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 Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:35 pm
Nespin Fernagon ...why is it that people seem to feel men can't have issues? For that matter, why is it that we as men don't seem to be willing to talk about the ones we have? I mean, I know I touched on this concept earlier but... why the big block and taboo against admitting they exist? What's really wrong with it? We can, we have. But I have no desire to talk about them to anyone else, they are after all MY issues. I don't mind men talking about their problems, as friends come to me all the time. Male and female. But I agree with Peop... men crying just cause there emotional creep me out. I had to punch a friend cause he got all emo on me. I don't even remember the last time I cried. Not even with my recent toe fracture. I just screamed, and punched the living crap out of my walls, and library.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:49 pm
Hidden Arc Cannibal Horsey Nespin Fernagon ...why is it that people seem to feel men can't have issues? For that matter, why is it that we as men don't seem to be willing to talk about the ones we have? I mean, I know I touched on this concept earlier but... why the big block and taboo against admitting they exist? What's really wrong with it? Other men take the piss out of you. (I'm sorry I'm a woman intruding again please forgive me). Personally, if men are worried about what women think they shouldn't be, I don't mind if a man talks about his problems with me. The only thing that weirds me out is when men cry in front of me (fair enough if it's happy tears, you're in severe pain or someone you know has just died... but like... some other times I've seen guys crying makes me uncomfortable) But it seems as well, at least for me, that someone who doesn't cry is inhuman. I'm not saying that since I cried a lot, although my crying really is some effect of trauma or something as I see it since I cry when I'm angry which would be caused by the bullying I suffered for 4 years(that's just given as some sort of example). People are capable of emotion, and sadness is one of those emotions. I'm not saying don't cry, I'm saying don't cry IN FRONT OF ME. Also it depends entirely on why you're crying, if I kick a man in the sore place and he cries well, fair enough, that HURTS
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:51 pm
I'm saying don't cry. The only acceptable place IMO to cry is at a funeral or something in that nature.
Damn weird.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 3:26 pm
Cannibal Horsey Hidden Arc Cannibal Horsey Nespin Fernagon ...why is it that people seem to feel men can't have issues? For that matter, why is it that we as men don't seem to be willing to talk about the ones we have? I mean, I know I touched on this concept earlier but... why the big block and taboo against admitting they exist? What's really wrong with it? Other men take the piss out of you. (I'm sorry I'm a woman intruding again please forgive me). Personally, if men are worried about what women think they shouldn't be, I don't mind if a man talks about his problems with me. The only thing that weirds me out is when men cry in front of me (fair enough if it's happy tears, you're in severe pain or someone you know has just died... but like... some other times I've seen guys crying makes me uncomfortable) But it seems as well, at least for me, that someone who doesn't cry is inhuman. I'm not saying that since I cried a lot, although my crying really is some effect of trauma or something as I see it since I cry when I'm angry which would be caused by the bullying I suffered for 4 years(that's just given as some sort of example). People are capable of emotion, and sadness is one of those emotions. I'm not saying don't cry, I'm saying don't cry IN FRONT OF ME. Also it depends entirely on why you're crying, if I kick a man in the sore place and he cries well, fair enough, that HURTS Yep, that hurts. O_O
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 4:45 pm
I feel uncomfortable when anyone cries in front of me. It totally breaks my heart to hear Alex cry... I freak out and want sooo badly to fix whatever it is... crying
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 4:54 pm
Little Miss Fortune I feel uncomfortable when anyone cries in front of me. It totally breaks my heart to hear Alex cry... I freak out and want sooo badly to fix whatever it is... crying That's probably something you shoudn't even mention to strangers. o.O
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:07 pm
That one night Little Miss Fortune I feel uncomfortable when anyone cries in front of me. It totally breaks my heart to hear Alex cry... I freak out and want sooo badly to fix whatever it is... crying That's probably something you shoudn't even mention to strangers. o.O
...What? o.O
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:34 pm
Telling people that your bf crys is kind of odd.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:43 pm
I figured it was a given, since everyone cries. And it's not like he does it all the time. I've only heard him cry like... twice. And I doubt he'd be upset about people knowing that he's cried in his lifetime... xd
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:06 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:17 pm
MONKEYS SHALL RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!!!! scream
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:20 pm
I end up crying at everything, even if I don't want to or have no reason to. I think my tear duct is overactive, or am just extremely sensitive.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:20 pm
Hidden Arc MONKEYS SHALL RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!!!! scream Serious discussion sub forum.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:21 pm
Emo Paperclip I end up crying at everything, even if I don't want to or have no reason to. I think my tear duct is overactive, or am just extremely sensitive. Sensitivity is most likely the reason.
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:22 pm
That one night Hidden Arc MONKEYS SHALL RULE THE WORLD!!!!!!!!! scream Serious discussion sub forum. I know. I just felt random. I'm still thinking of anything manly to talk about.
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