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 Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2011 10:45 am
Aakosir shandrel The only way to win, is to kill her with kindness.. i suggest looking up a kickboxing class, or start working out, put your anger into that..... now, if he asks, if your upset over something she does go ahead and say Yes, but tell him that you know, he doesn't need more stress, and you love him... don't go into it, don't let her get to you, you are letting HER control you....don't give her that anymore.
His sister sent him a message saying he should bring our daughter to her work so she could play, since she works at one of those bounce house places. He showed me the message and I said something like "I'm sorry, but they do not deserve to see Elena. And I have three years of reasons why." He was okay with that, I guess since he doesn't get along with his sister. He asked what about his dad. I said "You're dad's absolutely fine, but your mom and sister, no." Then we went an had dinner with his grandparents that night. So it's not like I'm shutting them all out, just the two bitches...
SAVVY is no longer SAVVY??? It's only been under new management for what, two weeks? And they already changed the name... Um....*nods* good your doing what you need to with his family ... and yes,i was terminated from "kismet's Power" when i told her she would need to replace my as staff.... >.> LONG story, but yes, it is becoming another teeny-emo hangout. she doesn't want older members. as in anyone over like 19 i think... not sure what she considers a "younger crowd" but i want no part of it... i feel very bad for Elta, this wasn't what she wanted.
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Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2011 11:16 am
shandrel Aakosir shandrel The only way to win, is to kill her with kindness.. i suggest looking up a kickboxing class, or start working out, put your anger into that..... now, if he asks, if your upset over something she does go ahead and say Yes, but tell him that you know, he doesn't need more stress, and you love him... don't go into it, don't let her get to you, you are letting HER control you....don't give her that anymore.
His sister sent him a message saying he should bring our daughter to her work so she could play, since she works at one of those bounce house places. He showed me the message and I said something like "I'm sorry, but they do not deserve to see Elena. And I have three years of reasons why." He was okay with that, I guess since he doesn't get along with his sister. He asked what about his dad. I said "You're dad's absolutely fine, but your mom and sister, no." Then we went an had dinner with his grandparents that night. So it's not like I'm shutting them all out, just the two bitches...
SAVVY is no longer SAVVY??? It's only been under new management for what, two weeks? And they already changed the name... Um....*nods* good your doing what you need to with his family ... and yes,i was terminated from "kismet's Power" when i told her she would need to replace my as staff.... >.> LONG story, but yes, it is becoming another teeny-emo hangout. she doesn't want older members. as in anyone over like 19 i think... not sure what she considers a "younger crowd" but i want no part of it... i feel very bad for Elta, this wasn't what she wanted.
What the hell is up with the new name? I mean really... It reminded me of something from Charmed! I'm definitely not going to support it if that is what the plan is... I do feel really bad for Elta too... She trusted this person to take care of the guild, but they are totally changing it in to something they want. That's not how it works when someone asks you to take care of something...
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Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2011 11:51 am
Aakosir shandrel Aakosir shandrel The only way to win, is to kill her with kindness.. i suggest looking up a kickboxing class, or start working out, put your anger into that..... now, if he asks, if your upset over something she does go ahead and say Yes, but tell him that you know, he doesn't need more stress, and you love him... don't go into it, don't let her get to you, you are letting HER control you....don't give her that anymore.
His sister sent him a message saying he should bring our daughter to her work so she could play, since she works at one of those bounce house places. He showed me the message and I said something like "I'm sorry, but they do not deserve to see Elena. And I have three years of reasons why." He was okay with that, I guess since he doesn't get along with his sister. He asked what about his dad. I said "You're dad's absolutely fine, but your mom and sister, no." Then we went an had dinner with his grandparents that night. So it's not like I'm shutting them all out, just the two bitches...
SAVVY is no longer SAVVY??? It's only been under new management for what, two weeks? And they already changed the name... Um....*nods* good your doing what you need to with his family ... and yes,i was terminated from "kismet's Power" when i told her she would need to replace my as staff.... >.> LONG story, but yes, it is becoming another teeny-emo hangout. she doesn't want older members. as in anyone over like 19 i think... not sure what she considers a "younger crowd" but i want no part of it... i feel very bad for Elta, this wasn't what she wanted.
What the hell is up with the new name? I mean really... It reminded me of something from Charmed! I'm definitely not going to support it if that is what the plan is... I do feel really bad for Elta too... She trusted this person to take care of the guild, but they are totally changing it in to something they want. That's not how it works when someone asks you to take care of something...*nods* i agree with you, completely.
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 3:24 am
Just something that's been rolling around in my head for a while...ever since I saw the new A Team movie...
"It is better to be violent, if there is violence in our hearts, than to put on the cloak of non-violence to cover impotence. Violence is any day preferable to impotence. There is hope for a violent man to become non-violent. There is no such hope for the impotent."
Mahatma Gandhi
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ScarletFrost Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 9:23 am
thank you for sharing that smile
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Posted: Sat Mar 26, 2011 12:09 pm
More of me exercising my second amendment right. 
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Posted: Sun Mar 27, 2011 8:43 am
It's a good right to exercise!
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Posted: Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:58 pm
Back "home" in SC... It didn't even feel like I went to my moms....
The husband and I had a huge fight the last night thanks to him getting shitfaced... I spent almost three hours in the bathroom with him while he hugged the toilet and yelled at me... Then he passed out on the floor and puked on my mom's rug... He wouldn't wake up even though I was shaking him. Oh what fun... I hate, hate, hate when he gets like that. He looked so weak and pathetic. And that's not how I want to see my man...
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Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 7:16 pm
Had my first girls day out ever today! Was great fun even though they had to peel me out of the house at first... even had a lady comment on how pretty my hair was (which almost made me cry for happiness). Today I actually felt beautiful for the first time... Good day and a huge step (or two) for me.
Thanks to all those who keep showing me their support here and in real life. heart heart
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 9:34 am
Well, just checking in. It's been a week since Iogged in last, and I will rbably be doing so less frequently. I have made it to one of those points where I am not happy with myself or how my life is going, a am changing it. I started over a year ago, but nothing I had done seemed to work, I have cut WAY back on what I eat and how; I started taking supplements to support gland health; and I have been exercising... I had my thyroid and sugar levels checked Friday, and it looks as though something finally took effect... I am healthy, even my thyroid looks better than it has in 10 years, so the iodine loaded supplements have helped... but my weight had made it to 278 lbs in the mean time... I need professional help, so I am joining a fitness center, and I am starting my search for a job. My husband has made his transition to the day shift now, and he bought a car Friday, so I am no longer housebound. So, my time on Gaia will be minimal. I may keep up with a weekly update. If you miss me... Find me on Facebook... Heather's Facebook
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 4:45 pm
Best of luck, Elta!
I've been trying to get an appointment set up for me so I can finally see how far along I am and get a due date... I called today to make an appointment, but I was told I have to walk in to the Family Health clinic and do a test to prove I am pregnant. Then they will give me instructions from there... I think I should have just stayed with the standard insurance... Now I have to run around the hospital getting the next step from one person at a time...
And I burnt my rice tonight... But I made brownies so it should even out.
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 9:29 am
Eltanin Sadachbia Well, just checking in. It's been a week since Iogged in last, and I will rbably be doing so less frequently. I have made it to one of those points where I am not happy with myself or how my life is going, a am changing it. I started over a year ago, but nothing I had done seemed to work, I have cut WAY back on what I eat and how; I started taking supplements to support gland health; and I have been exercising... I had my thyroid and sugar levels checked Friday, and it looks as though something finally took effect... I am healthy, even my thyroid looks better than it has in 10 years, so the iodine loaded supplements have helped... but my weight had made it to 278 lbs in the mean time... I need professional help, so I am joining a fitness center, and I am starting my search for a job. My husband has made his transition to the day shift now, and he bought a car Friday, so I am no longer housebound. So, my time on Gaia will be minimal. I may keep up with a weekly update. If you miss me... Find me on Facebook... Heather's Facebookof course we miss you.... will you still be doing art? *huggles * and added biggrin
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 9:31 am
Aakosir Best of luck, Elta!
I've been trying to get an appointment set up for me so I can finally see how far along I am and get a due date... I called today to make an appointment, but I was told I have to walk in to the Family Health clinic and do a test to prove I am pregnant. Then they will give me instructions from there... I think I should have just stayed with the standard insurance... Now I have to run around the hospital getting the next step from one person at a time...
And I burnt my rice tonight... But I made brownies so it should even out. almost any insurance requires this....
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 1:45 pm
shandrel Aakosir Best of luck, Elta!
I've been trying to get an appointment set up for me so I can finally see how far along I am and get a due date... I called today to make an appointment, but I was told I have to walk in to the Family Health clinic and do a test to prove I am pregnant. Then they will give me instructions from there... I think I should have just stayed with the standard insurance... Now I have to run around the hospital getting the next step from one person at a time...
And I burnt my rice tonight... But I made brownies so it should even out. almost any insurance requires this....
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 4:04 pm
well, i know every state insurance i have been on, and the military insurance all require the same thing. *Shrugs*
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