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 Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 3:30 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty lol, I like the working class guy thing.
I actually do find it attractive when guys aren't lazy ********... however, that's mostly what I've dated. *sigh*
One of my boyfriends is totally into the ear thing, lol. If he pisses me off or tries to go home before I'm ready I tease him by playing with his ears, lol... it'll keep him there for an hour extra.
Sorry....ONE of your boyfriends?
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 3:45 pm
Bums... tight shapely bums... redface
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:16 pm
Forced Merit Sorry....ONE of your boyfriends?
I've been ready for my local one and I to break up for months, but I don't want to hurt his feelings so I'm waiting for him to get sick of me and break up... I thought we were 'cause we haven't talked in two weeks then he called and acted like everything was normal... Grr.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 7:24 am
The Dread Pirate Ghosty lol, I like the working class guy thing.
I actually do find it attractive when guys aren't lazy ********... however, that's mostly what I've dated. *sigh*
One of my boyfriends is totally into the ear thing, lol. If he pisses me off or tries to go home before I'm ready I tease him by playing with his ears, lol... it'll keep him there for an hour extra.
i really think it stems off the fact that i grew up in a working class neighborhood...
and my dad also works for a living, and you know that girls always marry their daddies!
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 9:05 am
The Dread Pirate Ghosty Forced Merit Sorry....ONE of your boyfriends?
I've been ready for my local one and I to break up for months, but I don't want to hurt his feelings so I'm waiting for him to get sick of me and break up... I thought we were 'cause we haven't talked in two weeks then he called and acted like everything was normal... Grr.You have (male) Hos in different area codes. Go you, haha. It's probably easier to hurt his feelings in all honesty. Really.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 11:56 am
Forced Merit The Dread Pirate Ghosty Forced Merit Sorry....ONE of your boyfriends?
I've been ready for my local one and I to break up for months, but I don't want to hurt his feelings so I'm waiting for him to get sick of me and break up... I thought we were 'cause we haven't talked in two weeks then he called and acted like everything was normal... Grr.You have (male) Hos in different area codes. Go you, haha. It's probably easier to hurt his feelings in all honesty. Really. Just break it off quickly, I mean speaking from experience I'd have rather just been dumped quickly than slowly picking at it and beating around the bush, if you do things quickly it's shocking, there's a good week of complete desperation, then the guy it back on his feet. Though that was only for me after I stopped thinking about her, every other girl just kept dragging things out, like she wanted to torture me as she dumped me.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 1:14 pm
MangaJoe Forced Merit The Dread Pirate Ghosty Forced Merit Sorry....ONE of your boyfriends?
I've been ready for my local one and I to break up for months, but I don't want to hurt his feelings so I'm waiting for him to get sick of me and break up... I thought we were 'cause we haven't talked in two weeks then he called and acted like everything was normal... Grr.You have (male) Hos in different area codes. Go you, haha. It's probably easier to hurt his feelings in all honesty. Really. Just break it off quickly, I mean speaking from experience I'd have rather just been dumped quickly than slowly picking at it and beating around the bush, if you do things quickly it's shocking, there's a good week of complete desperation, then the guy it back on his feet. Though that was only for me after I stopped thinking about her, every other girl just kept dragging things out, like she wanted to torture me as she dumped me. Which is why I'm saying break it quick. Mine was dragged out for 2 months. It's been 3 months now and to be honest I'm happiest I have ever been.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 1:54 pm
Forced Merit MangaJoe Forced Merit The Dread Pirate Ghosty Forced Merit Sorry....ONE of your boyfriends?
I've been ready for my local one and I to break up for months, but I don't want to hurt his feelings so I'm waiting for him to get sick of me and break up... I thought we were 'cause we haven't talked in two weeks then he called and acted like everything was normal... Grr.You have (male) Hos in different area codes. Go you, haha. It's probably easier to hurt his feelings in all honesty. Really. Just break it off quickly, I mean speaking from experience I'd have rather just been dumped quickly than slowly picking at it and beating around the bush, if you do things quickly it's shocking, there's a good week of complete desperation, then the guy it back on his feet. Though that was only for me after I stopped thinking about her, every other girl just kept dragging things out, like she wanted to torture me as she dumped me. Which is why I'm saying break it quick. Mine was dragged out for 2 months. It's been 3 months now and to be honest I'm happiest I have ever been. My worst break up drug out over nearly a year, not kidding. hahaaha, though the funny part is that was almost 3 or 4 years ago now, and she still tries to call me, maybe she realize I'm worth while, but she can't have me cuz I'm better than that. I'm high class a**! rofl rofl
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 8:15 pm
1.Pulling hair/having mine pulled.
2.Biting.
3.Dominance <3
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 8:27 pm
@ all the guys:
gonk I want to, but he already seems to have issues and insecurities from his other girlfriends, I don't want to be making it worse.
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I mean, first off he'll assume I stayed with the other boyfriend because his p***s is bigger. He has actually made the comment to me before that girls "go for the bigger d**k" and that is totally not the reason why.
He's always asking me if I like hanging out with him and s**t, and if I had a good time... he has to constantly be reassured and I really don't want to be one of those girls that does that...
I asked him why he dated me when I already have a boyfriend and he said "'cause I really like you, and I was hoping maybe you'd choose me instead of the other guy." He's given me the impression that he really likes my personality, and that he's only dated girls in the past who he felt were so-so on personality but that I'm really interesting, hence why he's liking me enough to date me when I have another boyfriend. He also wouldn't tell me he loved me for forever 'cause he said "I've got to be sure, I've been hurt before" and now he says it all the time, so I'd feel aweful breaking up with him now. crying
I'd rather him leave me on his own terms after getting sick of me having two boyfriends :/
I'm also a pansy and don't want to make him upset or hurt at all... I know when I was broken up with I was heart broken... but I was also probably 100 times more in love than he is with me... I just know I wanted to die and I don't want to hurt anybody somewhat like that.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 11:12 pm
The deepest wound you leave when you hurt someone as harshly as you think you can in a short period of time is a scrape to their ego. Just think about a little while, I mean it will be so much better for him to know that he doesn't need to keep asking, he'll be insecure, but damnit that's why Sarah didn't want to break up with me, because I was one of those, "Is everything ok?" kind of guys. You'll start to feel sorry for him, it's not what you need to do, I ended up dumping her I realize... but my reasons were not at all how she was acting... ok partially. Love is a complex mistress, I'm not even in a relationship with the girl I'm dating and yet I'm being as faithful as a married man might, why? Because we have to be worth while to the ones we love, you think the guy you really love is liking the whole 2 boy friends thing? As much as you don't want to hurt anyone, you're hurting 3 people. You, him, and the other guy... it's not a simple appeasement, you need to just be honest... sorry... I'm rambling, it's not my life, but you really are hurting him a lot by keeping up, excuse my words, this painfully sadistic charade of love. In a mess like this, sometimes the person with the most love ends up the most alone.
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 8:38 am
MangaJoe The deepest wound you leave when you hurt someone as harshly as you think you can in a short period of time is a scrape to their ego. Just think about a little while, I mean it will be so much better for him to know that he doesn't need to keep asking, he'll be insecure, but damnit that's why Sarah didn't want to break up with me, because I was one of those, "Is everything ok?" kind of guys. You'll start to feel sorry for him, it's not what you need to do, I ended up dumping her I realize... but my reasons were not at all how she was acting... ok partially. Love is a complex mistress, I'm not even in a relationship with the girl I'm dating and yet I'm being as faithful as a married man might, why? Because we have to be worth while to the ones we love, you think the guy you really love is liking the whole 2 boy friends thing? As much as you don't want to hurt anyone, you're hurting 3 people. You, him, and the other guy... it's not a simple appeasement, you need to just be honest... sorry... I'm rambling, it's not my life, but you really are hurting him a lot by keeping up, excuse my words, this painfully sadistic charade of love. In a mess like this, sometimes the person with the most love ends up the most alone.
But yeah, I just don't have the guts to break it off 'cause I want to be friends and he's not the type to be friends.
My boyfriend I want to stay with actually doesn't care at all. He did at first, but I did such a good job of convincing him the other was no threat and that I wanted to end up with him... heh. He really isn't even all that jealous, I can't remember if he's even admitted to being at all jealous in awhile, at first it was that the other could be with me when he couldn't.
But then he got jealous when I saw a hot guy in the mall and stated "Ooh, that guy is hot!" over the phone... so I don't know... that boy confuses me and himself.
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 9:01 am
All guys are jealous... he could be the only thing in your life and he's going to find something to be jealous of. We men are simple when it comes to affection, if we show you a lot of affection we expect similar amounts, if we show you a little and give you space we expect the same. I know he doesn't act jealous, but could you really stand your boyfriend having you and another girl he still calls his boyfriend? neutral
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:38 pm
Beak ups are never easy, we seem to think they are because there seems to be this thing of a 'Hollywood break up' where everything is great afterwards. It does'nt really matter how long it's dragged out or whatnot, someone is going to get hurt and thats the end result of it.
If the guy does'nt want to be friends then there is nothing you could probably do to the contrary. If you don't to be with him then just say so. We men may be simple creatures but the honesty is what matters.
I can;t tell you what to do, but if he thinks that it's all rosey while you want it finished, then the longer it is the worse you are going to hurt him in the long run.
I'm talking from my own personal experience.
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 5:34 pm
Ok, so back to the topic now.......
*Soft touching: Works both ways, I just love the skin on skin contact thing
*Biting: I just love being biten. Just no blood though, I like the pain, but not that much. And especially bites on my neck and inner thighs. And a little nibbling on the ears too.
*Scent: Ok, just the scent of a woman turns me on. The hair, and the neck are the best. When things get going though.........I love the natural scent down there, more so when the woman is aroused. Its so damn intoxicating. redface sweatdrop
*Nails: Pain is a turn on, just so long as its not too harsh, at least at first. So nails being run down my back and such just gets me going.
*Torture: Being hand-cuffed, hot wax, ice..... Anything so long as no blood works well.
*Romanticisim: Yes, I'm a romantic. Anything works, candle lit bath for 2 with music playing softly, body massage, kissing for long periods. Hell, sometimes even just holding hands does it! sweatdrop
*Dominance: Women being dominate..........just wow. And when a sexy bbw does it.....uh duh duh duh redface redface redface
Most anything can turn me on if thats what the woman is trying to accomplish. And if its a big and sexy woman, I get arroused anyway really. There's one I've dated, she can turn me into a puddle whenever she wants and she knows it. She knows everything about my turn ons and she uses it.
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