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 Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 4:36 am
Amitzah Alina Sedai: What about Ruth? She wasn't considered a Jew until after her husband died, wasn't she? Yes, and several of the important male figures in the Torah took non-Jewish wives.
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2005 8:44 pm
i'm surrinded by jewish boys!!! not interrested! they all ugly in my class and have overbearing jewish parents, i'm half jewish... THANK G-D! i love myself even more cause i likey the asians!
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2005 8:48 pm
aoi jyuu i'm surrinded by jewish boys!!! not interrested! they all ugly in my class and have overbearing jewish parents, i'm half jewish... THANK G-D! i love myself even more cause i likey the asians! Asians are hot, you got me there. Where do you live, and have you met any nice Jewish boys from outside of your community? Welcome to the guild, BTW. ^^
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Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2005 8:43 am
The guy I'm almost-dating ('cuase we're really not x.x) isn't jewish. I've never really been interested in any Jewish boys except for one, but he's the kind of guy that just about every girl likes and wants to sex up.
In conclusion. I have no story to share and I just felt like posting. I will look forward to dating a jew one day, and then have a horrible horrible time.
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Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2005 11:26 am
Ah, it appears you and I share a love for the everyone-wants-to-sex-him Jewish boys, Coat. xd
SPEAKING OF SEXY JEWISH BOOOOOYS.
Yesterday was totally regional Kadima/USY trip to Islands of Adventure, and if anyone's old enough but hasn't joined youth groups like that...
they're full of hot Jewish boys.
OHMYGOODNESS. Everywhere I looked it was adorable Jewish boys. I'm not exaggerating at all. <33
Anyway. XD
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 9:43 am
I'm dateing a Jewish boy and he is super nice. heart heart heart
I love him so much. When I have finished converting I hope that we will be able to marry.
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 11:30 am
Ok, for finding GOOD jewish guys, I don't know what's in your area, but I have a couple jewish friends which I consider good guys (and I do include myself in that catagory).
I think the real problem is finding good jewish women. I do have issue with not being able to share my religion with my girlfriends (none of them were jewish).
And I promised myself I would never date another southern baptist again.
(Being told you are going to hell anytime religion is brought up is not a very comforting thing)
So anyone religious, other than jewish, is out.
As for children. They will be brought up jewish until such time that I believe they are able to choose. (That means they will have their bar/bat mitzvah.)
I don't have any children yet, so anyone I date has to agree about the children part or no deal.
So as far as the dating non-jewish women, it's not hard if they are open to your religion and don't see it as a burden. (And trust me, some people do.)
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 11:15 pm
My family is the only Jewish one in the area. At my University, there are more Jews but I really haven't met any. My grandparents are pressuring me to join Hillel but so far I haven't. The only people I've dated have been non-jews. My present one offered to give up bread for passover. Z- means well, but doesn't really get it sweatdrop My mom and grandparents would prefer it if I met a nice Jew, but since my mom married and is still happily married to a goy, they don't complain too much.
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 6:20 am
B.longimanus My family is the only Jewish one in the area. At my University, there are more Jews but I really haven't met any. My grandparents are pressuring me to join Hillel but so far I haven't. The only people I've dated have been non-jews. My present one offered to give up bread for passover. Z- means well, but doesn't really get it sweatdrop My mom and grandparents would prefer it if I met a nice Jew, but since my mom married and is still happily married to a goy, they don't complain too much. just find a nice girl that is willing to let you be jewish and such maybe even willing to convert ^.^
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 12:28 pm
I think it's important that if there is a couple, that they be together purpose of eventually marrying 3nodding .
All this "bf/gf with benefits" nonsense in the secular world is useless and has no point. I also beleive the couple should make it clear what they want when they marry - where they will send their kids, how serious each one is in the religion, where they will live, etc...
I am so content with the one I've got heart ::happy::
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 2:05 pm
nathan_ngl I think it's important that if there is a couple, that they be together purpose of eventually marrying 3nodding . All this "bf/gf with benefits" nonsense in the secular world is useless and has no point. I also beleive the couple should make it clear what they want when they marry - where they will send their kids, how serious each one is in the religion, where they will live, etc... I am so content with the one I've got heart ::happy:: lmao my sister jess has like 20 friends with benifits i make fun of her all the time i'm like "so is it that you are so picky or that you just are that ugly" and she's like :laugh: "shut up" lol it's amusing. lol yea i think friends with benifits are so stupid and wrong lol oh yea any guy i date knows that i'm serious about bieng jewish and that i'm nto just goin give it up .. i think that might have been a reason why dan my alst boyfriend dumped me plus i know nothing about star wars
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 2:06 pm
nathan_ngl I think it's important that if there is a couple, that they be together purpose of eventually marrying 3nodding . All this "bf/gf with benefits" nonsense in the secular world is useless and has no point. I also beleive the couple should make it clear what they want when they marry - where they will send their kids, how serious each one is in the religion, where they will live, etc... I am so content with the one I've got heart ::happy:: I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees relationships this way. "Dating around" and having a new significant other every week is hurtful to everyone involved and is unnecessary. Sex without relationships is hurtful with everyone involved even if they don't realize it at the time. I have a clear image of the life I want in the future and I'm not willing to get involved with anybody who has a drastically different vision - i.e anyone who isn't willing to be religious, anyone who isn't Jewish (becoming Orthodox and observant is important to me, and intermarriage would defeat the purpose of my conversion anyway), anyone who doesn't want children, anyone who objects to possibly making aliyah eventually, etc. I've realized that in the frum world, the way dating and marriage is handled really IS much better than in the secular world, even though it's totally backwards to some people. There are a lot of things about this world that threw me off, but as with all things, with understanding comes acceptance.
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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 2:37 pm
I have to say- I feel rather cursed.
I know about 10 Jewish boys not in my family that are my age, and 1 of them is a total jerk, 1 is....ermm.....not the brightest, most good-looking, or really...anything...., and all except 2 I barely know their names...
I did like this guy for a while, but he wasn't Jewish, so I didn't try, as it probably wouldn't have worked. I have nothing against anybody who marries a goy, or a converted person, but my mom is rather adamant in her beliefs that I only marry a Jewish guy.
Question, though. For those Jewish girls who have dated non-Jewish guys, how did it go? sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 2:40 pm
Shoujo Kakumei J-chan nathan_ngl I think it's important that if there is a couple, that they be together purpose of eventually marrying 3nodding . All this "bf/gf with benefits" nonsense in the secular world is useless and has no point. I also beleive the couple should make it clear what they want when they marry - where they will send their kids, how serious each one is in the religion, where they will live, etc... I am so content with the one I've got heart ::happy:: I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees relationships this way. "Dating around" and having a new significant other every week is hurtful to everyone involved and is unnecessary. Sex without relationships is hurtful with everyone involved even if they don't realize it at the time. I have a clear image of the life I want in the future and I'm not willing to get involved with anybody who has a drastically different vision - i.e anyone who isn't willing to be religious, anyone who isn't Jewish (becoming Orthodox and observant is important to me, and intermarriage would defeat the purpose of my conversion anyway), anyone who doesn't want children, anyone who objects to possibly making aliyah eventually, etc. I've realized that in the frum world, the way dating and marriage is handled really IS much better than in the secular world, even though it's totally backwards to some people. There are a lot of things about this world that threw me off, but as with all things, with understanding comes acceptance. brilliantly said, thats why with my last 3 boyfriends i've been like "you know i'm converting to judaism right" with one we dumped eachother after a week, i didnt' expect it to last that long after i found out his parents were ministers. lol. you know this is how i think about it instead of being all upset and even thinking of the idea of giving up on my convertion i say "you know what tina if this guy isn't willing to at least think about respecting your wishes at becoming jewish then he's not worth your time. so just hope to god he dumps you. so you can be the victum ^.^" lol
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 3:10 pm
Shoujo, I definitely agree that the secular world handles dating HORRIBLY, especially younger people. In high school, you start hanging out with a member of the opposite sex (or same sex, if you're known to be so inclined) and are maybe interested in them in a non-platonic manner, all of a sudden you're 'going out'. You can't date a couple of guys, get to know them, decide if you're interested, etc. It's a total pain, and it probably has a lot to do with why I stay out of dating in high school.
That, and the severe lack of nice, observant Jewish boys at my school. The only ones there are people I've known since kindergarten, which is a little strange. I couldn't date any of them, I've known them too long.
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