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Shiori Miko

PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:07 pm


My dad is talking about leaving but won't leave me with my mom and doesn't know where we can go. I have no experience with this sort of thing so I've got no ideas.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:09 pm


Buy a hotel and live like the people in Elfen Lied?
*Shot*

Perhaps kick 'er out? Into a mental hospital?
*Bullet spam.*
I'm not very good at that.

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Shiori Miko

PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:12 pm


Kicking her out would require more willpower than my dad has, and it wouldn't work coming from me. And staying in a hotel wouldn't work, as money is tight as it is.

I'm currently looking up online for assistance for victims of domestic violence in Massachusetts, but most are for women.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:17 pm


No, come into possession of a hotel!


And..... Well, most isn't all? Mayhaps a psychiatrist?

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:19 pm


When we lived at our old house, there was a sweet older couple next door who really took to me and my brothers. The woman grew tomatoes in her garden especially for me because I liked them. And when my brother got his finger caught in the chain of his bike, the guy next door was the one who rushed over and took the bike apart while we waited for the ambulance to get there.

We never really saw them anymore once we moved across the city...

But today, my dad told me that the woman died...

He went to the wake without me, and I didn't realize until after he left that I kind of wanted to go...

I feel all crappy... =/
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:23 pm


mm?
I have had to deal with a few issues like that. <<
If you have a few more details I may be able to help. o:

Neceo


Shiori Miko

PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:28 pm


Neceo
mm?
I have had to deal with a few issues like that. <<
If you have a few more details I may be able to help. o:

Like what kinda details?
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:31 pm


Shiori Miko
Neceo
mm?
I have had to deal with a few issues like that. <<
If you have a few more details I may be able to help. o:

Like what kinda details?
Laws vary alot.
For example here Killing someone in self defense is legal....if they are shorter then you.
If they are taller is isnt legal.
Just her exact situation, Whether she is legal or not, where she is from, and what your local laws on the matter are.
Usually when dealing with issues like this its just a matter of money.
Take that zCBer from awhile back who was in that situation. <<

Neceo


Shiori Miko

PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:33 pm


Neceo
Shiori Miko
Neceo
mm?
I have had to deal with a few issues like that. <<
If you have a few more details I may be able to help. o:

Like what kinda details?
Laws vary alot.
For example here Killing someone in self defense is legal....if they are shorter then you.
If they are taller is isnt legal.
Just her exact situation, Whether she is legal or not, where she is from, and what your local laws on the matter are.
Usually when dealing with issues like this its just a matter of money.
Take that zCBer from awhile back who was in that situation. <<

Well as of now I'm more concerned on getting my dad out of here. The legal aspects I'll worry about later.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:39 pm


Shiori Miko
Neceo
Shiori Miko
Neceo
mm?
I have had to deal with a few issues like that. <<
If you have a few more details I may be able to help. o:

Like what kinda details?
Laws vary alot.
For example here Killing someone in self defense is legal....if they are shorter then you.
If they are taller is isnt legal.
Just her exact situation, Whether she is legal or not, where she is from, and what your local laws on the matter are.
Usually when dealing with issues like this its just a matter of money.
Take that zCBer from awhile back who was in that situation. <<

Well as of now I'm more concerned on getting my dad out of here. The legal aspects I'll worry about later.
mmm we kicked out my dad when I was little after figuring out he was a criminal.
We downsized Majorly and moved to this crappy a** place.
It was like....Ive seen hotel rooms bigger then it.
Basically if you are going to have a situation like that moving down to a tiny suite is going to be your best bet since though it wont be comfortable it will allow you to make more money.
(since it will be cheaper to maintain money issues will go down dramatically)
It would still be hard though for awhile.
Only reason my family recovered was......Well it wasn't uncommon to not see my mom for about 3-4 days while growing up.
She worked alot, to get out.
Nowadays we are pretty rich, but if your cutting out income downsizing and moving is going to be your best option until you can get enough money to get a new home.

renovation works good to.
<<
Move into a crappy place, reno, get comfy then sell for higher then you got it.
Always helps to get back to where you are.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:23 pm


@ Shiori - I'm guessing the reason you and your dad haven't left her is guilt issues, right? That he'd feel bad if she was kicked out with nowhere else to go? If your dad's retirement is enough money to pay rent and bills where you are, then it should be enough to pay rent and bills somewhere else. If it's not quite enough to meet the usual 3-3.5x rent requirement most places have, I'm sure you qualify for Section 8 housing assistance. I don't know about where you live, but there's 2-3 bedroom Section 8 apartments where I live that cost in the $300s per month.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:30 pm


My mother, who I just recently started communicating with by email (left when I was four, brok communications) just made a Gaia. Don't know if I should be happy or not.

Creas


Neceo

PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:36 pm


Creas
My mother, who I just recently started communicating with by email (left when I was four, brok communications) just made a Gaia. Don't know if I should be happy or not.
D:
Dont tell her about the zCB or your life shall become hell.
....if she gets crazy though let me know and ill scare her away. >>
But assuming your relationship over emails was good then yes you should be happy?
I see families playing MMOs together.
"John! Stop KSing your brother!, Your grounded young man D:<"
IT feels so freaking awkward just sitting there and having a family discussing shet in public next to you. o.o
PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:38 pm


Neceo
Creas
My mother, who I just recently started communicating with by email (left when I was four, brok communications) just made a Gaia. Don't know if I should be happy or not.
D:
Dont tell her about the zCB or your life shall become hell.
....if she gets crazy though let me know and ill scare her away. >>
But assuming your relationship over emails was good then yes you should be happy?
I see families playing MMOs together.
"John! Stop KSing your brother!, Your grounded young man D:<"
IT feels so freaking awkward just sitting there and having a family discussing shet in public next to you. o.o
Nah, she's fine over email. I was the one who prompted her to make one. I actually told her to do so. Though the z!CB is my little secret.

Creas


Neceo

PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:55 pm


Creas
Neceo
Creas
My mother, who I just recently started communicating with by email (left when I was four, brok communications) just made a Gaia. Don't know if I should be happy or not.
D:
Dont tell her about the zCB or your life shall become hell.
....if she gets crazy though let me know and ill scare her away. >>
But assuming your relationship over emails was good then yes you should be happy?
I see families playing MMOs together.
"John! Stop KSing your brother!, Your grounded young man D:<"
IT feels so freaking awkward just sitting there and having a family discussing shet in public next to you. o.o
Nah, she's fine over email. I was the one who prompted her to make one. I actually told her to do so. Though the z!CB is my little secret.
...........Whats her user? o3o
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