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 Posted: Wed Dec 29, 2004 7:53 am
KnightBlazer well i became bi at first.......it was a dream awhile ago. about a year. thought it was nothing so i got rid of it. during the summer my thoughts of guys changed........after awhile i realized i didnt like girls as much as guys and here i am..gay. im not full open with friends. they know im bi but they dont know im really gay. they mostly accept me. my mother and her bf are homophobes and said if i became bi or gay theyd throw me out. its gonna be along time before i come out to them. a member of my dads side of the family is gay and i told her im bi and she understands and is willing to take me to a support group. im just really shy. should i go? YES!!! GO!!! I think it would be an awsome experience for you!! Living in a homophobic househole has to be really rough, especialy on your self confidence (I'm guessing) I think it would be great for you.. reall, you should go
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Posted: Wed Dec 29, 2004 7:55 am
Black_Rain Yumiko_Yoshihana I'm still curious..... I mean, I'm majorly turned on by lesbian porn, 'specialy Yuri redface But I could never think of myself in a relationship with a girl... Of course, I'm 14, so I have I wile to figure it out. ::nosebleed:: sweatdrop ... ::drools:: *confused*
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Posted: Wed Dec 29, 2004 8:23 am
Yumiko_Yoshihana I'm majorly turned on by lesbian porn, 'specialy Yuri Sorry if I hear about women ... I ::nosebleed:: and : emotion_drool :
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Posted: Wed Dec 29, 2004 8:25 am
The first kiss from a girl, it was awesome so gentle and soft!!! and then after that I just kept noticing girls at first i was reluctant of it but now I just don't give a damn! I LOVE GIRLS!!! guys too but girls more. Once I had a dare from 4 guys to kiss my best friend and she was straight to my surprise she said ok!! mind you we weren't in our right mind but she and I both remember... that reminds me I have to get that pic!!!
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Posted: Wed Dec 29, 2004 11:19 am
I'm sixteen and in the eleventh grade, I've known since I was in fifth grade... I thnk I was nine maybe... I don' remeber. But I really noticed when I started to get attracted to one of my few guy friends b/c I mostly hung out with girls... So there we go... I've known for 6 or 7 years...
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Posted: Thu Dec 30, 2004 11:16 pm
Now that I look back on it. . .I can see how totally bi I have always been. But, my family is completely homophobic, and my parents pulled me aside one day and told me that it was bad, and that I shouldn't ever even experiment. About a year ago, I got with a new group at school, and two of the girls there were les/bi. A few months later it just kinda came to me one day, "I'm bi." I've come out to my parents since then. . .Not a good experiance, and all the friends I have deemed non-homophobic enough, and found that a good deal of my other friends are also bisexual. Wow. . .That was pretty long as far as an explanation goes. . .
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Posted: Sun Jan 02, 2005 11:39 am
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Posted: Sun Jan 02, 2005 12:42 pm
Mmm...I'm still more in the currious stage than anything, ^^" but I've very open about it, in that if anyone where to ask me about it I would have no problem telling them I am, 'sexually undecided.' Silly title for it I know, whee but usually if I say anything else people go into long winded things asking me if I'm half-bi or if I'm semi-straight or something of that nature. Too complicated, I'm just undecided.
Not quite sure when I started looking at girls as a possibility..probably when some of my friends came out and stated that they are Bisexual. Though I'm not quite sure how that could have been encouraging, as many of their former friends became weirded out and stopped hanging out with the newly admitted Bi's. But I guess I figured that if friends leave you for something stupid like that, they arn't friends anyway, so screw 'em. It's the ones who stay just as close to you after something out of the ordinary that are keepers.
So..yup, Undecided at the moment. Hopefully I'll figure it out at some point...
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Posted: Sun Jan 02, 2005 1:28 pm
well for me, it happened at a party.... like 3 or 4 years ago.... we were playing truth or dare and my friend dared my other friend to kiss me on the lips and she did. when i enjoyed it, i began to wonder about it
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 10:13 am
well mine was a dare when I was in preschool my freind dared me to kiss a guy then I did and thought "hmm that was nice" so I did it again only frenched him and smiled from then on I knew I was bi
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 11:16 am
I wrote a song for my friend after she and her boyfriend broke up after a long relationship, because she was mad at the guy.
(Some lyrics: Don't speak words of love to me, cause you can't stay faithful, you'll go back on your word again. Don't say that you love me, you can't stay faithful, your conscience will never win. You made love to me, and then accused me, said that I was seducing you. You made love to me, and then you left me, but I'm still in love with you.)
After she read it, she was so happy she wrapped her arms around me and pulled me tight to her. I struggeled to get away at first, then I just... relaxed, and let her hold me, wondering why it felt so right for her to be doing that. The bell rang... but at that point, I was beyond caring about anything else but how right that embrace felt. I didn't want her to let go. Then I started thinking... "What am I thinking?!" Then I thought. "Wait, there's nothing wrong with this..." And ever since then, girls have meant as much to me as guys!
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 12:20 pm
By my definition, Curious(ness) is being willing to try new things, right? So...there you go.
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 12:34 pm
Erm...well...I've been curious...since...well...*blinks* my senior year of high school which was...like 5 years ago. o_o...er...more or less. But, yea. I was like...nonono >.< to myself for the longest time till like...a year or so back. o.o And...I finally was like...ya know what? I shouldn't be trying so hard to hide this from myself. So, I went for it. Heh...being bi...feels much more comfortable...and right. ^_^ Heh. Mn. So...I got myself a significant other...but...not willing to tell my parents about it just yet...though...they do keep asking me about it. x_X; Ah hah. BUT...I have a couple of friends that know and like...most of the gaia people I know...know. So, yea. ^_^; Heh...that's my story...simple simple.
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 3:16 pm
In my school!! how could you not be gay..... the guys are sooo hot
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Posted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 3:23 pm
i'm not exactly sure when. thers many factors that made me attracted to men. biggrin when i was about 5-6 i always went into bathrooms and tried to peek at older guys...and was sexually abused by some naihborhood guys, who told me to do things to them, and touched me...actually it was kinda exciting...that was when i was about 9-11...but i guess i kinda let them. and now, i'm older and wiser...and i remember when i was about 12 i wanted to be a girl...just so i could be with men, and i could be normal. just recently i came to terms with this and said to myself "i'm a man...i love being a man...and i love men! so what? its nobodys business anyways, is it?" and i'v told some of my friends that i'm bi....or gay....slowly, and slowly i'm loosing interest in girls, cuz i can get one. stare i hate it. i cant be in a relationship with a girl anymore, cuz i get so bored. but with men its different...their hard to find...and its kinda like a "all for the hunt" type of thing, i think thats a major reason. lol but i just love men! all of 'em...unless their over 30. lol and i have to come to terms with the fact that the guy i like is older then me....and is gonna graduate...::sigh:: heh oh well.
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