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| Do you think you will find that special someone and that ideal relationship? |
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 Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 9:08 pm
cutesilverchcik12 *walks in* some1 spray painted my locker rainbow and wrote "lizbians suck" and "Bi's shouls burn" last night and now every1 is making fun of me crying Oh my god...what assholes. They have no right to do that to you. You should be what you want to be and don't stand for when people put you down...or...you could make a game out of it. Everytime someone makes fun of you, count it off...like "One stupid idiot... Two lifeless losers... Three pathetic humans..." And so on and so fourth. If they're going to waste their breath to try and make you feel bad, then that must mean you are important enough to them for them to even think about, or they feel like they are so pathetic that they need to feed off of anothers emotions just so they can feel good about themselves. If you ask me, they're the ones who should burn. xd
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 5:27 pm
ah! that's terrible! if you ask me, it's only close minded jerks that are uncomfortable with their own sexualities that do that...>.>;;
to post on topic..my idea of a perfect relationship is with a male/female who is romantic/cuddly, interesting, talented, funny, and could keep up with my energy...i have lots of energy around people i like XD. somehow, guys seem to be like that more often, but "a true lover of beauty will take it in any form one finds" or some roman quote like that, i forget the exact author...
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 6:43 pm
in my oppinion the perfect relationship is where you can just lay in their arms for hours...not having to say a word. being able to cuddle in public and not feel incecure, because your with the person you love. you have to be physiacally atracted to someone or theres no relationship. great sex is a must. lol i'm not an adult yet and i even know that wink . lol you have to want them just as much as they have to want you. you have to be willing to make sacrifise, and they as well. there has to be love, and when you feel love, you know it. thats what i believe. oh yeah, and romance is a must. but at the same time, right now i'd settle for someone like Eiri Yuki from Gravitation.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 8:22 pm
hmm i'm more of a shuichi/ryuichi guy myself...
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 9:37 pm
Um...that's a tough one. I'd like a Ryuchi/ Shuichi, but I also would like a Yuki...hm...
Whatever...I noticed something about myself.
I'm seme, but when I'm doing something with another person, I'm uke. Interesting, huh?
And my cousin is uke, but when he's doing something with someone, he's seme...
Weird... eek
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 12:13 am
LOVE LOVE AND LOVE!!!
Well at least that's what I think.
But making fun of who someone likes is wrong (like what they did to cutesilverchick, which was NOT cool).
To me, the best relationship you can get, since perfect isn't an option really, would be:
*if someone can love you back equally.
*if they don't hurt you unless you want them to xp .
*if they don't murder you when you get pregnant *cough-Scott Peterson-cough!!!*
*if you can spend countless hours with them doing random things, like talking, playing video games, or sexual contact xd .
*if you're comfortable with the person.
*if your partner doesn't have an affair or something.
*if they don't lie to you.
*if they put you first and you do the same for them.
Yeah. That's pretty much it. And, for a relationship involving me, I wouldn't want to be showered with gifts. That would really annoy me. I hate it when (for example) like, say a guy buys his girlfriend a whole bunch of gifts, and that's the only reason she likes him. That's stupid. Money shouldn't be a matter in a relationship.
*if you don't rely on your partner's money.
There. With that said, that is what a perfect relationship in my eyes would be. xd xd xd
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 12:16 am
Of course, since I like a fictional character (Cid), my perfect relationship is currently only fantasy. But there is a guy I like but I hardly see him...maybe I should ask Megan how he's doing.
Being apart from a lover is probably a hard thing...never happened to me, since I've never actually had a boyfriend (or girlfriend for the matter), so yeah.
Let's just hope that all of us will someday find our perfect relationship. xd
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 9:26 am
taylorhighwind
Yeah. That's pretty much it. And, for a relationship involving me, I wouldn't want to be showered with gifts. That would really annoy me. I hate it when (for example) like, say a guy buys his girlfriend a whole bunch of gifts, and that's the only reason she likes him. That's stupid. Money shouldn't be a matter in a relationship.
Okay when you find a guy like that send him my way. I'll keep the money and gifts. 3nodding I use him for his money. wink 3nodding Though you're right in a relationship I wouldn't want to be showered with gifts either ... or compliments. I broke up with a chick cause she wouldn't stop complimenting me. It bordered on very very scary. xp
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 10:43 am
Black_Rain Okay when you find a guy like that send him my way. I'll keep the money and gifts. 3nodding I use him for his money. wink 3nodding Though you're right in a relationship I wouldn't want to be showered with gifts either ... or compliments. I broke up with a chick cause she wouldn't stop complimenting me. It bordered on very very scary. xp
Though, I doubt I'll find a guy soon...since I don't go to a normal school and I'm hardly social...except when I go on Gaia...but that's easy since I'm right at home and there's other peoples here to talk to me.
I don't remember...did you already state what you think a perfect relationship would be? I reread everything here last night but I'm not quite sure... sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 10:51 am
Yep I sure did!! Balck_Rain Yeah .... I don't think I'd want those things ... I wouldn't want a perfect relationship. I couldn't handle the stress of being perfect, nor could the relationship either. Plus I'd be ******** bored as hell.... I need a lil' excitement, a little stress. I my mind .... if I'm so comfortable with it then I don't have the fear of losing it ... then obviously I don't want it anymore.... I'm a pretty mean a** person and no perfect relationship could handle me. I'd want to be with someone as wonderfully flawed as I with enough self confidence to handle my insensitive humor. Plus they'd have to be attractive ... of equal attractiveness or slightly lower.... cause GOSH Darn it I have to be the PRETTY ONE!!
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 11:06 am
Oh yeah! I remember that now! xd
Yes, being perfect isn't fun. I've never tried and I don't want to. I want to be UNperfect! xd xd xd
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2004 9:56 pm
My idea of a perfect relationship... hmm...
I guess one with a guy preferably, just to see what it's like, and I'd love him and he'd love me back, and we'd be each others protectors and comforters, although I'd be the uke most of the time. I wouldn't want sex, making out yes, but no sex - just being with that person. We'd share the same interests, and we'd spend time with each other and with our friends, but I'd like the time when we're alone the most... just the two of u, both wanting each other more than anything else...
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Your Little Fickle Pickle
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Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2004 6:42 am
Let me see...I never posted here. Might as well, I need something to do.
What do I want...what do I want...got it. I want someone who will love and trust me. I'll have to love and trust them too, of course, or it would never work. Now I'm not saying I want a perfect girl, that's impossible. I wouldn't mind someone who is as stubborn as me, or at least who wouldn't always agree with me. That'd get way too boring way too fast. Challenges, I want there to be challenges. Not enough to make me want to break it off, but enough to keep it interesting. 3nodding And yes, for me physical apperance matters. I don't want someone who is ugly, I'm sorry if that sounds mean or shallow but it's the honest-to-God truth. And, usually, I'm more attracted to dark-eyed girls although I have had crushes on light-eyed ones because they were so nice and fun.
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Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2004 8:44 am
The world around me is far from perfect, so I can never bring someone happiness. I only bring pain. There can be no love for me from anyone.
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Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2004 10:56 am
Jeriana Let me see...I never posted here. Might as well, I need something to do. What do I want...what do I want...got it. I want someone who will love and trust me. I'll have to love and trust them too, of course, or it would never work. Now I'm not saying I want a perfect girl, that's impossible. I wouldn't mind someone who is as stubborn as me, or at least who wouldn't always agree with me. That'd get way too boring way too fast. Challenges, I want there to be challenges. Not enough to make me want to break it off, but enough to keep it interesting. 3nodding And yes, for me physical apperance matters. I don't want someone who is ugly, I'm sorry if that sounds mean or shallow but it's the honest-to-God truth. And, usually, I'm more attracted to dark-eyed girls although I have had crushes on light-eyed ones because they were so nice and fun. Hahahaha! It's okay I'm shallow too! Non-Fat. Non-Ugly. Non-Crazy. The whole reason why I'm single. gonk
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