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 Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 6:19 am
Angelic_Highlights Hm well give her a week it show's she is indeed online now which is one of the possible answers out of the way but let's just see if she replies now and if not in a week pm her on myspace asking what she is playing at and if still no reply i say let her go stop contact and move on as hard as it may be. I don't think that it will be that easy. i want to wait to see if she logs on to MySpace again in the next day or 2 first. does that make sense?
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Posted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 8:59 am
Yes that does indeed make sense i hope she does log on and this thing gets sorted out.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 3:25 pm
I have just had a bad feeling and i confirmed it. i saved the E-Mail i sent her as draft before sending it. But the draft is not there. I have a bad feeling that what i wrote in the E-Mail was not sent.
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 5:11 am
Eek well i guess you will have to send it again and explain in the email that it seems some were not sent if it was more than one.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 6:10 am
Angelic_Highlights Eek well i guess you will have to send it again and explain in the email that it seems some were not sent if it was more than one. I did that on Wednesday. or was it Tuesday? I've just completely lost track of what day things happened. Anyways. she's logged onto Gaia twice and i sent her a PM after the second time. but she hasn't been on MySpace. so I'm now worried that something is not quite right.
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 1:51 pm
Hmm i think it is about to time to let her go if she cannot send you a pm because it is being unfair to you, it is not how a relationship should be and with her not contacting even though she has been online and had 3 chances of contacting you, one on myspace, another on gaia and more than likely email as well i feel she is stringing you along
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 9:40 am
This may sound nuts to you Ang. but I'm not ready to give up quite yet. you see. it's her birthday on Wednesday. After a week after that. i don't know what I'm going to do. I've tried to move on before. but i couldn't.
As for what you said about MySpace. She hasn't been on since the 30th. and i decided to give it ago trying to send her a message on MySpace only to find out she's blocked PM's except from people on her friends list. But now she has a month to except my friends request if she logs on.
I just want to make it clear though that their may be forces beyond her control from stopping her from contacting me. In which case it's not just her emotions and feelings and It would then not be her fault!
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Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 12:28 pm
End of the day then you will end up hurting yourself and having no one to blame but yourself, it is not nice to think or to do but it sounds like she has ended everything on her terms it would be best for you to do the very same.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:13 pm
syketheassai EggaxSponge i think you have to wait until she gets home then. That's what I've been saying but people aren't listening. you and me are in a similar boat 3nodding and the thing that you need to do is give her space...e-mail her often (not too often because thats just creepy) but if you really love her and she really loves you...then all you need is patience neutral I know it's hard sometimes and yes of course you feel worried because you miss her etc. But patience for now...and you'll see that everything will turn out alright, so chin up and keep yourself busy anything to pass the time will help wink best of luck -Chris-
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Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 8:23 am
the wackiest update ever... possibly.
She E-mailed me back last weekend. basically on V-day all she could think about was me. naturally we couldn't just continue where we left off. but i've left it in her hands how she wants to go about starting proper communication with me again.
You know that you never stop loving someone? even when you move on. it's kinda like that. i have moved on. but like i said. you never actually stop loving someone. but they do stop being your absolute everything.
(well not stop. but fade.)
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Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 5:59 am
Over time it does indeed get better but if she is going to mess you about again and place you into the state your found yourself in a while ago wouldnt that be doing more harm to you. sure love hurts sometimes but it never should hurt that much.
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Posted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 6:21 am
I think i have everything in hand this time.
she's talking to me kinda through irregular e-mails, but then she has her own problems.
I know that I've already said to her that we can't continue where we left off. but as a friend i still trust her. I've also had a lot of time to think. nearly a whole year and one of the biggest problems was that it didn't go at a pace that she ultimately didn't feel comfortable with.
I am aware of all the dangers. but if it does happen again. It won't kill me. and she will hopefully explain it anyway.
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Angelic_Highlights Captain
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Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 6:45 am
mm as long as you feel comfortable with the situation then that is ultimately what matters.
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Posted: Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:49 am
WOW it's been nearly 9 months to the day since i last updated this.
I last heard from her on May 20th 2008
but last night had a dream about her.
it's kinda confusing, but it went something like this.
sort of at a beach (no idea why), and She was there. and she was with someone who just happened to look like a friend of mine from collage. I was in love with her again/still in the dream. And i was trying to do anything i could think of to get her attention. in the end i was feeling so frustrated that she was ignoring me that i felt like screaming.
then i woke up and came to my senses.
I know she is/was with someone more her age and location in real life. but that was over a year ago.
I don't know why i had this dream. although i know she's still important to me as a person.
Am i going mad?
has anyone had something like this happen before?
Any advice?
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Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 3:23 pm
"To see the beach in your dream, symbolizes the meeting between your two states of mind. The sand is symbolic of the rational and mental processes while the water signifies the irrational, unsteady, and emotional aspects of yourself. It is a place of transition between the physical/material and the spiritual."
It has been some time since u talked to her, so I´d say that a part of u wants to let go of her, while the other is still struggling about it... Your rational mind is probably telling u that it is time to move on, but your heart has probably not accepted "defeat" yet, deep inside u can´t accept the fact that it did not go the way u dreamed of... the fact that she was with someone u knew is probably related to the fact that u know that she´s been with other guys...
I don´t think u´r going mad... but u´r still stuck with her, and u should let her go... otherwise u´ll never give yourself the chance of finding someone else... at least that´s what i think...
Hope I´v somehow helped 3nodding
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