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 Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 12:59 am
3nodding It is hard to live with a broken heart, and to have to build things new after things just fell away.
The song is a neat one, I havent heard it in a very long time. 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 7:20 am
The Crosby Stills and Nash sound is esthetically pleasing to me. Sometimes the words speak to me. Today I'm listening to "Southern Cross" cause I like the sound of it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPK_IV-J3Co Someone must have slammed Steven Still's heart pretty badly 'cause here he goes again, singing how he's gonna deal with it -- "somebody fine will come along make me forget about loving you, in the Southern cross." Some girl I dated said something so interesting -- it's a blessing to both when the one causing the hurt helps heal the hurt. Sometimes time helps, sometimes hanging with friends helps. For me, a current relationship has helped me get over the last girl. There are still occasional twinges but less and less.
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Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 1:16 pm
3nodding Usually friends make a big difference in getting threw such a situation as having your heart broken.
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Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 2:00 pm
Everybody can only help so much... My ex helped me a lot more than I thought that she would in getting over her, though. She came back into my life promising everything that she had promised before and then did the same thing all over again not even a week later. She taught me that no matter how she painted her heart as being during the relationship that she was always the same girl that she had portrayed in the end. She was evil and rotten to the core. I still love her, but I am not in love with her. I am too busy feeling sorry for her to be in love with her. She managed to destroy my trust towards relationships, though, which is preventing me from wanting to trust anyone enough to have a relationship again.
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Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 9:57 pm
3nodding Isnt it sad that even though a person can let go of someone, often thier heart wont ever let them go no matter how hard they try to remove the feelings?
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 9:12 am
Yeah... It really is sad... and frustrating.
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 1:21 pm
3nodding I do wish a few of the ones I trusted had worked out better than they did in the past. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 1:22 pm
Our bad experiences have made us much more cautious, and rightly so.
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 4:23 pm
I don't wish that mine had turned out better... I just wish that it had never happened. My life would be so much simpler if I had never gone after her.
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Posted: Sat Jan 29, 2011 6:52 pm
It takes time and experiences to learn things, sometimes those experiences are not very pleasent.
But I can understand, I wish there are things in the same matter which I never should have done.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:36 am
Wow Im sorry to hear that =/
But you cant condemn all women just bc of that. In time your wounds will healand you willfind the one that you were really meant to be with. When we let people in we are always going to become attached and that makes it harder when we have to give them up. But stay strong dear it will work out.Be patient.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:29 pm
3nodding I tend to agree with True, it may take time but I think everyone finds someone eventually.
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:42 pm
One of my friends is around 50 years old and he hasn't been married once in his life. He has looked, but all of the women were always either not interested in him or they played him. He is a very attractive man and he has a great personality, so it makes me wonder why he hasn't been married.
One of my other friends is in the middle of a divorce that is taking place not because he was a bad husband, but because his wife found another woman that he was interested in. (It makes no sense why she would leave a guy who gave her his entire paycheck and do everything within his power so that she could do as little work as possible.)
Then I have a friend who has been doing this on-again-off-again dance with this woman who has cheated on him multiple times. He stays 100% loyal to her, but she can't find it in her to be that loyal to my friend. I have told him that he needs to leave her, but he refuses to leave her completely because she has this special place in his heart.
Honestly, the only relationships that have been working out in the lives of the people around me have been the ones where the two never get to see each other, the ones where the guy is abusive, and the ones where the husband has to take care of the wife due to illnesses of one kind of another. What is the point of getting into another relationship with those statistics?
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Posted: Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:53 pm
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, Love is such a hard and fickle thing.
And often Love is or isnt the true feelings between one person and another.
But then again, it does take time or some just give in and stop looking for someone.
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Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 4:29 am
@ Sarge - you sure know a lot of stores of love gone wrong. With divorce so easy to get, it's a wonder any relationships endure through the rough patches.
@ Giesta - I have a hunch love will find you. There's so much kindness in your heart, some girl will be so lucky to be in a relationship with you
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