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THe only ex I've ever had (my current boyfriend and I have been going years) took my cat after we broke up. I told the police, but he was jsut like, 'I bought this cat, therefore, it is mine. " but it was for my birthday, and he was in a box with holes (big ones, so I pretty much new it was a cat as soon as he brought him over. Also because he was meowing nonstop, lol) and a big ol' bow and my name on it.

So...I"m just like....."Wha?"

I was just like, "You stole Mr. Fluffers!"
(He named him, not me. I was going for Cat the Imapler. He's got HUGE fangs.)
ANd he was like, "My kitty! Mr. Fluffers is mine!"

Eventually, the police were jsut like, give it back by tomorrow or you will hav to go to court.

Hardcore relationships are hard, at least until you end up living together.
At that point, it's nice. You share the house(relative term), the food, the bed. And since i cna't cook worth a damn, and he's going to a culinary institute, I get gourmet meals pretty much...All the time! He has to practice, and I can't cook...So, I was an ideal candidate for taste testing.

But enough about me and Jace, my super absolutely perfect nad slightly nerdish boyfriend.
(of course, by slightly, I mean he's got all of the star wars movies memorized perfectly. And he wears some sexy glasses, lol)

Noooo Shannnnaaaaaaa! The sex should be because you both enjoy it! I know it's just not some people's bag, but try some different things until you're the one dragging him into bed =P Whenever I get to the point in a relationship where I'm only having sex to please him, and not because just thinking about him makes me hot, it's only a matter of time until he gets replaced with an upgraded model. But that's just me.

@Jynx: That sucks about your cat! Did you eventually get him back?

@Dee: Maybe you're not meant for a relationship. NSA can be fun as long as no one gets attached. I tried that once for a summer and no good came of it. Just like with a hardcore relationship, it's all about finding the right person.


I just spent a few days at my boyfriend's house and it was amazing. That constant nagging worry that I always have at the back of my mind was gone for the first time I can remember. I was completely relaxed and at peace. Normally I'm always in a rush to get on to the next thing, but I was able to take it slow and live in the moment. Of course, the moment I stepped back into my house, the spell was broken and I was an anxious mess. He is definitely someone I could see myself with for good, and he feels the same way. So here's hoping.

There's this guy at work who's been flirting with me for about a week, and part of me is seriously thinking about just going with the flow on this. He seems. . . normal enough--nice enough not to stab me in my sleep, which is great, but a little more than just NSA quality kind of guy. I've not entertained any real thoughts on a relationship until now, but someone from work?

All of my exes I am so happy to not be with anymore... Most of them were selfish, untrustworthy, and douchebaggy. So whatever, hah.
It's so horrible how they act all sweet and nice before you're dating, during dating, and when you decide to be in a relationship with them, they turn into these totally different people. Gosh does it bug me! -_-

I've accepted the possibility of living alone, even though dying alone hurts me. Dying in general sounds so unfavorable to me, since I don't want to believe it just ends, and I have trouble imagining a place after this! (Ehh Im undecidable.) But for the most part, if I had to live alone without love, I think I'd be able to make it. I'd feel sad, but it would be ok. I'm the only one in my house besides my mother and dad(my sisters dont do anything) that do things around the house. I can handle it well, so I'm sure I'd manage living alone better than living with someone else. (Though I could never marry a slob.)

But I'm very happy where I am right now. And YES, nerds ftw. <3 My current boyfriend, who I've been with for around 13 months now, is definitely that type. He's the best, and he barely changed at all after we decided to get together.. Which made me even more happy because I've had that problem with guys. Big clunky glasses(and his are orange tinted, lol), shaggy brown hair and he's such a video game fanatic. This is going to sound so nerdy but we even have our own guild on this MMORPG, he's leader and I'm Co-leader/Officer, eh-heh. Anyways. Out of all the guys I've been with... It's weird but I feel so much different with him than I did with my exes. Like it feels more right. We have our little arguments, but they always end with us sighing about how stupid we are and trying to put the blame on ourselves. (He always tries to make it his fault! I hate it! Then we get into this battle with me saying "No me!" and him saying "nu uh its my fault!"... Its adorable, really.) Sorry for this big long mushy love stuff but he just makes me so happy, and honestly I love bragging about how great of a boyfriend I have.

My current relationship is great.
The only ex that gave me issue was my most recent (about two and a half years ago) and that's only because she tried to hit me with her car.

DO IT!!! xp

LIke a mother. *has been hit twice. died but was revived second time. Gotta love defribulators.*
And Nilla, I got my kitty back. And I got his girlfriend too..THe cat's. Not the ex's.
I was just like, Yay, Mr. FLuffers!!!!!
Then my neighbor comes over and is just like, Yeah, um, sorry to say this, but I"m giving you my cat. She's, um, like, pregnant. So yeah.
And it turns out that my cat was the only male in the neighborhood. I felt like I had a pimp living with me.
I've got most of te kittens, and both of the parents died a while back after living long, happy, fuzz-bucket lives.
Not only that, but I got my Cat the Impaler. }:3 Looks just like his father, except the fangs (if possible) are kind of bigger.
So that was a huge yay moment for me.

And Dee....Try to stalk him.
THen again, maybe not. So....Ask him out or something next time you seee him?