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 Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 1:01 am
Deathfrost lol it's not so much that we wouldn't do naughty things, we just wouldn't do them with each other... wink
I'm glad to hear that everyone is doing fine! Going back to school would be a good thing, but only if you are sure what you want to do... I was talking to a guy while playing DC Universe Online, & he was complaining almost the entire time about how he hated his major, then I asked him if he was the one who chose that as his major & he was like "no, my dad chose for me..." lol that's the problem with me. I'm too indecisive, If I go back to school I will have a lot of trouble deciding what to take. That's the reason I'm looking into different careers.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 1:07 am
It's alright to be indecisive, you just have to find something that you are truly passionate about when choosing what you want to do in college... For me, it was video games, & art, so when I finish with all my college stuff, I will hopefully be able to have a career in the gaming industry, but I am also learning about animation, so even if I don't end up getting into the gaming industry, I can do animation...Deadbeat Nightmare lol that's the problem with me. I'm too indecisive, If I go back to school I will have a lot of trouble deciding what to take. That's the reason I'm looking into different careers.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 1:15 am
Deathfrost It's alright to be indecisive, you just have to find something that you are truly passionate about when choosing what you want to do in college... For me, it was video games, & art, so when I finish with all my college stuff, I will hopefully be able to have a career in the gaming industry, but I am also learning about animation, so even if I don't end up getting into the gaming industry, I can do animation... that's the problem, I have to many interests. Why do I have to like so many things.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 1:51 am
That's not a problem, you just have to decide which of the things that you're into are most important to you...Deadbeat Nightmare that's the problem, I have to many interests. Why do I have to like so many things.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 1:57 am
Deathfrost That's not a problem, you just have to decide which of the things that you're into are most important to you... yeah I'll have to really think about it.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 3:09 am
But, you will also have to make sure that you stick by your decision after making it... Otherwise, you will keep second guessing every decision you make, as well as trying to make decisions based on what makes everyone but you happy...Deadbeat Nightmare yeah I'll have to really think about it.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 3:12 am
Deathfrost But, you will also have to make sure that you stick by your decision after making it... Otherwise, you will keep second guessing every decision you make, as well as trying to make decisions based on what makes everyone but you happy...Deadbeat Nightmare yeah I'll have to really think about it. yeah I think I really need to work on my confidence, I don't really have any faith in myself or my abilities
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 3:38 am
Trust me when I tell you that I can relate to that... There were so many people around me telling me that I had to do a lot of other things that weren't making me happy, but because those people were basically using me by telling me that I was good at the things that they wanted me to do, I was constantly at odds with my own desires & needs... I have a lot of things that I want to do in life before the day I take my last breath... Some things, like becoming a professional wrestler, probably won't ever happen, but other things, like becoming an animator, or a game designer, are actually within my grasp... I have no real confidence in myself, but that is because I have failed so many times in life, regardless of how many times I have succeeded, the failures always hit me harder than they should... I try to help others to find their confidence, whether it be about college, or about other things (I spent almost five hours convincing a girl that I like not to break up with her boyfriend... Can you imagine how messed up I felt that whole time?... I wanted her for myself, but I swallowed my pride & talked her out of breaking up with her boyfriend... You may be wondering what this has to do with HER confidence, well, the reason why she was about to break up with her boyfriend was because he wasn't really spending any time with her nor paying her any attention, making her feel less confident & less attractive as a woman... I know that she knows how I feel about her, & she knows that I would do anything for her, & yet she chose to talk to me about the situation... It may have only been because she knew that I wouldn't have wanted her to feel unattractive, but still... My confidence was shaken just by talking to her... Alright I'll get off my soap box now... I doubt if you need me or anyone else pushing you toward college or anything else right now, so I will just suggest that whatever you decide, just make sure that it is your decision & not someone else's...Deadbeat Nightmare yeah I think I really need to work on my confidence, I don't really have any faith in myself or my abilities
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 3:48 am
Deathfrost Trust me when I tell you that I can relate to that... There were so many people around me telling me that I had to do a lot of other things that weren't making me happy, but because those people were basically using me by telling me that I was good at the things that they wanted me to do, I was constantly at odds with my own desires & needs... I have a lot of things that I want to do in life before the day I take my last breath... Some things, like becoming a professional wrestler, probably won't ever happen, but other things, like becoming an animator, or a game designer, are actually within my grasp... I have no real confidence in myself, but that is because I have failed so many times in life, regardless of how many times I have succeeded, the failures always hit me harder than they should... I try to help others to find their confidence, whether it be about college, or about other things (I spent almost five hours convincing a girl that I like not to break up with her boyfriend... Can you imagine how messed up I felt that whole time?... I wanted her for myself, but I swallowed my pride & talked her out of breaking up with her boyfriend... You may be wondering what this has to do with HER confidence, well, the reason why she was about to break up with her boyfriend was because he wasn't really spending any time with her nor paying her any attention, making her feel less confident & less attractive as a woman... I know that she knows how I feel about her, & she knows that I would do anything for her, & yet she chose to talk to me about the situation... It may have only been because she knew that I wouldn't have wanted her to feel unattractive, but still... My confidence was shaken just by talking to her... Alright I'll get off my soap box now... I doubt if you need me or anyone else pushing you toward college or anything else right now, so I will just suggest that whatever you decide, just make sure that it is your decision & not someone else's... You are a really good guy, you know that? As for me, I know going to school and getting a career is the right thing for me. It's just going to take me a while to decide on what kind of career is best for me.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 4:15 am
lol the brighter the light, the deeper the shadow...
That is a good way to look at it, as jumping into it without thinking it through can easily make things very bad, very quickly...Deadbeat Nightmare You are a really good guy, you know that? As for me, I know going to school and getting a career is the right thing for me. It's just going to take me a while to decide on what kind of career is best for me.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 4:18 am
Deathfrost Can't... That would be an automatic fail... bomb reality
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 4:20 am
look what the cat dragged in
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 4:20 am
Deathfrost lol the brighter the light, the deeper the shadow...
That is a good way to look at it, as jumping into it without thinking it through can easily make things very bad, very quickly... so how far are you from graduating?
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 4:22 am
etrom toa look what the cat dragged in hi its good to be back how have you been?
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2014 4:23 am
Deadbeat Nightmare etrom toa look what the cat dragged in hi its good to be back how have you been? sitting biggrin you?
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