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divineseraph

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 10:48 am


Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.

Speaking of the random, far out excuses, I heard one actually use Mary as an excuse for elective abortion. It went something like this.

"Pregnancy cannot occur without having sex. Having sex is a form of implied consent, and thus having sex is consenting to the possibility of pregnancy."

The choicer actually said "People an get pregnant without having sex! One lady did it and people haven't shut up about it for 2000 years!"

neutral srsly? Why would you go out of your way to make such a terrible argument? Fine, any pregnancy that happens without sex, you can go ahead and abort. Statistically speaking, that'd be like, one every 2000 years, at most.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 2:16 pm


divineseraph
Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 2:39 pm


Jazzberry
divineseraph
Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.
Well, any abortion that you choose is going to be elective, including the save your life or your health, if you mean that you choose it. But usually it refers to using abortion as a back up birth control (or God forbid, for something like 46% of women, a first form of birth control), but terming it an elective abortion is a bit nicer since it puts a nicer connotation to it than "Backup birth control," (because who goes into an abortion clinic thinking, "Gee, time for my birth control?"). Emotionally, I feel just as bad for a woman whose partner dies while she's pregnant and she feels she can't raise the child alone as I do for someone who is raped and ends up pregnant. I think that different people are going to experience different situations with different levels of severity, and for some people, being pregnant when they just don't want to be pregnant is just as bad as it is for other people who are pregnant because they were raped.

But when it comes to law, like I said earlier, responsibility factors in. It can be argued that a woman who consented to sex made the choice when she chose to have sex, but you can't say the same for a rape victim. It's not about punishment, but a simple fact that one person bears more responsibility in the situation.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 2:42 pm


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Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.
Well, any abortion that you choose is going to be elective, including the save your life or your health, if you mean that you choose it. But usually it refers to using abortion as a back up birth control (or God forbid, for something like 46% of women, a first form of birth control), but terming it an elective abortion is a bit nicer since it puts a nicer connotation to it than "Backup birth control," (because who goes into an abortion clinic thinking, "Gee, time for my birth control?"). Emotionally, I feel just as bad for a woman whose partner dies while she's pregnant and she feels she can't raise the child alone as I do for someone who is raped and ends up pregnant. I think that different people are going to experience different situations with different levels of severity, and for some people, being pregnant when they just don't want to be pregnant is just as bad as it is for other people who are pregnant because they were raped.

But when it comes to law, like I said earlier, responsibility factors in. It can be argued that a woman who consented to sex made the choice when she chose to have sex, but you can't say the same for a rape victim. It's not about punishment, but a simple fact that one person bears more responsibility in the situation.


Hmm. Whatever you say.

Jazzberry


divineseraph

PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:10 pm


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divineseraph
Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.


This is true, all abortion is technically elective. Let me use a different term. "Abortions in which case the mother consented to sex and thus pregnancy and is in no immediate risk of physical injury". Mentally replace that anywhere I use the term "elective". "Elective" is so much faster than typing out that chunk of text. As Lyme said, it's an issue of responsibility and consent.
PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 10:31 am


Jazzberry
divineseraph
Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.


It is something of a paradox, but basically, it's not elective because the means by which they got pregnant wasn't elective. At least, that's how I see it.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 8:45 pm


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divineseraph
Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.


It is something of a paradox, but basically, it's not elective because the means by which they got pregnant wasn't elective. At least, that's how I see it.
I think that the rape clause would still allow for what I would term "elective abortion" but only in special cases, as opposed to for any women who wanted one (before certain stages of pregnancy in many States). I think of it as more along the lines that "elective abortion" is used to mean "abortion that is chosen just because pregnancy is not wanted" as opposed an abortion recommended by a doctor for health reasons.
PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 9:13 am


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divineseraph
Really. I like when I say I'm against elective abortion, there's always that one choicer who has to pick the most extreme case unrelated to my position.

For example, "What about rape?" - Ok, go for it. Still saving 1.2 million lives then.
"Health risks of the mother!" Ok, still saving 1.1 million lives. But the thing is, they say it like a rape abortion justifies a non-rape abortion, or that if I agree to rape then I'm agreeing to non-rape.

I just tell them that they can keep rape and health of the mother, but we get rid of elective.


Why isn't an abortion because of a rape pregnancy still called an elective abortion?
No one's forcing it on them. They're still choosing it, just maybe for a different reason.

Do the consequences of conception really mark whether an abortion's elective? I don't see how. And I still can't see any way to legislate a rape exception without some serious problems.


It is something of a paradox, but basically, it's not elective because the means by which they got pregnant wasn't elective. At least, that's how I see it.
I think that the rape clause would still allow for what I would term "elective abortion" but only in special cases, as opposed to for any women who wanted one (before certain stages of pregnancy in many States). I think of it as more along the lines that "elective abortion" is used to mean "abortion that is chosen just because pregnancy is not wanted" as opposed an abortion recommended by a doctor for health reasons.


Yes exactly, and that's the idea. I like it when choicers take "rape" to mean "Any pregnancy ever for any reason", or assume that allowing rape abortions also allows general abortions.

divineseraph


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 9:08 pm


divineseraph
Yes exactly, and that's the idea. I like it when choicers take "rape" to mean "Any pregnancy ever for any reason", or assume that allowing rape abortions also allows general abortions.
Right!

It really bothers me when Pro-Choicers say that rape is a reason to keep all abortion legal. I mean, pregnancy caused by rape is pretty rare. And, conception through rape only makes a difference if abortion is illegal to begin with. Because if all abortion is already legal, then a woman who became pregnant through rape can already get an abortion. So rape only matters in this debate if it is an exception to illegal abortion.

I sort of question if people who believe that abortion is only moral if the woman was raped can really be "Pro-Choice" since they only believe a tiny percentage of abortions are ethical.
PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 11:20 pm


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divineseraph
Yes exactly, and that's the idea. I like it when choicers take "rape" to mean "Any pregnancy ever for any reason", or assume that allowing rape abortions also allows general abortions.
Right!

It really bothers me when Pro-Choicers say that rape is a reason to keep all abortion legal. I mean, pregnancy caused by rape is pretty rare. And, conception through rape only makes a difference if abortion is illegal to begin with. Because if all abortion is already legal, then a woman who became pregnant through rape can already get an abortion. So rape only matters in this debate if it is an exception to illegal abortion.

I sort of question if people who believe that abortion is only moral if the woman was raped can really be "Pro-Choice" since they only believe a tiny percentage of abortions are ethical.


What I want to know is what makes a fetus that was conceived by rape any different from a fetus that was conceived from consentsutal (sp?) sex?

A fetus is still a fetus and it's not like it would make the whole trauma of rape go way (they would some serious counseling for that).

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 11:58 pm


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Yes exactly, and that's the idea. I like it when choicers take "rape" to mean "Any pregnancy ever for any reason", or assume that allowing rape abortions also allows general abortions.
Right!

It really bothers me when Pro-Choicers say that rape is a reason to keep all abortion legal. I mean, pregnancy caused by rape is pretty rare. And, conception through rape only makes a difference if abortion is illegal to begin with. Because if all abortion is already legal, then a woman who became pregnant through rape can already get an abortion. So rape only matters in this debate if it is an exception to illegal abortion.

I sort of question if people who believe that abortion is only moral if the woman was raped can really be "Pro-Choice" since they only believe a tiny percentage of abortions are ethical.


What I want to know is what makes a fetus that was conceived by rape any different from a fetus that was conceived from consentsutal (sp?) sex?

A fetus is still a fetus and it's not like it would make the whole trauma of rape go way (they would some serious counseling for that).
This is exactly how I feel about the subject. Yeah, rape is terrible, but the fetus being the result of consensual sex is -not- the primary reason abortion should, in my mind, be illegal; If the fetus is not a human being, equal to born human beings, there's no problem with abortion in any circumstance. If the fetus is, then a rape/incest exception makes no sense; You're punishing the fetus for the sins of the father.

Although I do see the point of saying that bodily integrity holds in this instance, (Because in consensual sex they are accepting the possibility of a baby, voiding their right to bodily integrity, but in rape they aren't) I still feel it's not a strong enough reason to make the exception. And, as Sachiko said, getting an abortion doesn't make the rape any less painful; Only counseling and time can do that.
PostPosted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 6:13 pm


divineseraph
Speaking of the random, far out excuses, I heard one actually use Mary as an excuse for elective abortion. It went something like this.

"Pregnancy cannot occur without having sex. Having sex is a form of implied consent, and thus having sex is consenting to the possibility of pregnancy."

The choicer actually said "People an get pregnant without having sex! One lady did it and people haven't shut up about it for 2000 years!"

neutral srsly? Why would you go out of your way to make such a terrible argument? Fine, any pregnancy that happens without sex, you can go ahead and abort. Statistically speaking, that'd be like, one every 2000 years, at most.


I dunno, if I thought God had intentionally impregnated me, I wouldn't want to risk defying him by aborting the pregnancy...

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divineseraph

PostPosted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 8:45 pm


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divineseraph
Speaking of the random, far out excuses, I heard one actually use Mary as an excuse for elective abortion. It went something like this.

"Pregnancy cannot occur without having sex. Having sex is a form of implied consent, and thus having sex is consenting to the possibility of pregnancy."

The choicer actually said "People an get pregnant without having sex! One lady did it and people haven't shut up about it for 2000 years!"

neutral srsly? Why would you go out of your way to make such a terrible argument? Fine, any pregnancy that happens without sex, you can go ahead and abort. Statistically speaking, that'd be like, one every 2000 years, at most.


I dunno, if I thought God had intentionally impregnated me, I wouldn't want to risk defying him by aborting the pregnancy...


And this from an atheist.

But really, I mean... An angel comes down and is like "Hey, God wants you to have this kid. It's gonna save humanity from evil, the whole nine yards."

"My body my choice!"

*Cosmic ORLY*
PostPosted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 8:02 am


divineseraph
An angel comes down and is like "Hey, God wants you to have this kid. It's gonna save humanity from evil, the whole nine yards."


My first step would not be a pregnancy test, but rather a psychiatric evaluation. "Um...so, like...I'm hearing angels..." eek

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 6:37 am


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divineseraph
An angel comes down and is like "Hey, God wants you to have this kid. It's gonna save humanity from evil, the whole nine yards."


My first step would not be a pregnancy test, but rather a psychiatric evaluation. "Um...so, like...I'm hearing angels..." eek
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