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 Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 12:31 am
Hmm... I first realized that Iwas gay when I went to my friends slumber birthday partyI was in 7th grade(I'm now in 8th) and we started playing truth or dare...her dare was ro kiss me and well, i really liked it...thats how I found out I was gay.
And proud of it! Yay go Queer people!*raises fist heart biggrin heart
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Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 9:02 am
I'm kind of a freak when it comes to my sexuality... stare
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Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 9:25 am
umm... i really dont kno wat made me bi.... i was bi b4 i EVEN knew it sweatdrop whee
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 9:06 pm
I realized for a few reasons. Number one, I tried women and they just didn't do it for me. Number two, my best friend and later boyfriend was bi, a random guy at a party was flirting with me, I was too dense to realize this, and kissed me and I liked it. Never saw him again... I must say, I was freaked out at first, but I came to terms with it.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 10:11 am
I didn't "become lesbian." I am. And I'm not going to say "I was gay before I knew it!!" Because...how do you know that you didn't know it if you didn't? (Did that make sense?). I realized I was gay when I was 19. Before that I had boyfriends and looked at girls and wanted to fool around with them. Did that make me gay before I came out or started questioning? Maybe, but I can't say for sure because I didn't know it.
Too many people have one experience with a person of the same sex and consider themselves bi, even if they never have another experience again. That's not being bi--it's called being curious and exploring your sexuality. I know that's what I called it before I finally did come out.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 3:26 pm
*shrugs* it felt more right to be bi than anything else... sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 3:44 pm
what made me bi-ish.
i went on porn and i liked the guy's members...there blunt and honest. it is true guys arouse me. there is nothing else too it. i know i sound like a perv but it is the truth....for lots of people i am sure.
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Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 7:13 pm
Hazerdous Spock Hifay I'll go first.... My Christmas party was almost over.Everybody had left,but my best friend.I knew she was gay, and I was okay with that.I was leaning on my door,and I heard her mom honk the horn of the car.She walked over to the door, and pointed up.It was mistletoe, we laughed,and then we stared at each other for almost ever,and she leaned in and kissed me,and I kissed her back,we started to french kiss,when we heard her mom knock at the door.We immediatly satopped said by to each other,and she left. I asked her to be my girlfriend three days later. 3nodding RAWR! Anyway, i became Bi when i played truth or dare with a cute guy. He knew we knew he was gay. There was an asian, a gay, and 2 straight. After that people dared me and him to kiss. Eventually it got out of hand, and i began to be aroused by Men more and more. Girls arouse and attract me more, but guys can have their turns. I am also the youngest here, so not too mcuh exp yet. xd Ha! I am hunger so that statment is false, we are close though. I just always seemed to notice siggys of guys and had fantasies so I put 2 and 2 together and found I am at least Curious.
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 12:57 pm
my girlfriend's brilliance made me bi
that, and too much porn sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 2:32 pm
when i relized i was bi....
i've always really known that i was bi but i never admited it until last year. i admitted be cause i ((this is kinda ambarsing)) like brest and i can never stop looking at my friends. size DD i just couldn't hold it in so i just told some of my friends and thats really all there is to it.
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 6:43 am
I'm one of those people who denied it. I love the theatre. My mother was an actress and she was a member of the actor's union, so I got to see a lot of plays, musicals and regular plays. I love musicals. But because I like musicals, I don't think it should mean that I'm gay. But I also am quite attracted to guys. If the most attractive couple of models were walking down the street towards me. A guy and a gal and you asked me anything about the gal, I might be able to answer some of your questions, but I doubt it. Now, if you asked me about the guy, I'd be able to answer any and all about him.
Anyway, I was talking to my psychologist and I told him that, and I asked if that meant that I was gay. He said it did. So, I thought I'd shrug of my fear and go to a gay bar. I'm not totally openly gay, but I do go to gay bars, and I am a member of the town's gay community center.
It was also a matter of people calling me a f** or asking me if I was gay, and I'd say I wasn't. A few people wanted to fight me because they thought I was gay. This was when I was in denial. Now, I realize maybe my life might have been better had I not denied anything. Although, I'd still have those instances when people wanted to beat me up because they thought I was gay.
I'm sorry if this is stupid.
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 7:25 am
I think it was too much art xd I started realizing that drawing the female body was just as fun as drawing the male body. There we other things too, but I'm too lazy to list them. PM me if you wanna know, but they really aren't all that interesting.
EDIT: I've noticed a lot of people get angry when you say "turned" bi/gay. It's the whole nature vs. nurture thing. Personally, in my case, I really don't believe I was born bi. I think I was born predisposed to being bi, and than gradually became bi due to certain circumstances. I know that a lot of people are born gay/bi, but I really do believe that there are also people who turn bi/gay too. Sorry, just my two cents sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 8:44 am
Sernin I'm sorry if this is stupid. It;s not stupid at all. We all have different ways of finding out who we really are at our core. And many people deny their sexuality. My GF did all through high school and most of college.
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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 12:11 pm
i was like born gay, but i dont think it helped that i was molested by my best friend
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Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 4:23 am
Nothing TURNED me Bi I was and always will be like this.
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