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 Posted: Sat May 14, 2005 10:26 am
ViewtifulVampire I'm Bi and I have opened up to some of friends and told them. Unfournating one of my old friends who I know wouldn't accept me being Bi found out. I'm not ahsamed of my sexaulity but he has been a real b*****d about it. He goes around when I'm talking to one of my friends or just to anybody and just yells pointing at me, "Hey, He's Bi!" He has been doing this to everyone I know, forcing me in uncomfortable postion of denieing my sexaulity. Well, I just don't know what to do in this situation, I was thinking that I would be able to get some advice here. I'm just lost and really starting to get furious. Castrarte him in his sleep! blaugh Err.... more seriously.... ask him why he insults you for it.... chances are it'll be some stupid reason. Then backfire with some comment such as "I don't insult you for ________" <---- fill in da blank yourself since I dunno your friend. Also, the biggest homophobes are quite often the closeted gays. (if you ad that bit ya might be able to get him to shut up) If all else fails start calling him a prejudiced, homophobic, bigoted, hating, illogical, moronic b*****d! Then castrate him in his sleep! (if ya do that last part I hold no responsibility whatsoever... ninja ) Just stay strong.
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Posted: Sun May 15, 2005 9:18 pm
DreamerSpirit ViewtifulVampire I'm Bi and I have opened up to some of friends and told them. Unfournating one of my old friends who I know wouldn't accept me being Bi found out. I'm not ahsamed of my sexaulity but he has been a real b*****d about it. He goes around when I'm talking to one of my friends or just to anybody and just yells pointing at me, "Hey, He's Bi!" He has been doing this to everyone I know, forcing me in uncomfortable postion of denieing my sexaulity. Well, I just don't know what to do in this situation, I was thinking that I would be able to get some advice here. I'm just lost and really starting to get furious. Castrarte him in his sleep! blaugh Err.... more seriously.... ask him why he insults you for it.... chances are it'll be some stupid reason. Then backfire with some comment such as "I don't insult you for ________" <---- fill in da blank yourself since I dunno your friend. Also, the biggest homophobes are quite often the closeted gays. (if you ad that bit ya might be able to get him to shut up) If all else fails start calling him a prejudiced, homophobic, bigoted, hating, illogical, moronic b*****d! Then castrate him in his sleep! (if ya do that last part I hold no responsibility whatsoever... ninja ) Just stay strong. Yeah, i;'m kindof in the same position as vampire, about 3 people going around when im socialising saying things like "Hey your bi arn't you?" And "Got an eye out for any boys yet?" And "Bi Bi ****" And more, which, pardon my french, really pisses me off.
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Posted: Mon May 16, 2005 2:20 pm
loginbin3000 DreamerSpirit ViewtifulVampire I'm Bi and I have opened up to some of friends and told them. Unfournating one of my old friends who I know wouldn't accept me being Bi found out. I'm not ahsamed of my sexaulity but he has been a real b*****d about it. He goes around when I'm talking to one of my friends or just to anybody and just yells pointing at me, "Hey, He's Bi!" He has been doing this to everyone I know, forcing me in uncomfortable postion of denieing my sexaulity. Well, I just don't know what to do in this situation, I was thinking that I would be able to get some advice here. I'm just lost and really starting to get furious. Castrarte him in his sleep! blaugh Err.... more seriously.... ask him why he insults you for it.... chances are it'll be some stupid reason. Then backfire with some comment such as "I don't insult you for ________" <---- fill in da blank yourself since I dunno your friend. Also, the biggest homophobes are quite often the closeted gays. (if you ad that bit ya might be able to get him to shut up) If all else fails start calling him a prejudiced, homophobic, bigoted, hating, illogical, moronic b*****d! Then castrate him in his sleep! (if ya do that last part I hold no responsibility whatsoever... ninja ) Just stay strong. Yeah, i;'m kindof in the same position as vampire, about 3 people going around when im socialising saying things like "Hey your bi arn't you?" And "Got an eye out for any boys yet?" And "Bi Bi ****" And more, which, pardon my french, really pisses me off. When I first came out and started hugging and holding hands with my crush a lot people kept asking me if I was bi... it annoyed the hell outta me until I finally one day scramed at the top of my lungs to these morons "I'M FRIKIN BI DAMMIT! NOW SHUT THE F*** UP AND LEAVE ME ATO MY PEACE!!! Sheesh you people..." Luckily where I live it's pretty much ok, though there aren't many same-sex cuples in my school, but after I spazzed and yellled at everyone they shrugged it off and went back to the normal way they treat me... though one of the teachers did almost give me a detention for my swearing but I cried my way out of it (yay for good acting skills!) xp
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Posted: Mon May 16, 2005 4:24 pm
DreamerSpirit loginbin3000 DreamerSpirit ViewtifulVampire I'm Bi and I have opened up to some of friends and told them. Unfournating one of my old friends who I know wouldn't accept me being Bi found out. I'm not ahsamed of my sexaulity but he has been a real b*****d about it. He goes around when I'm talking to one of my friends or just to anybody and just yells pointing at me, "Hey, He's Bi!" He has been doing this to everyone I know, forcing me in uncomfortable postion of denieing my sexaulity. Well, I just don't know what to do in this situation, I was thinking that I would be able to get some advice here. I'm just lost and really starting to get furious. Castrarte him in his sleep! blaugh Err.... more seriously.... ask him why he insults you for it.... chances are it'll be some stupid reason. Then backfire with some comment such as "I don't insult you for ________" <---- fill in da blank yourself since I dunno your friend. Also, the biggest homophobes are quite often the closeted gays. (if you ad that bit ya might be able to get him to shut up) If all else fails start calling him a prejudiced, homophobic, bigoted, hating, illogical, moronic b*****d! Then castrate him in his sleep! (if ya do that last part I hold no responsibility whatsoever... ninja ) Just stay strong. Yeah, i;'m kindof in the same position as vampire, about 3 people going around when im socialising saying things like "Hey your bi arn't you?" And "Got an eye out for any boys yet?" And "Bi Bi ****" And more, which, pardon my french, really pisses me off. When I first came out and started hugging and holding hands with my crush a lot people kept asking me if I was bi... it annoyed the hell outta me until I finally one day scramed at the top of my lungs to these morons "I'M FRIKIN BI DAMMIT! NOW SHUT THE F*** UP AND LEAVE ME ATO MY PEACE!!! Sheesh you people..." Luckily where I live it's pretty much ok, though there aren't many same-sex cuples in my school, but after I spazzed and yellled at everyone they shrugged it off and went back to the normal way they treat me... though one of the teachers did almost give me a detention for my swearing but I cried my way out of it (yay for good acting skills!) xp Thanks for the advice! I try ingoring him, don't listen to him or even talk to him. Maybe that will give some time think and accepct me. I have lots of my friends who know him but they accepct me being Bi. So maybe they talk some sense in him. Since most of them are girls, he should definlety listen to them. If not I'll just maybe have to stop seeing him altogether. Also I'm going to deine my sexaullity when he does it. I'm just stand with pride and yell, "I'm Bi and damn proud of it! So shut up and leave me the F*** alone!" Agian, Thanks for the advice!
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Posted: Tue May 17, 2005 2:01 pm
Some of my friends are kinda weirded out about my being gay, but the good friends wont care, and will tell you it okay, and ur still you. 3nodding i'm proud of who i am, and i'v made out in front of people in a public park, cuz people can shove it! biggrin
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Posted: Thu May 19, 2005 11:34 pm
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Posted: Sat May 21, 2005 1:22 am
i dont suppose anyone is here right now?
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Posted: Sat May 21, 2005 1:25 am
SweetKanashimi i dont suppose anyone is here right now? meh
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2005 3:41 pm
ok i really need some help here. Not to long ago i realized that i was gay. At first i was in shock for about 2 weeks, and now im deep in depression. I really want to kill myself. I dont know why but i hate myself for who i am. I just cant stand myself, i sicken me. I have no problem with gay people at all, but when i realised i was gay i just hated it. I cant stand this and even though ive promised i wouldnt hurt myself to some friends, i still might do it anyway. Can soemone please help me? i just dont know what to do
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Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 8:14 pm
I would honestly suggest just settling down, and try to take it all in. When I first figured out I was bi, I felt like crap. I mean, I live in the freakin' south, and they hammered into my head what was right and what was wrong. I'm afraid there isn't much you *can* do, except try to cope with it as best as you can. Sorry I'm not being helpful... sad
I need some advice as well. There is a gay kid at my school that I would like to get to know a little better. Not romantically, mind you, just as friends. Problem is, I'm not open about my sexuality, and I'm afraid that he might tell someone else, and have it travel through the High School social grapevine (he has, like, a bajillion female friends, and he likes to gossip like all of them do). I'm not sure if I should just hold off on saying anything, or just go for it. confused
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 12:56 am
well although its better to have an open friendship in my opinion, it might be best to keep your sexuality on the downlow since this fella likes to gossip. besides, if youre just gettin to know him as a friend he doesnt really have to know your sexuality. if you really want to tell him though, i suggest waiting to tell him until you two build a good amount of trust.
hope that was helpful. sweatdrop heart
i too have a problem...*deep breath* okay lets see where do i start...i dont really feel comfortable in my body......i might wanna get a sex change, but still be feminine.....i wanna be a drag queen!! but im stuck in the confines of a female body and it just doesnt feel right...plus im havin major confusion cuz im not sure about my sexuality right now. its hard cuz im already out as bi...but i really have no clue.......... confused sweatdrop
umm i guess the kind of advice im requesting here is: 1) how do i know id be making the right choice for me by getting a sex change? {{like how do i know thats what i truly want?}}...and 2) how do you know your sexuality without actually having sex? {{cuz im a virgin, and although i would be open to lesbian sex, im afraid to have hetro sex cuz i dont wanna end up pregnant}}..........gawd this is embarassing rolleyes
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Posted: Sat May 28, 2005 9:27 pm
rolleyes ok nvm...i guess i basically figured things out on one level or another.....alright, so: im pretty damn sure im bi, however i have like no attraction for hetrosexuals...im only attracted to homosexuals if that makes sense. which leads to my personal gender preference confusion b/c its like im a gay man trapped in a lesbians body...but if i got a sex change id be a lesbian trapped in a gay mans body. so i guess i have to choose if i want to lead a life as a lesbian, or get a sex change and be a gay man...cuz i cant have both!!
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Posted: Tue May 31, 2005 4:41 pm
OK....i seriously need some advice!!!!!!!1 crying
Ok, well i wanna tell my best friend that i think im bi, cuz we tell each other everything, but im scared to death!!!! xp I know shes cool with gays n all that, but its scary, and i dont know if i should tell her, and shed be the first person who i know (besides on here) that ive told.... I wanna tell her, but i dont know if i can...like....i know i should just say it..but any advice?
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Posted: Tue May 31, 2005 6:34 pm
SweetKanashimi well although its better to have an open friendship in my opinion, it might be best to keep your sexuality on the downlow since this fella likes to gossip. besides, if youre just gettin to know him as a friend he doesnt really have to know your sexuality. if you really want to tell him though, i suggest waiting to tell him until you two build a good amount of trust. hope that was helpful. sweatdrop heart i too have a problem...*deep breath* okay lets see where do i start...i dont really feel comfortable in my body......i might wanna get a sex change, but still be feminine.....i wanna be a drag queen!! but im stuck in the confines of a female body and it just doesnt feel right...plus im havin major confusion cuz im not sure about my sexuality right now. its hard cuz im already out as bi...but i really have no clue.......... confused sweatdrop umm i guess the kind of advice im requesting here is: 1) how do i know id be making the right choice for me by getting a sex change? {{like how do i know thats what i truly want?}}...and 2) how do you know your sexuality without actually having sex? {{cuz im a virgin, and although i would be open to lesbian sex, im afraid to have hetro sex cuz i dont wanna end up pregnant}}..........gawd this is embarassing rolleyes 1) ok, wither or not u get the sex xhange, its ur body, and only you know whats right, and it all depends on what you want, not what everyone else thinks 2) again, sorta the the first answer, it all depends on what feels right with you, no one call tell you what to feel, or what to like, it all depends on what makes u feel nice n comfy heart
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Posted: Tue May 31, 2005 7:22 pm
menosea 1) ok, wither or not u get the sex xhange, its ur body, and only you know whats right, and it all depends on what you want, not what everyone else thinks 2) again, sorta the the first answer, it all depends on what feels right with you, no one call tell you what to feel, or what to like, it all depends on what makes u feel nice n comfy heart thanks!! as for ur problem, i think u should go ahead and tell ur friend...but idk wut 2 tell u about what 2 say. i only know how i came out. i kinda just started making quiet remarks that different girls my friends talked about where hot. then i directed everyone to my online diary where i wrote a blog bout my sexuality. u shouldnt have too much a problem coming out to ur best friend so long as shes not anti-gay. heart
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