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 Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:29 pm
lol Andrew!!
Aww don't beat yourself up for it Crystal. To be honest i don't think people should get married right when they hit adult hood. Give it a few years. Enjoy yourself.
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:50 pm
Crystal, I agree with DownAzzLette, you shouldn't be worried with that. Actually, I agree with her, but I add: I don't think that anyone should feel obliged to marry at any age. I'm only 22 and I don't think that anyone my age, younger than me or older should feel that they should marry because it's time for it, marriage is something you commit when you feel ready not just because you love someone, but because you have means to and are ready to take care of yourself and another person. I hate these things that society makes us feel that doesn't really make sense.
Sorry, I'm ranting, but this kind of thing made me remember something that annoys me to no end. Every time someone discovers that my boyfriend and I are dating for 3 years and a half, it' for sure that someone will say something about marriage or stuff like that. What's the problem if we date for some time? And we think it's absurd because how can people say things like that when we had not even graduated from college (now we have, but it still applies) and don't have a fixed job? And I'm not talking about people that don't know us (it happens with them too), but people like my friends or his mom. It's illogical and would be a crazy thing to marry so young and unprepared. Other than that, we're dating, I love him A LOT, but it doesn't mean I'm sure I want to marry him, it's a BIG commitment.
Okay, I'll stop to rant. Sorry again.
What I really wanted to say was: Crystal, don't worry, you are young and you have you're whole life ahead of you. Enjoy it and if you find someone you want to marry, in any time of your life (now, tomorrow, fifty years from now...), marry this person. If not or if you just want to date someone or whatever: do it. Let people look you in a strange way or do whatever they want, the life is yours. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 3:24 pm
Yeah, I know. Stupid society.
In other news...I'm hungry. *goes off in search of food* *voice from other room*ooooh peanut butter!
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:43 am
It seems all of us are in our twenties lol so we're not old!
--I already decided I'm not getting married until I get my Masters (hopefully by 24). So far my boyfriend has been okay with it for two years so we'll see how the next four years go. I don't want to get married right away, I want to be myself first and know who I am before I connect with someone (officially) for the rest of my life.
Crystal where do you live again?
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:50 am
@Haltless:
Gaia should have a LOVE button. I, Kat Pinckney, love your message lol
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:30 am
Utah.
Gaia does have a love <3 button, just not in guilds, did you know?
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 9:18 am
This emote you are talking about?? ~~~> heart
So i bleached my hair with blonde streaks. Need to do one more bleach to it before i can add the blue dye. It looks pretty good so far.
How is everyone weekend going?
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 10:58 am
No no there's a <3 and a
So it'll be blue streaks? Sounds cool.
My weekend is...um well today's my birthday. I have to admit even for starting out with low expectations for it today is still below what I expected. So depressing, I hope it picks up after lunch.
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 11:30 am
@downazzlette: pictures??
@mothette: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 11:39 am
Thank you.
I want to see pictures too!
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 12:15 pm
i dyed part of my hair blue before. i'm sure it will look so cool on you!
(lemme see pictures when its all done!)
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 6:34 pm
what's up guys?? My birthday took a turn for the better and a friends super awesome cool family took me to the city. Were at olive garden and I've got a nice glass of wine in front of me. mrgreen
Cheers!
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 7:27 pm
Glad your day turned around!
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 8:21 pm
Avatar34 Glad your day turned around!
I really enjoyed it. In fact I haven't felt so good or bold in months, maybe years. I call bs on the "drinking increases depression" thing. >.>
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 8:32 pm
Yes i will post pics once it is all done. Prob not of face or anything but who knows. I am camera shy sometimes.
Aww Crystal. Happy Birthday doll.
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