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I wish i knew where to start on my vhenting rampage. I'm sure I could go on forever. lol

I guess i'll go with the few that are bothering me most.

I found out today that my sister(who is staying with us temporarily) might have stolen my late grandfathers personalized wallet from my 83 year old grandmother's room(she also lives with us) as well as with the money inside. It is missing. We would like to hope that my grandmother has merely misplaced it but with my sister's shady past and known for her stealing, we are lead to believe that this was no accident. This wallet theft upsets me more since the wallet was very special to my family and was meant to be mine in the future.

Another is that my sister and i are sharing a room, i'm 20 about to start college and used to being by myself alot. As selfish as this seems, i want my room, my belongings and everything else back the way they were. I am uncomfortable, i cant get to half of my room due to her blow up bed, she inisits on having the door open at night(i cant sleep with the door open, logn story) and she stays on the comuter until all hours of the morning keeping me awake with her incessant typing and messenger noises. scream

I do not trust, or like my sister in the least as she is disrespectful, irresponisble, a drug user, promiscuous and rude. She is only managable when she is high on weed and even then she is a force to be reconed with. It has only been 3 weeks but i am finding it hard to allow this bullshit to go on. We are already raising her two children, i don't want to have to baby sit her as well. She is 23 and should be acting as such. No one is helping me out with this. My mother really didn't care until now, with the wallet missing. I seem to be on my own with this situation and it doesn't seem fair as never agreed to her being here in the first place.

I have alot of stress as it is in my life right now with many other things. I really don't need or want to have to deal with this as well. Tell me, am i wrong to feel as i do or am i being selfish?


That's my rant for the day. thanks for listening. Please excuse any grammar/spelling errors. gonk

What she said. Plus, your sis sounds like she needs to rethink where her life is going if she's all that.

Yea living with a drug user is nearly impossiable to say the least, the only time she is going to start careing is when she her self hits rock bottom, and the only way you all can help in this, is to not help, you have to turn your back on her, it will be the hardest thing to do, because as much as she irratates you she is still your sister, I know my sister is fighting her own demons, and I got in a hugh fight with her and I stopped talking to her and I wouldn't go over to her house, then she seen where her path was taking her and she decided that being my sister was more important than the drugs, and is seeking help, it will be years before all of it is out of her system, I hope that she can recover as much as possiable before our dad passes away, other wise I think she will end up in the same sittuation as she is now. Your not being selfish, she need to be kock to the curb and told she isn't allowed back untill she is clean, or something like that.

Wow, that is intense. I can't really give any advice gonk

It sucks with the invasion of privacy. And with 7 people, it must be hard to find the peace and quiet you need for school.
I had a hard time with my studies and noise related problems. I had to resort on staying at school for homework (as much as possible) or resort to ear plugs (although in your case I'm not sure earplugs would be enough).

I hope you can find one place where you can be by yourself, no matter where it may be....

First of all how long is temporary? Secondly, She is a grown woman with children and a guest in your room. You should lay down some ground rules! Your school is more important than anything she could possibly be up late on the comp. for! Surely your mom uderstands how important school is and that she would be affecting it. She is 23, if I was her mom I would have kicked her out. My kids can live with me as long as they want, as long as they are trying to make a future for themselves! Drugs, theft and no job, not under my roof! Maybe just try talking to your mom about it.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!! evil I had a feeling someone else was watching that item on the market! F**KING B***ARD! I waited until 30secs thinking I was being sneaky but noooooooo, he was too, and grabbed it with 6secs left. F**KING C**T FACE!!!!!!!!!!!


much better xd

I got someone banned from this guild and it seems that the real life also affects the guild? Anyway he wasn't given a chance to even defend himself..

Anyway it doesn't matter anyway...

She did eek ??