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 Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 3:01 pm
I've defined myself as asexual before, but I would nowadays classify myself as slightly bi-curious straight. Simply because saying Im' asexual makes some people think I have some kind of hormonal disorder. I just don't feel the need for that kind of relationship, and I'd rather spend my energy on something more intellectual.
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 4:45 am
ShivatheIcePrincess CleverConveyence Retasha I'm pretty sure that it's becuase of Asperger's that I'm asexual. I feel no need for a relationship of any kind from either sex. I've never had a crush, never had a date, never felt any feelings as far as romance is concerned. Who knows? Maybe I'm just weird as everyone I've met who knows that seems to think I am. I can't really say, since I've never known it any other way.
It's not unusual, though. I mean, every girl that's as weird as me is almost always racked with issues out the wazoo, which includes the inability to have a serious relationship.
Ah well, one day... Ditto to that. Same here as well. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 8:46 am
I'm straight, so far as I know. I've had crushes on boys since kindergarten. But as I've gotten older I've found myself occasionally being downright attracted to a girl. But when I actually think of going out there and dating a girl or forming a relationship with one, I feel repulsed. And as flattered as I might be if a girl ever found me attractive, I'd probably want out of that situation very quickly.
Intellectually, I have nothing against homosexuality or bisexuality - nothing. But I have negative biological reactions when I picture myself with another girl. As far as fantasizing about sex with a girl... it can't be a real girl - for me, it has to be a fictional character. Having fantasies about actual women scare me. (Yes, I know it sounds weird, but it's true.) Perhaps it's because this society is so homophobic that my body is afraid of relating to a woman in that manner. Or maybe due to my age I'm still blossoming sexually and I'm trying to figure out how I'm "programmed." Maybe it's both. I don't know.
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 12:29 pm
Well, I'm Asexual. I don't have any crushes on any girls and I'm not gay and I'm not interested in sex right now. I don't see a point really to do it now. I do understand the value of romance, but that's all I want really, romance and not sex. I'd rather like a girl becuase she truely loves me rather than like it the way I do it in the bed. I just don't feel sexually strong right now. I feel like I'm not ready to handle that kind of relationship. Another thing, I don't get why all of these girls are tryin' to attract men with all of these skimmpy clothin'. I doesn't really fit well with my mind. Although I am a man and have natural sexual tendencies, I don't see the point really. I mean, right now, sex is useless to me. Why screw and screw and screw until you fall out when you can just relax and hang out with her as a friend and just talk with her?
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 5:11 am
Angel_Paladin Well, I'm Asexual. I don't have any crushes on any girls and I'm not gay and I'm not interested in sex right now. I don't see a point really to do it now. I do understand the value of romance, but that's all I want really, romance and not sex. I'd rather like a girl becuase she truely loves me rather than like it the way I do it in the bed. I just don't feel sexually strong right now. I feel like I'm not ready to handle that kind of relationship. Another thing, I don't get why all of these girls are tryin' to attract men with all of these skimmpy clothin'. I doesn't really fit well with my mind. Although I am a man and have natural sexual tendencies, I don't see the point really. I mean, right now, sex is useless to me. Why screw and screw and screw until you fall out when you can just relax and hang out with her as a friend and just talk with her? Amen to this, he's so close to me it's like I have a clone O.o When I usually say this, people tend to say I'm gay on the simple acount that I have never dated/kissed a girl (or guy) in my entire life. It's sad really. I'm guessing the number 1 reason people think this is becouse they think I'm an emo kid, since i heard somewhere they most emo kids are usually bisexual/gay. They probably got that stupis steriotype from that. Damn I hate this bullshit.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 7:07 pm
Agreed. When i say i'm not interested in *insert girls name here*, people immediatly assume Im' gay. When i say i'm not gay, they either give me strange looks and walk away or ask me if I'm zoophilic. it gets annoying that people can't understand that I (or we) just don't want a relationship. I'm not of the childfree mentality, as some people on this board are, but I am simply not interested in a relationship. I find private intellectual pursuits much more fulfilling than trying to understand someone of the opposite sex.
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Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 9:37 pm
I understand the opposite sex almost too well, almost all of my friends are girls, it's quite sad really sweatdrop *looks at lack of male presence in friend's list*
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 4:25 am
Bi-Pan
i like and dislike things that make up both sexes.
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Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 11:53 am
Ten Words Agreed. When i say i'm not interested in *insert girls name here*, people immediatly assume Im' gay. When i say i'm not gay, they either give me strange looks and walk away or ask me if I'm zoophilic. it gets annoying that people can't understand that I (or we) just don't want a relationship. I'm not of the childfree mentality, as some people on this board are, but I am simply not interested in a relationship. I find private intellectual pursuits much more fulfilling than trying to understand someone of the opposite sex. They probably just want to mess with you. Unfortunately, us people with AS tend to be easy targets.
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 5:18 am
Mysterytrip They probably just want to mess with you. Unfortunately, us people with AS tend to be easy targets. That's for sure. x.x Sometimes I think one or two of my friends only try to get close to me is because they know I can be easily swayed, or that I'll believe it when they lie to me.
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Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 3:24 pm
I'm not quite sure what I am. I usually call myself bisexual because I'm attracted to both boys and girls, but I've never kissed anyone or participated in any sort of sexual activity with anyone, and to be honest I'm not sure I want to, so I'm not sure if that would make me asexual. I've never been in a relationship, but the only reason they seem to interest me are in a purely emotional way, not sexual, so I just keep confusing myself in that respect. confused
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Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2006 12:12 pm
Eh, I'm straight, but my luffie is transgendered, and I'm perfectly fine with it, I still luffles him!
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 3:08 pm
I'll have to say straight.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 4:05 pm
Avey I understand the opposite sex almost too well, almost all of my friends are girls, it's quite sad really sweatdrop *looks at lack of male presence in friend's list*
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Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 11:01 am
Definately straight, despite spending all my 'developed' years in a special needs school with 90% boys and recieving many 'offers' cause I was told I was extremely cute. sweatdrop
This is why I can say with certainty that no man or woman can 'choose' their sexual orientation because if I was able to choose I would have taken them up on their offers, they were very close friends and mean more to me than almost any girl i've met, and probably would mean even more if I was gay or bisexual.
In early school, before I came to the special needs place with people that had similar problems, I also almost exclusively had girls as friends, because all the boys teased me and were interested in sports and other stuff I found boring. only the girls had enough similarities with me to be worth spending the time to know.
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