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 Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:18 pm
Best to attempt to attempt it again, and pull out exactly why it's offensive?
It's what I usually do. And serves for amusement, if naught else.
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:20 pm
Divine_Malevolence Best to attempt to attempt it again, and pull out exactly why it's offensive? It's what I usually do. And serves for amusement, if naught else. Wouldn't attempting it again be more offensive though?
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:20 pm
Creas Divine_Malevolence Best to attempt to attempt it again, and pull out exactly why it's offensive? It's what I usually do. And serves for amusement, if naught else. Wouldn't attempting it again be more offensive though? Yeah, but it'll get them to explain.
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:22 pm
Divine_Malevolence Creas Divine_Malevolence Best to attempt to attempt it again, and pull out exactly why it's offensive? It's what I usually do. And serves for amusement, if naught else. Wouldn't attempting it again be more offensive though? Yeah, but it'll get them to explain. Learning that it is an offensive act is enough. I really don't like hurting people like that, and I don't think I could do it again unless I had a reason other that "those are my beliefs based on the limited knowledge of the subject I have."
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:26 pm
*Shrug.*
Either I get a good reason as to why it's offensive, or I force them to think about it. In the case that it's offensive with no real reason, they'll take note and stop taking offense. If they give a good reason, I take note.
Win win.
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:29 pm
Meh. Don't wanna talk about it any more. Any way, why do you almost never quote?
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:35 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:43 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 9:20 pm
What I've felt
What I've known
Never shined through in what I've shown
Never be
Never see
Won't see what might have been
~ Christmas day used to bother me the most of all, I used to feel bad about it. Not so much anymore though as I've gotten used to it and other things and scars have taken over the spot of bothering me.
Mainly because my family makes it a task (With the exception of one of my uncles) to wish everyone a Merry Christmas except me, completely disregard me and brag to my cousins in-front of me about how they are going to open such great gifts when we start doing so. I use we loosely as I'm not going to be opening anything since I don't get anything, I'm not even noticed except for my uncle's generous donation of $20 a year, which I'm thankful for, given his low paying job.
At first it confused and hurt me. (When I was a little kid), then as it became the norm for me, I just kinda went with it, Locked myself in my room and completely ignored everyone doing what I wanted with what I had. Eventually I guess my uncle took pity and started giving me some cash since I was tight on it as I hit teenager years and had to start paying for more things myself.
Although I still can't shake the feeling of what a normal Christmas would be like, presents, joke around, go out to eat. (I'm usually left home for this, or they take me and force me to sit in a lone booth and pay for food myself while my grandmother treats everyone else.) or even eat at home.
Just a little vent/time killer on my part. I guess it coincides partly with an upcoming topic I'm posting. xP ~
What I've felt
What I've known
Never shined through in what I've shown
Never free
Never me
So I dub thee Unforgiven
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 10:49 pm
I have to get a present for a friend of mine whose birthday is in two days. But I know she already has a lot of the stuff I would normally think about getting her. sweatdrop And I can't really call her up and go like "Hey, can I come over and look through all your stuff to find out what you don't have yet?" *sigh* Guesswork time.
EDIT: Ooh, this would be perfect. It's out of stock right now, but that's okay, because I know she doesn't have an issue with belated gifts (being a person who is chronically late in all things). xd
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 11:39 pm
If someone I work with correctly guesses or mentions who they think my BF is, my face gives it away. I am a total open book. Since I work with him he wants it to be a secret since we're not technically supposed to be seeing each other... but... I just don't care. I'm PROUD of him, I would scream that I'm seeing him on national TV if I had the chance. We've been seeing each other for a year and a half and working at the same place the whole time, stuff is going to leak eventually. I'm going to forget who I'm talking to or I'm going to tell one detail too unique eventually when people ask about my "mysterious" boyfriend. I wish he wasn't so uptight about it; no one cares! We have management dating staff here fairly often, they're not going to do anything if two people who don't have different levels of authority date. I wish he would just lighten up! I can't wait until he quits or I find another job so I don't have to feel this pressure to lie to people all the time. If there's one thing I'm really proud of, it's being an honest person. I HATE that he puts me in this position where my integrity is compromised.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 5:28 pm
I feel like writing in a style that parodies Green Eggs And Ham. Like so:
I would not eat them with the people in my head.
I would not eat them if I were undead.
I do not like green eggs and ham.
I do not like them, Sam-I-Am.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 9:31 pm
yeah... so...
has anyone ever just totally jumbled up their speech an wound up sounding like a total idiot around someone they're attracted to... like in the movies? Dx
that happened to me the other day. french is my second language and when i get nervous, sometimes the words don't come out right. i was serving this guy at work.. and, well, he was... something special. like... every feature i'm attracted to pasted all over one individual.
i ended up making no sense and sounding like a complete idiot.
i was so embarrassed after.
emo
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 9:36 pm
so retarded yeah... so... has anyone ever just totally jumbled up their speech an wound up sounding like a total idiot around someone they're attracted to... like in the movies? Dx that happened to me the other day. french is my second language and when i get nervous, sometimes the words don't come out right. i was serving this guy at work.. and, well, he was... something special. like... every feature i'm attracted to pasted all over one individual. i ended up making no sense and sounding like a complete idiot. i was so embarrassed after. emo He probably thought you were adorable. I would have. 4laugh
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 9:40 pm
maybe.
i couldn't even look at him as he left the store. Dx
but i hope you're right.
and i hope he comes back so i can prove to him that i don't have a speech disorder.
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