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 Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 11:47 am
So much for being back in a regular posting mood...
My boyfriend just called a little while ago to let me know he had sex with someone last night. I haven't been able to stop crying but I can't really blame him either which is the worst part. I knew it would happen, he's a young good looking guy who just went off to college, of course he's going to have a little fun. I just thought he'd wait more than a week before cheating on me.... I don't know what to do I've been going crazy without him as it is and I can't live without him so there's no way I could dump him. We started our relationship on the premise that we could still be physical with other people cuz we were too young to tie ourselves to one person, there was a lot of living to do, but after being together for 2 and a half years I thought things had changed. He'd never had sex with someone else while we've been dating, he'd made out with a few people, but nothing this bad. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have to see his parents tomorrow to to drop off his dog for the day and I don't think I can face them. I don't even know what I'm typing all this there's nothing that can be done.
I think I'm just going to go hole myself up in my room and die.
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 12:03 pm
Scytheress So much for being back in a regular posting mood... My boyfriend just called a little while ago to let me know he had sex with someone last night. I haven't been able to stop crying but I can't really blame him either which is the worst part. I knew it would happen, he's a young good looking guy who just went off to college, of course he's going to have a little fun. I just thought he'd wait more than a week before cheating on me.... I don't know what to do I've been going crazy without him as it is and I can't live without him so there's no way I could dump him. We started our relationship on the premise that we could still be physical with other people cuz we were too young to tie ourselves to one person, there was a lot of living to do, but after being together for 2 and a half years I thought things had changed. He'd never had sex with someone else while we've been dating, he'd made out with a few people, but nothing this bad. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have to see his parents tomorrow to to drop off his dog for the day and I don't think I can face them. I don't even know what I'm typing all this there's nothing that can be done. I think I'm just going to go hole myself up in my room and die. That sucks...but at least he's being honest about it and not keeping it a secret like other guys would. I'd rather you didn't hole yourself up and die. :c
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 12:38 pm
+1 for being honest
-10 for doing it.
I may not have a lot of knowledge when it comes to dating and there no turning back time. It best to try to talk to him about it. He may feel as hell of guilty for it. We're all still children who want to approval of the people around them. If he didn't care at all he would have broken off and never ask for your forgiveness. We don't know till you ask about it.
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 12:55 pm
I sent him a msg and he left lunch to come back and skype with me.... he does feel really guilty and I think we'll be ok. I just feel a little sick now @_@
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 12:56 pm
Scytheress I sent him a msg and he left lunch to come back and skype with me.... he does feel really guilty and I think we'll be ok. I just feel a little sick now @_@ I'm sure it will work out *pats and hugs* c:
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 1:01 pm
*glomps Scy*
It'll be okay heart heart heart
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 1:03 pm
Being betrayed always makes a person sick. It's because of the trust issue. BTW you have just gotten your story (edited so it a little private) told to by my Queers and Allies prez. He understands the feeling.
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 1:50 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 1:52 pm
There is a time and a place for such things, and now is not the time nor the place. D8 read the mood.
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:14 pm
lXl Tempus Temporis lXl There is a time and a place for such things, and now is not the time nor the place. D8 read the mood. I did read the mood - I was just stretchin' out a bit. that a crime?
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:17 pm
AlyKitt_RyukaI lXl Tempus Temporis lXl There is a time and a place for such things, and now is not the time nor the place. D8 read the mood. I did read the mood - I was just stretchin' out a bit. that a crime? Yes, yes it is. It is 15 years in fail with big sweaty black men named Bubba who you should not drop the soap around. c:
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:20 pm
lXl Tempus Temporis lXl AlyKitt_RyukaI lXl Tempus Temporis lXl There is a time and a place for such things, and now is not the time nor the place. D8 read the mood. I did read the mood - I was just stretchin' out a bit. that a crime? Yes, yes it is. It is 15 years in fail with big sweaty black men named Bubba who you should not drop the soap around. c: 15 years . . . in fail?
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:26 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:27 pm
You're an odd one.
And your avi is damn creepy! Change it!
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Posted: Sun Jan 23, 2011 2:28 pm
nowai, all the better to tentacle violate with.
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