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 Posted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 11:02 pm
Aurothan Darkheart chezza_kiba Pandaren Battlemaster my cousin's parents aborted their first child smile its not such a big deal . and if its a rape child its gonna remind u always of the incident . forget the pregnancy and forget the incident . then move on but dont have the baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you should have a baby with the person you love not who raped you . its just as easy as that to decide what to do . dont think that its alive and you kill it . its not alive until it breathes . here's another reason to abort it : its gonna grow up to be a ***** or something similar or worst . DONT HAVE THE BABY ! how ******** stupid are you? it is alive before it is even born. that fetus has a heartbeat and yes it also breathes. just because you get pregnant by someone who raped you does not mean you take it out on an innocent being. That child is a miracle from god. That child has a reason for being here just like me or you. No person has the right to take anothers life even before it is born. And how dare you say that child will grow up to something of that. A childs mind is a sponge that can molded the way the parent wants it. you can not say that that child will grow up and be that because you are not its parent nor are you raising. so no just because a rapist knocked you up, doesnt mean you need to take a life of another human being. Ok no offence but i actually find this statement to be very hilarious. xD and this entire argument for one, but anyways time to set it straight and let it die. :3 1. its her choice whether she wants to abort it or not, comin in and saying "KEEP THE BABY!!!" like its truly that important is just pointless, consider the age of the person for one..she is 12 for christs sake...there's is honestly still her education to think about and just cause she's expecting doesnt mean she has to throw her future away for that "child". 2. yes i used "" when i said child because the only thing that truly is to her is a memory..a horrid unforgetful memory of when she was raped, everytime she'll look at it if she keeps it or anything she'll remember what happened to her and 9/10; she'll have a mental and emotional breakdown right infront of it. You all may say or think "oh no thats not true" but it is..its a psychological state of mind she'll be set in..its jsut the way the human brain works, when we see things taht ahd somethign to do with/looks like/has ANY relation to somethign we instantly remember it no matter how long ago it was..that or we'll have a bit of a foggy memory and then suddenly it'll hit them. 3. i honestly have to say go with either abortion or adoption whether you decide to keep it or not. if you decide to let it have a life, my suggestion is set up a plan of getting ti adopted about a week or 2 after its born...not trying to be mean but it sounds like your not ready for a child..especially not one that you didnt truly want. 4. gift from god? what kind of "god" gives someone a child through rape? and when they honeslty might have not even wanted it to begin with, i mean honestly?...let me say this now and this is truly my opinion but im mostly right. There is no god! simple as that..if there was and he was even half the way the "messengers of god" say he is..half the s**t in our world wouldnt even be happening..honestly christianity is just a haze over the eyes of those who blindly follow one who doesnt exist. some of the other religions of the world actually make more sense then that of "god". 5. what do you think her friends are gonna think of her? what do you think anyones gonna think when they see a little teenage girl with a stomach the size of a basketball walking around in school/town/home/wherever, thats another mental sideeffect thats gonna happen to her...nobody will probably believe her except a few and the rest will dub her a whore or a slut or a skank.. 6. her mom is probably all she has right now..her father hates her, and her grandmother doesnt believe her...whats taht say right there? that she's practically -ALL ALONE- 7. sure her stepbro might go to jail IF they win the case...he may already have a prefect allaby set up unless SOMEONE suggests DNA testing..but other then taht its only a set chance he'll go to jail..and for how long? only a few years thats about it..then he'll be back out and after her...from what i know about 60-80% of rapists/molesters who get put behind bars only get a slap on the wrist compared to what they did..plus once they're out they're most likely to come after the person who put them there because they have to be registered as a sex offender and their current job may involve working with children, who knows? they get fired...they cant do much anymore so what do they do? they take their rage out on the one who did this to them. 8. its a family member, technically not blood related but still a family member...that is probably making her very insecure about it..not sayign if it wasnt it wouldnt..but more then most..cause her mind is probably flooded with thoughts of the family being dysfunctional and everyoens otu to hurt her. 9. the baby may possibly die..heck she even said there is a chance that SHE'LL die....or even that they'll BOTH die..really guys? you want to risk a life for one that may not even see the light of day? honestly that just says abortion is needed..you may say "oh there is only a chance though! its not worth one life!" yeah..but just cause they didnt say that there is a 100% chance she'll die..doesnt mean there still isnt the chance she will...and plus remember her age...she's barely had time to really live her life..a child only stops your social life..not joking...all teen mothers once they give birth if they choose to their social life is killed because they must always take care of taht child...plus they have to drop out of school and everything.. 10. the baby might be born, and she might live..but the baby has a health condition or somethign majorly wrong that he/he needs certain meds for..or cant do certain things..heck he/she may have a deformity or be paralyzed or be a vegetative state or be mentally challenged for all we know! a girl of 12 years doesnt need that.. 11. seriously just do what you want though miss..but keep my statements in mind..ive had to deal with this before, and it is not pretty in the least for those who are around it or for the one who's effected by it.. 1. We're here to give positive advice, not make the person feel worse. And not to shout your opinions across the world, either. And really, how is any of this funny to you? 2. Some of that stuff was EXTREMELY disrespectful. Especially the part about there not being a god. Some people think there is; others don't. The whole #4 was verry irrelevant. This is a support and advice guild for molestation and rape, not for religion discussion, dude.
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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 1:19 pm
Insanitys_Kintina yea wat she said and also omfg how old r yu? also advice DO NOT ABORT THE BABY! aborting will leave something of shame if yu do! also wen yu tell yur parents make sure he goes to jail 4 doin dat and just raise the baby and move on ur rite i agree
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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 1:36 pm
ChildoftheMoon14 Aurothan Darkheart chezza_kiba Pandaren Battlemaster my cousin's parents aborted their first child smile its not such a big deal . and if its a rape child its gonna remind u always of the incident . forget the pregnancy and forget the incident . then move on but dont have the baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you should have a baby with the person you love not who raped you . its just as easy as that to decide what to do . dont think that its alive and you kill it . its not alive until it breathes . here's another reason to abort it : its gonna grow up to be a ***** or something similar or worst . DONT HAVE THE BABY ! how ******** stupid are you? it is alive before it is even born. that fetus has a heartbeat and yes it also breathes. just because you get pregnant by someone who raped you does not mean you take it out on an innocent being. That child is a miracle from god. That child has a reason for being here just like me or you. No person has the right to take anothers life even before it is born. And how dare you say that child will grow up to something of that. A childs mind is a sponge that can molded the way the parent wants it. you can not say that that child will grow up and be that because you are not its parent nor are you raising. so no just because a rapist knocked you up, doesnt mean you need to take a life of another human being. Ok no offence but i actually find this statement to be very hilarious. xD and this entire argument for one, but anyways time to set it straight and let it die. :3 1. its her choice whether she wants to abort it or not, comin in and saying "KEEP THE BABY!!!" like its truly that important is just pointless, consider the age of the person for one..she is 12 for christs sake...there's is honestly still her education to think about and just cause she's expecting doesnt mean she has to throw her future away for that "child". 2. yes i used "" when i said child because the only thing that truly is to her is a memory..a horrid unforgetful memory of when she was raped, everytime she'll look at it if she keeps it or anything she'll remember what happened to her and 9/10; she'll have a mental and emotional breakdown right infront of it. You all may say or think "oh no thats not true" but it is..its a psychological state of mind she'll be set in..its jsut the way the human brain works, when we see things taht ahd somethign to do with/looks like/has ANY relation to somethign we instantly remember it no matter how long ago it was..that or we'll have a bit of a foggy memory and then suddenly it'll hit them. 3. i honestly have to say go with either abortion or adoption whether you decide to keep it or not. if you decide to let it have a life, my suggestion is set up a plan of getting ti adopted about a week or 2 after its born...not trying to be mean but it sounds like your not ready for a child..especially not one that you didnt truly want. 4. gift from god? what kind of "god" gives someone a child through rape? and when they honeslty might have not even wanted it to begin with, i mean honestly?...let me say this now and this is truly my opinion but im mostly right. There is no god! simple as that..if there was and he was even half the way the "messengers of god" say he is..half the s**t in our world wouldnt even be happening..honestly christianity is just a haze over the eyes of those who blindly follow one who doesnt exist. some of the other religions of the world actually make more sense then that of "god". 5. what do you think her friends are gonna think of her? what do you think anyones gonna think when they see a little teenage girl with a stomach the size of a basketball walking around in school/town/home/wherever, thats another mental sideeffect thats gonna happen to her...nobody will probably believe her except a few and the rest will dub her a whore or a slut or a skank.. 6. her mom is probably all she has right now..her father hates her, and her grandmother doesnt believe her...whats taht say right there? that she's practically -ALL ALONE- 7. sure her stepbro might go to jail IF they win the case...he may already have a prefect allaby set up unless SOMEONE suggests DNA testing..but other then taht its only a set chance he'll go to jail..and for how long? only a few years thats about it..then he'll be back out and after her...from what i know about 60-80% of rapists/molesters who get put behind bars only get a slap on the wrist compared to what they did..plus once they're out they're most likely to come after the person who put them there because they have to be registered as a sex offender and their current job may involve working with children, who knows? they get fired...they cant do much anymore so what do they do? they take their rage out on the one who did this to them. 8. its a family member, technically not blood related but still a family member...that is probably making her very insecure about it..not sayign if it wasnt it wouldnt..but more then most..cause her mind is probably flooded with thoughts of the family being dysfunctional and everyoens otu to hurt her. 9. the baby may possibly die..heck she even said there is a chance that SHE'LL die....or even that they'll BOTH die..really guys? you want to risk a life for one that may not even see the light of day? honestly that just says abortion is needed..you may say "oh there is only a chance though! its not worth one life!" yeah..but just cause they didnt say that there is a 100% chance she'll die..doesnt mean there still isnt the chance she will...and plus remember her age...she's barely had time to really live her life..a child only stops your social life..not joking...all teen mothers once they give birth if they choose to their social life is killed because they must always take care of taht child...plus they have to drop out of school and everything.. 10. the baby might be born, and she might live..but the baby has a health condition or somethign majorly wrong that he/he needs certain meds for..or cant do certain things..heck he/she may have a deformity or be paralyzed or be a vegetative state or be mentally challenged for all we know! a girl of 12 years doesnt need that.. 11. seriously just do what you want though miss..but keep my statements in mind..ive had to deal with this before, and it is not pretty in the least for those who are around it or for the one who's effected by it.. 1. We're here to give positive advice, not make the person feel worse. And not to shout your opinions across the world, either. And really, how is any of this funny to you? 2. Some of that stuff was EXTREMELY disrespectful. Especially the part about there not being a god. Some people think there is; others don't. The whole #4 was verry irrelevant. This is a support and advice guild for molestation and rape, not for religion discussion, dude. 1. u people r so mean she is just 12 there is a reason for this guild its called support ever heard of it and dude you know something you dont know how 2 type 2.i go with adoption if it survives but stop fighting this guild was created for supporting rape victims not for people to fight over what u want her to do with it even if it does or does not survive or if she does not survive 3.God might have said its her time to go or he might have said this baby does not deserve this so i will let it come in heaven with me 4. who cares if u say there is no god
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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 6:36 pm
Well I'd say give child at least a chance at life. It a boy or girl?
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Posted: Wed Mar 24, 2010 1:43 pm
Aurothan Darkheart chezza_kiba Pandaren Battlemaster my cousin's parents aborted their first child smile its not such a big deal . and if its a rape child its gonna remind u always of the incident . forget the pregnancy and forget the incident . then move on but dont have the baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you should have a baby with the person you love not who raped you . its just as easy as that to decide what to do . dont think that its alive and you kill it . its not alive until it breathes . here's another reason to abort it : its gonna grow up to be a ***** or something similar or worst . DONT HAVE THE BABY ! how ******** stupid are you? it is alive before it is even born. that fetus has a heartbeat and yes it also breathes. just because you get pregnant by someone who raped you does not mean you take it out on an innocent being. That child is a miracle from god. That child has a reason for being here just like me or you. No person has the right to take anothers life even before it is born. And how dare you say that child will grow up to something of that. A childs mind is a sponge that can molded the way the parent wants it. you can not say that that child will grow up and be that because you are not its parent nor are you raising. so no just because a rapist knocked you up, doesnt mean you need to take a life of another human being. Ok no offence but i actually find this statement to be very hilarious. xD and this entire argument for one, but anyways time to set it straight and let it die. :3 1. its her choice whether she wants to abort it or not, comin in and saying "KEEP THE BABY!!!" like its truly that important is just pointless, consider the age of the person for one..she is 12 for christs sake...there's is honestly still her education to think about and just cause she's expecting doesnt mean she has to throw her future away for that "child". 2. yes i used "" when i said child because the only thing that truly is to her is a memory..a horrid unforgetful memory of when she was raped, everytime she'll look at it if she keeps it or anything she'll remember what happened to her and 9/10; she'll have a mental and emotional breakdown right infront of it. You all may say or think "oh no thats not true" but it is..its a psychological state of mind she'll be set in..its jsut the way the human brain works, when we see things taht ahd somethign to do with/looks like/has ANY relation to somethign we instantly remember it no matter how long ago it was..that or we'll have a bit of a foggy memory and then suddenly it'll hit them. 3. i honestly have to say go with either abortion or adoption whether you decide to keep it or not. if you decide to let it have a life, my suggestion is set up a plan of getting ti adopted about a week or 2 after its born...not trying to be mean but it sounds like your not ready for a child..especially not one that you didnt truly want. 4. gift from god? what kind of "god" gives someone a child through rape? and when they honeslty might have not even wanted it to begin with, i mean honestly?...let me say this now and this is truly my opinion but im mostly right. There is no god! simple as that..if there was and he was even half the way the "messengers of god" say he is..half the s**t in our world wouldnt even be happening..honestly christianity is just a haze over the eyes of those who blindly follow one who doesnt exist. some of the other religions of the world actually make more sense then that of "god". 5. what do you think her friends are gonna think of her? what do you think anyones gonna think when they see a little teenage girl with a stomach the size of a basketball walking around in school/town/home/wherever, thats another mental sideeffect thats gonna happen to her...nobody will probably believe her except a few and the rest will dub her a whore or a slut or a skank.. 6. her mom is probably all she has right now..her father hates her, and her grandmother doesnt believe her...whats taht say right there? that she's practically -ALL ALONE- 7. sure her stepbro might go to jail IF they win the case...he may already have a prefect allaby set up unless SOMEONE suggests DNA testing..but other then taht its only a set chance he'll go to jail..and for how long? only a few years thats about it..then he'll be back out and after her...from what i know about 60-80% of rapists/molesters who get put behind bars only get a slap on the wrist compared to what they did..plus once they're out they're most likely to come after the person who put them there because they have to be registered as a sex offender and their current job may involve working with children, who knows? they get fired...they cant do much anymore so what do they do? they take their rage out on the one who did this to them. 8. its a family member, technically not blood related but still a family member...that is probably making her very insecure about it..not sayign if it wasnt it wouldnt..but more then most..cause her mind is probably flooded with thoughts of the family being dysfunctional and everyoens otu to hurt her. 9. the baby may possibly die..heck she even said there is a chance that SHE'LL die....or even that they'll BOTH die..really guys? you want to risk a life for one that may not even see the light of day? honestly that just says abortion is needed..you may say "oh there is only a chance though! its not worth one life!" yeah..but just cause they didnt say that there is a 100% chance she'll die..doesnt mean there still isnt the chance she will...and plus remember her age...she's barely had time to really live her life..a child only stops your social life..not joking...all teen mothers once they give birth if they choose to their social life is killed because they must always take care of taht child...plus they have to drop out of school and everything.. 10. the baby might be born, and she might live..but the baby has a health condition or somethign majorly wrong that he/he needs certain meds for..or cant do certain things..heck he/she may have a deformity or be paralyzed or be a vegetative state or be mentally challenged for all we know! a girl of 12 years doesnt need that.. 11. seriously just do what you want though miss..but keep my statements in mind..ive had to deal with this before, and it is not pretty in the least for those who are around it or for the one who's effected by it.. that was rlly uncalled for >.> especially the part about the religion
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Posted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 3:10 pm
iiEmo Kiitty it died. and i cant stop crying. i am terribly soreh to hear that, that broke meh heart so much, lord give you strength
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Posted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 8:17 pm
iiEmo Kiitty it died. and i cant stop crying. Miscarriage? How far along were you?
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Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 9:10 am
iiEmo Kiitty it died. and i cant stop crying. Oh gosh, D: I'm soo sorry to hear that. : / ~Hugz~
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Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 4:34 pm
That sucks....
TOO LONG TO READ DDD: [took a test for 5 hrs]
Anyways keep the child or give it up for adoption. Abortion is an option. But it will haunt you forever. My science teacher said he knew a couple. They were playing with the luige board [however you spell it], the board called the couple a murderer for killing they're unborn child Amber. That child did nothing like yours. Its not the baby's fault that you got raped. The baby wont become a rapist or fawked up in the brain. Life is hard. Life is what you make of it not because of an incident that messed up your life. ITS YOUR CHOICE TO CHOOSE YOUR OWN LIFE. I can't say I am in the same position as you. I was molested by a relative. I have forgiven the person, but the wound is still there. Only a handful of my friends know this. Not my family. Don't choose abortion. I know a guy who is adopted his parents threw him away like it was nothing and abandoned him. My opinion raise the child or wait until they are 18 to tell them your story of why you had to give them up. If I was in your position I would keeps the baby. Mainly because deep down I know I will love the child no matter what happened to conceive them. Its not the childs fault for what happened to you. Blame the father of your child. The child is completely innocent to begin with. I'm just stating my opinion feel free to ignore it if you don't like my reply.
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Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 4:39 pm
Liarscantbelovers Pandaren Battlemaster my cousin's parents aborted their first child smile its not such a big deal . and if its a rape child its gonna remind u always of the incident . forget the pregnancy and forget the incident . then move on but dont have the baby !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you should have a baby with the person you love not who raped you . its just as easy as that to decide what to do . dont think that its alive and you kill it . its not alive until it breathes . here's another reason to abort it : its gonna grow up to be a ***** or something similar or worst . DONT HAVE THE BABY ! im sorry but thats the most heart less thing ive ever heard! its not the babys fault that is a rape baby! n if uve learned any thing one the sperm and egg have met the baby is avlive n breathing in side of her right now!!!!!!! n as for ur stupid little belif of the baby becoming a predidor or rapist u r soo wrong rapists arnt bore they are regular people that just turn My advice have the baby. love n treat it no less than u would if u were having a baby that u made with ur love k? cus the baby didnt decide his/her father to be n also dont tell the baby how they were concived or who the father is cus then they will feel guilty or something >_< seriously!!!! It doesn't HAVE to be "*****" or whatever, it all depends on HOW THE CHILD IS RAISED.
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 7:03 am
I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm so sorry that your granny doesn't believe u and your dad feels that way to you and about Christianity whether u believe that there is a god or not plz keep it to yourself Pandaren because I do believe in god and this isn't even a religious guild its a guild to support ppl who were raped and/or molested
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Posted: Tue Jul 27, 2010 8:55 am
iiEmo Kiitty kintina_forever yea wat she said and also omfg how old r yu? also advice DO NOT ABORT THE BABY! aborting will leave something of shame if yu do! also wen yu tell yur parents make sure he goes to jail 4 doin dat and just raise the baby and move on I'm 12 years old. Twelve years old, and already had to deal with the pain of miscarriage... I am so sorry for you... -hugs you- I hope you'll be ok...
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Posted: Tue Jul 27, 2010 10:10 am
ii LoVe BrAnDoN seriously!!!! It doesn't HAVE to be "*****" or whatever, it all depends on HOW THE CHILD IS RAISED.
People can be so stupid.
I don't know why people think just because the parents were something means the child will be like that too.
It's unreasonable. And ignorant.
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Posted: Fri Aug 06, 2010 10:38 am
Welcome Bucky ii LoVe BrAnDoN seriously!!!! It doesn't HAVE to be "*****" or whatever, it all depends on HOW THE CHILD IS RAISED.
People can be so stupid.
I don't know why people think just because the parents were something means the child will be like that too.
It's unreasonable. And ignorant.I don't think by that they mean just the parents but the whole eviroment. If the baby grows around alot of crime and rape than the baby will more likely become a criminal.
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