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NadiaM

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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 5:55 pm

That makes no sense to me. You're a man. C'est final. If somebody doesn't see you as one, then they're just buggered upside down and sideways.

Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 6:33 am

But my body is still fully female. sweatdrop

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NadiaM

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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 10:14 am

So what?

Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 10:20 am

NadiaM

So what?

Indeed.

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Nios

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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 2:29 pm

I don't know. He's hetero. I don't think I could help but be paranoid about it. Is that so irrational?

Regardless I had him over yesterday and he spent the night. We cuddled most of the night which made me feel great.

Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 9:03 pm

Nios

I don't know. He's hetero. I don't think I could help but be paranoid about it. Is that so irrational?

Regardless I had him over yesterday and he spent the night. We cuddled most of the night which made me feel great.

Being paranoid is not irrational. Well, no, being paranoid is irrational; being worried that he won't be able to see you for who we know you to be is not. Honestly, if it seems to be becoming something, you should just ask him about it. Truly. Whether he sees you as a guy; whether or not he's comfortable with that; whether he's willing to try to become comfortable. It doesn't have to be an inquisition; it's just a part of who you are, part of the package. If he's worth it, he should totally be willing to have a dialogue.

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Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 9:20 pm

Well he's extremely comfortable with it. By "it" I mean my transsexuality. He tries harder than anyone I know to reference me as male and I can tell he genuinely feels embarrassed when he slips up.

In a way I can't even tell if it's friend cuddling or more than friend cuddling. Or if it's two guys cuddling or if its a guy cuddling a girl. I don't know him well enough to know if he cuddles other people. We're just acting like it's normal but even I don't cuddle with people that much. In a way I hope we just find a weird comfortable friend level of cuddling with him as a straight male and me as a gay tranny boy. I just love to be cuddled.

Posted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 11:32 pm

Nios

I don't know. He's hetero. I don't think I could help but be paranoid about it. Is that so irrational?

Regardless I had him over yesterday and he spent the night. We cuddled most of the night which made me feel great.

Aw...I need to find a straight boy that will cuddle me. All of my friends seem to think that cuddles = me wanting to date them. confused

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TuffGhost
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 12:04 am

Why does Gaia keep changing? confused

Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 2:44 am

To punish you for leaving of course.

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Astri
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 9:23 am

Nios

I just love to be cuddled.

As do I.

Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 1:03 pm

Nios

To punish you for leaving of course.

Oh, is that the reason? Stupid Gaia. You can't threaten me into staying! You hear that? I'll not be controlled! Damn the man!

Edit: Heh, I just spent, like, five minutes refreshing the page so I could see all of the pictures in my sig. I forgot about those. <3

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Nios

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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 1:17 pm

Aww that's cute. I thought you had a thread where you could see them all?

Are you able to go on AIM?

Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 1:19 pm

Nios

Aww that's cute. I thought you had a thread where you could see them all?

Are you able to go on AIM?

Yeah, but I forgot about that too.

No, I'm actually about to leave. Sorry. I'll try tomorrow.

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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 1:21 pm

TuffGhost

No, I'm actually about to leave. Sorry. I'll try tomorrow.

Bye, hun. *hugs*

Welcome to Gaia! ::

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