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"If it doesn't bother you too much, what did you want Andarien to do when you used those pressure points on him?" Eron asked, "Every action has a lesson, and I know you wanted him to do something about it, but I wanted to hear it from you."

In case he was wrong, but he was pretty sure that Andarien was simply (though there was nothing simple about it) missing something unspoken that Kaito wanted from him.

"Actually.... I think there is something wrong," Eron replied softly.

He made his way over to Kaito and took a seat beside him. Eron wasn't really sure what exactly it was, because Andarien would be considered high functioning, almost to the point where he might not qualify for funded help, but something was there.

"Have you ever heard of the term, 'too exceptional'?"

Eron figured that would be the best way to start since he didn't have a diagnosis and he wasn't qualified to give one. He heard a different parent use it, it gave hope to parents who didn't know how to handle their child. He also heard from a social worker, this might not be the best way to go around it, because not all children were savants, but he figured Andarien more than qualified for that label.

"It's a term some people use for children who are so brilliant in one aspect that they end up thinking very differently to the point where they are often handicapped either socially or academically," Eron explains, "Andarien, I don't think, is capable of picking up unspoken lessons, social norms we take for granted without being told is hard for him to pick up. We can pick up by observation and interaction, he has to be told. Yes, explains why he takes things literally."

Eron looked over at Kaito, as if to say, Kaito was going to have to tell Anderian things bluntly.

"I also think, he has trouble understanding his own emotions, he doesn't quite know why he acts the way he does, which would also explain why he acts out in ways that most would find extreme. There's also the problem of him not asking questions, I did ask him why he never asked Kaito. I think part of it, he doesn't know, the other part is, Kaito is his teacher. I'm pretty sure he would be very easy to lie to, which isn't unheard of if you're already socially handicapped."

"Possibly, you know, if you asked him if he doesn't like certain subjects because he's not good at them or because they are hard, he can't give you an answer. Actually he can't give you an answer for a lot of the quirks he does, like not asking Kaito any questions for example," Eron explained.

He wasn't sure if there was any way to teach Andarien without constantly giving positive reinforcement.

"Anything emotional, things we take for granted, if you asked him, and he'll think about it, he can't explain why. Probably part of it is his emotional awareness, there are times he does act like he's five or ten, but rarely ever his own age."

"How long was his last growth?" Eron asked seriously.

He knew of stage growing children, but he knew that the adjustment period was generally short. At the longest maybe a year, any longer and that would call for an assessment.

Eron sighed as he ran his hand through his hair, "Look, I'm not saying anything less about Andarien, but you can't assume he reads the situation the way you would, and his actions make other people outside this group read him in ways he wouldn't expect."

He looked specifically at Kaito.

"He thinks you're a jerk by your actions, yes, he acknowledges you're teaching him, but he thinks you can be a jerk."

He looked to Shiro.

"The only reason why I looked into it is because his ability to go from raging angry to very happy put Shoneah off. She found him unpredictable, which in turned made her worried because she took his rage as someone who would have done harm."

"I already talked to her," Eron assured Shiro, "One of the things we were taught by the school board is how to reassure parents who didn't understand some of our more unique students."

It was just he never thought he'd have to use those skills to try and explain to a group of strangers he was traveling with that one of their own might need extra help.

"A year and a half is a long time even for a stage grower, but that being said Andarien is well adjusted considering it all. It's just," he glanced at Kaito, "You can't expect him to get unspoken lessons, you are going to have to spell it out to him, and in certain social cases, you'll have to teach him from scratch...."

Eron trailed off and sighed again.

"Normally my part in this is just recommend an assessment but no one here can give that, a proper assessment that is."

"To be fair, the things he's good at, he's brilliant at them, I don't think I would have noticed either, it just... that's part of the training you get before teaching," Eron shrugged.

He would have just called Andarien quirky.

"And it would have been more noticable in a public school setting, here at least you had make adjustments. I just came to you two first, because I wanted to really see if Andarien was missing the point."

Eron got to his feet, it looks like he was going to have to tell Andarien's parents. He wasn't looking forward to that, it was one thing if Andarien was his student, but he wasn't.

"By the way..." Eron paused, "Shoneah is teaching Andarien pressure points, so him asking you is a moot point anyways."