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 Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 6:07 pm
i have have a hhuge crush a ongirlnamed whitney she said /she was saying she was bi things happened and i was drunk wrote a letter telling her everthing i felt about her and was going to give it to her ,but she was dateing one of my friends and told me that she wanted just to be friends so i sayed ok but no ever time we alone i feel werid and i think she does to so a should we just stop talking? gonk
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Posted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 11:24 am
I'm gay but I sometimes get a strange feeling around girls am I bisexual or are they false alarms
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 3:07 am
sanave I'm gay but I sometimes get a strange feeling around girls am I bisexual or are they false alarms You're only 12, I wouldn't even worry about this stuff. Just try not to think about it, and if you fall for someone, you fall for them. *in my opinion, 12 is a little young, but hey- I'm not gonna try stopping you! just make sure you don't come out or anything unless you're SURE about your preferences (because some people think they're gay when they're actually straight and vice versa, so coming out too soon might cause the gay stigma when it shouldnt even apply to you.)
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 3:08 am
gothchickjamie i have have a hhuge crush a ongirlnamed whitney she said /she was saying she was bi things happened and i was drunk wrote a letter telling her everthing i felt about her and was going to give it to her ,but she was dateing one of my friends and told me that she wanted just to be friends so i sayed ok but no ever time we alone i feel werid and i think she does to so a should we just stop talking? gonk Don't try to just stop talking to her, after something like that, things will definitly feel awkward for a while, but if you're real friends, it'll go away. Depending on how jarring it was to her, or you, it might be a few months before things stop being awkward.
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Posted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 3:11 am
Suoh OwnTheWeak202 What do u do when every one has turned there back on u , even your own church? Just for being Bi. Move on. Ive been there (and still am) My family, and a lot of my friend are Mormon. It doesn't work out too well with me being gay. I've just learned to live with the pain, and find people who will accept me for who I am. oh, those mormons are so silly!
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2005 9:30 pm
*glomps everyone* Hey all!
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2005 10:33 pm
Jes and I dated last year. She broke up with me. To complicated to explain why. Well, her most recent gf just broke up with her because she was thinking of me. She had a dream about us being a happy couple too. (We have dead journals.) I think I like her but then again I dont. I love her views on the world and life. I love a lot of thing s about her. But she does have a big ego and such. I dont know what to do. I'm afraid to get my heart broken again. Should I leave her as a gf in the past and a friend in the future or shoud I take a chance and return the affection?
Someone please help...I'm so lost.
crying
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Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2005 11:38 pm
Depends...
If you have the courage to try and take a chance with her, go ahead. But it's okay if you don't want to.
If you like her enough to say things like that then yes, i'd say go for it!
xp
Although i must warn
The only way your heart cant get broken when love is concerned is when you get married and stay with each other for the rest of your lives -.-
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Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2005 1:15 am
wordman sanave I'm gay but I sometimes get a strange feeling around girls am I bisexual or are they false alarms You're only 12, I wouldn't even worry about this stuff. Just try not to think about it, and if you fall for someone, you fall for them. *in my opinion, 12 is a little young, but hey- I'm not gonna try stopping you! just make sure you don't come out or anything unless you're SURE about your preferences (because some people think they're gay when they're actually straight and vice versa, so coming out too soon might cause the gay stigma when it shouldnt even apply to you.) Yes, you are a bit young, but when I was 12I was firt figuring out that I was bi. I'd say to not worry so much about things yet, just take them as they come. You'll figure everything out with time. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 11:50 am
I'm 15...today is my b-day actually blaugh and i've been gay for 2 years but I could almost swear im the only gay guy in like 1,000 mile radius and its hard to deal with because where I live, my high school is homophobic big time and so I'm still in the closet and I dont know what to do should i come out crying ?
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Posted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 2:17 pm
well this is prolly a very rutiene question for you all but i have some issues with my mom, when i was younger i was almost raped by this one guy and when she found out she became a serious homophobe. but she said that she wanted to go to he grocery store and get some ice cream but she really wanted to talk about my sexuality....see, she found these little papers that i hid under my bed, (yaoi stories) and she asked me if i was gay and i told her that i wasnt because technicaly i'm bi but any way, she then asked me if i was bi and i told her that i was still working on it. SO how do i bring this up and how do i tell her? please help! gonk crying crying crying ((Ps: we never got any ice cream!!!))
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Posted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 5:05 pm
inu_yashahollic well this is prolly a very rutiene question for you all but i have some issues with my mom, when i was younger i was almost raped by this one guy and when she found out she became a serious homophobe. but she said that she wanted to go to he grocery store and get some ice cream but she really wanted to talk about my sexuality....see, she found these little papers that i hid under my bed, (yaoi stories) and she asked me if i was gay and i told her that i wasnt because technicaly i'm bi but any way, she then asked me if i was bi and i told her that i was still working on it. SO how do i bring this up and how do i tell her? please help! gonk crying crying crying ((Ps: we never got any ice cream!!!)) She's your mom, she'll understand if you're bisexual or gay. Parents are much more understanding than you think. They've been there. Explain to her your opinion and offer to answer any questions she has. Tell her that just because you're gay, that doesn't make you a creepo or any less her son. It'll mean a lot to her that you were honest and felt like you could talk to her. If she gets angry, try and see it from her side. Whatever you do, don't get angry. That'll only escalate the situation.
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Posted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 5:09 pm
t0b0e I'm 15...today is my b-day actually blaugh and i've been gay for 2 years but I could almost swear im the only gay guy in like 1,000 mile radius and its hard to deal with because where I live, my high school is homophobic big time and so I'm still in the closet and I dont know what to do should i come out crying ? You should probably watch out for the homophobics. They can get nasty. I would suggest you wait until you're 18 and can stick up for yourself. Then you can go and openly look for someone to date. There are others like you in your area, but they're probably just as scared as you are. Realize a person that is gay will deny that they're gay because they're scared.
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2005 2:14 am
I don't know how you guys have such clarity about your sexuality at an early age. I am still dubious..
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2005 4:06 am
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