about it. *example* i had a diary and my ma found and read it and in this one part was me saying about this girl i had a crush on and when my ma confrunted me about that (and everything else in there) she was all asking me these wacked out questions and i think she just forgot/refused to believe/or thinks its just a stage....not a stage though let me tell you yeah... when i told my friends they all told me it was probably just stage... which i told them its not!
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 8:58 am
Mine read my journal. -Shug- They didn't belive it, though.
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:45 pm
my ma sort a kinda found out when she read my diary and when she confrunted me bout it she said it was a stage, didnt believe me, and never mentioned it EVER again...she's crazy and insane!!!
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 12:50 am
I was able to tell my family about a year ago. I just made a big production out of it and acted ridiculous. It was easy for me, because the situation just seemed hilarious. But then, my whole family's kinda weird...
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 5:34 am
YAY! I just came out to my parents! And they accepted it! No questions asked! God I love them! heart heart heart
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Posted: Sat Mar 11, 2006 10:22 am
I haven't told my parents yet that I'm bi, but not because I'm worried to, just that I don't care. My aunt on my mom's side is a lesbian, and her partner was welcomed into the family just fine.
But I'm not too sure about my dad, he's very conservative. But oh well, he didn't want me getting a lip ring, and that didn't stop me. xd
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 1:00 am
His_Excellency YAY! I just came out to my parents! And they accepted it! No questions asked! God I love them! heart heart heart wish my parents were that cool...
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Posted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 11:24 am
i cant come out to parents. or any close guys friends (they're anyi-gay and etc.) my mom might accepted, but she wont like it. uncles in fam wont accept it probably. i dont have to worry about dad, i guess thats one of the good things about not having one, however that may be a factor of why im bi, idk.
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