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 Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:29 pm
Captain Chemosh @Aakosir: Start to deny him, it's psychology at that point. A man wants most what he cannot have, if you deny him then he cannot have you and he will want you more. This will force him to become romantic again and compliment you. And if that fails then I suggest a rather direct approach (this assumes he uses a desktop): Walk in to the room, sit in his lap, press the power button on the computer, and tell him you love him while looking into his eyes.
He got mad at me yesterday though, but it was all his fault. He said he was leaving the shooting range at 6:13 yesterday. I assume he will be home in about 15 mins, that's how long it takes to get from there to here. I send him a message 20 mins later asking where he is, I get "on (route)180" So I ask what is taking so long. He finally tells me that he has to go to the armory then do something else before he'll be home. Um... Way to leave that part out? So I told him I couldn't hold of dinner any longer and we ate without him. I get a "Thanks". Then I send "Don't you dare! You didn't tell me what you were doing! I ASSUMED you were on your way home. How am I supposed to know?" Then he got home and was all happy-happy trying to be goofy, but I just shut him out. I love how guys try to turn this around like that. Did he tell me he had to go back to base? No. Did he tell me how long it may take? No...
Also, he would kill me if I turned off his game on him... I've tried to do it, but, of course, he's stronger than me and either pushes me away or holds me from doing it...
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:32 pm
Chieftain Twilight meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe. Hullu. I'm new. I like this place. It's cool. There is one thing though that is bothering me. Correct me if I am wrong but, uh, you may want to chose your words wisely, Chieftan Twilight, for you may very well harm someones feelings.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:42 pm
@Aakosir: Hmmm... only things left that I can recommend would be: Password lock his computer. Or get a good magnet and make death threats to his computer. He's definitely in the wrong though and needs to get a reality check fast.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:05 pm
Aakosir Chieftain Twilight something is seriously wrong there... =.= what a douche! is there any chance you can get him to attend Marriage Counciling with you? you'd have to realy go over the councilors available to find a good one, but they exist. sounds like my stepdad back when I was in Highschool. xp the reason I quit counciling was because he wouldn't go. stare
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:08 pm
xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe. Hullu. I'm new. I like this place. It's cool. There is one thing though that is bothering me. Correct me if I am wrong but, uh, you may want to chose your words wisely, Chieftan Twilight, for you may very well harm someones feelings. Welco- ome a...board...? o_O; what do you mean? what have I said that could be offensive there?
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:11 pm
ScarletFrost My husband is of the mind that because I sleep with him, I should get the bulk of the financial surplus. Not sure what that makes me, but there you have it. Seriously tho, it should at least be 50/50, if not in exact $ then in usefulness and coolness of the items. I mean, if you get him an awesome $500 item and he finds an equally awesome item for $600 that's been marked down to $400, in my mind, that's pretty equal and even. there is nothing wrong with showing appreciation in the form of gifts and Financial Benefits... it's not lik eyou are some side-treat or one-night stand he pays for in the backroom of a salon, aye? you're his Wife, and he wants you to know how much you mean to him. he probably just feels like you deserve nice things. any man who cares is self-consious. he wants to provide.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:14 pm
Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe. Hullu. I'm new. I like this place. It's cool. There is one thing though that is bothering me. Correct me if I am wrong but, uh, you may want to chose your words wisely, Chieftan Twilight, for you may very well harm someones feelings. Welco- ome a...board...? o_O; what do you mean? what have I said that could be offensive there? First off, thanks.
Two, I'm not trying to start anything so there's that but the thing with femininity. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being feminine and the way society states it well... I find it normal and not out of the ordinary.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:19 pm
xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe. Hullu. I'm new. I like this place. It's cool. There is one thing though that is bothering me. Correct me if I am wrong but, uh, you may want to chose your words wisely, Chieftan Twilight, for you may very well harm someones feelings. Welco- ome a...board...? o_O; what do you mean? what have I said that could be offensive there? First off, thanks.
Two, I'm not trying to start anything so there's that but the thing with femininity. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being feminine and the way society states it well... I find it normal and not out of the ordinary. oh! xd no, no, don't get me wrong! I don't have a problem with Femininity either! I can say I'm quite Feminine as well. I just wanted to make the point that there's no need to feel like one is less of a Man for being Feminine, or less of a Womanfor being Masculine. I peronally don't agree with Gender Roles or socity's description of what is Masculine and what is Feminine, but I do recognize that there are real differences between Men and Women. they just tend to be things other than what are claimed by society. other than that, who plays which roles shouldn't be mandated. I have no problem with Women playing their stereotypical roles (in fact, I Appreciate and Respect it very much), but neither do I see any reason to deny someone else the opposite role society would assign them too (for example, I like the idea of taking on at least some of the duties of a Housewife). ^_^
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:25 pm
Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe. Hullu. I'm new. I like this place. It's cool. There is one thing though that is bothering me. Correct me if I am wrong but, uh, you may want to chose your words wisely, Chieftan Twilight, for you may very well harm someones feelings. Welco- ome a...board...? o_O; what do you mean? what have I said that could be offensive there? First off, thanks.
Two, I'm not trying to start anything so there's that but the thing with femininity. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being feminine and the way society states it well... I find it normal and not out of the ordinary. oh! xd no, no, don't get me wrong! I don't have a problem with Femininity either! I can say I'm quite Feminine as well. I just wanted to make the point that there's no need to feel like one is less of a Man for being Feminine, or less of a Womanfor being Masculine. I peronally don't agree with Gender Roles or socity's description of what is Masculine and what is Feminine, but I do recognize that there are real differences between Men and Women. they just tend to be things other than what are claimed by society. other than that, who plays which roles shouldn't be mandated. I have no problem with Women playing their stereotypical roles (in fact, I Appreciate and Respect it very much), but neither do I see any reason to deny someone else the opposite role society would assign them too (for example, I like the idea of taking on at least some of the duties of a Housewife). ^_^ I see. Sorry for my misunderstanding then.
I for one am a girl but I am very masculine and am not afraid to admit it. I like how I am and thus I like how everybody is and accept people but unless they don't accept me, well, they can shove it. Sorry if that seems rude but that is just how it is with me. I'm a fighter and a defender and I defend all cases of gender bending and masculine/femininity. My boyfriend is feminine and I honestly am glad that he is. I wouldn't have him any other way. He makes up what I am not. He is like my missing piece to a jigsaw puzzle that was once shattered and broken. :3
But once again, I am truly sorry for my misunderstanding.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:41 pm
xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe. Hullu. I'm new. I like this place. It's cool. There is one thing though that is bothering me. Correct me if I am wrong but, uh, you may want to chose your words wisely, Chieftan Twilight, for you may very well harm someones feelings. Welco- ome a...board...? o_O; what do you mean? what have I said that could be offensive there? First off, thanks.
Two, I'm not trying to start anything so there's that but the thing with femininity. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being feminine and the way society states it well... I find it normal and not out of the ordinary. oh! xd no, no, don't get me wrong! I don't have a problem with Femininity either! I can say I'm quite Feminine as well. I just wanted to make the point that there's no need to feel like one is less of a Man for being Feminine, or less of a Womanfor being Masculine. I peronally don't agree with Gender Roles or socity's description of what is Masculine and what is Feminine, but I do recognize that there are real differences between Men and Women. they just tend to be things other than what are claimed by society. other than that, who plays which roles shouldn't be mandated. I have no problem with Women playing their stereotypical roles (in fact, I Appreciate and Respect it very much), but neither do I see any reason to deny someone else the opposite role society would assign them too (for example, I like the idea of taking on at least some of the duties of a Housewife). ^_^ I see. Sorry for my misunderstanding then.
I for one am a girl but I am very masculine and am not afraid to admit it. I like how I am and thus I like how everybody is and accept people but unless they don't accept me, well, they can shove it. Sorry if that seems rude but that is just how it is with me. I'm a fighter and a defender and I defend all cases of gender bending and masculine/femininity. My boyfriend is feminine and I honestly am glad that he is. I wouldn't have him any other way. He makes up what I am not. He is like my missing piece to a jigsaw puzzle that was once shattered and broken. :3
But once again, I am truly sorry for my misunderstanding. nahw, it's coolio. ^_^ I'm pretty underdeveloped in my communication skills as it is. sweatdrop I'm glad to see you here. smile folks like you are exactly the kinda people we need here. we're a sanctuary for everyone who is Peaceful. ^_^ myself, I'm a Fighter because I'm a Lover. the way I see it, if you have something worthe keeping and protecting, that something is worthe Fighting for. if you Serve and/or Fight for a purposeless cause, an empty reason or no reason at all... you don't even have a motivation. I'm not saying folks who fight for themselves are lacking motivation or purpose. Selfishness is no worse than Compassion. but there is always the person who fights because he doesn't have anything better to do... that is just sad. I guess what I'm saying is I don't like the "rebels without a cause"... sweatdrop but I Respect anyone who has a Cause, even if I don't agree with that Cause. every Villain is a Hero to someone else, and vice-versa. ^_^ no need to give a damn what others think. be you. that's all we ca ask of ourselves. because we cn never satisfy everyone. that is why we form groups, and clans, and social circles.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:50 pm
Chieftain Twilight nahw, it's coolio. ^_^ I'm pretty underdeveloped in my communication skills as it is. sweatdrop I'm glad to see you here. smile folks like you are exactly the kinda people we need here. we're a sanctuary for everyone who is Peaceful. ^_^ myself, I'm a Fighter because I'm a Lover. the way I see it, if you have something worthe keeping and protecting, that something is worthe Fighting for. if you Serve and/or Fight for a purposeless cause, an empty reason or no reason at all... you don't even have a motivation. I'm not saying folks who fight for themselves are lacking motivation or purpose. Selfishness is no worse than Compassion. but there is always the person who fights because he doesn't have anything better to do... that is just sad. I guess what I'm saying is I don't like the "rebels without a cause"... sweatdrop but I Respect anyone who has a Cause, even if I don't agree with that Cause. every Villain is a Hero to someone else, and vice-versa. ^_^ no need to give a damn what others think. be you. that's all we ca ask of ourselves. because we cn never satisfy everyone. that is why we form groups, and clans, and social circles. Thank you. And I'm very proud to be here. I'm glad to be able to give others the help and support that they need if they need it. I didn't when I needed it and most are amazed to even see me alive still but I am a fighter because I have been pushed down so many times in my life by so many people. For a time, I was going to give up but I always fought because something deep inside me told me to keep on fighting, that there was something worth all the fighting.
And the people that fight without a cause, the rebels, I don't think less of them, nor do I hate them or dislike them. Do you know why that is? The reason being is because they are people too. They are living, breathing, human beings and they must have a reason to do the things that they do. People make mistakes. A lesson I am very well aware of. The people that are the rebels and fight for no reason, maybe they had made a mistake in their lives previously and they have nothing now. And maybe they just need someone to show them in the right direction.
I do know one thing. If I ever meet a person like so, I will do everything in my power to help him/her get back on their feet and fight for a cause. I don't like seeing people hurting. It hurts me.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:59 pm
xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight nahw, it's coolio. ^_^ I'm pretty underdeveloped in my communication skills as it is. sweatdrop I'm glad to see you here. smile folks like you are exactly the kinda people we need here. we're a sanctuary for everyone who is Peaceful. ^_^ myself, I'm a Fighter because I'm a Lover. the way I see it, if you have something worthe keeping and protecting, that something is worthe Fighting for. if you Serve and/or Fight for a purposeless cause, an empty reason or no reason at all... you don't even have a motivation. I'm not saying folks who fight for themselves are lacking motivation or purpose. Selfishness is no worse than Compassion. but there is always the person who fights because he doesn't have anything better to do... that is just sad. I guess what I'm saying is I don't like the "rebels without a cause"... sweatdrop but I Respect anyone who has a Cause, even if I don't agree with that Cause. every Villain is a Hero to someone else, and vice-versa. ^_^ no need to give a damn what others think. be you. that's all we ca ask of ourselves. because we cn never satisfy everyone. that is why we form groups, and clans, and social circles. Thank you. And I'm very proud to be here. I'm glad to be able to give others the help and support that they need if they need it. I didn't when I needed it and most are amazed to even see me alive still but I am a fighter because I have been pushed down so many times in my life by so many people. For a time, I was going to give up but I always fought because something deep inside me told me to keep on fighting, that there was something worth all the fighting.
And the people that fight without a cause, the rebels, I don't think less of them, nor do I hate them or dislike them. Do you know why that is? The reason being is because they are people too. They are living, breathing, human beings and they must have a reason to do the things that they do. People make mistakes. A lesson I am very well aware of. The people that are the rebels and fight for no reason, maybe they had made a mistake in their lives previously and they have nothing now. And maybe they just need someone to show them in the right direction.
I do know one thing. If I ever meet a person like so, I will do everything in my power to help him/her get back on their feet and fight for a cause. I don't like seeing people hurting. It hurts me. Gods, yer incredible, woman! whee Chem, you realy know how to pick'em! you better keep her! seriously, I'm so glad you joined. smile I'm gonna like having you around here.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 2:03 pm
Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight nahw, it's coolio. ^_^ I'm pretty underdeveloped in my communication skills as it is. sweatdrop I'm glad to see you here. smile folks like you are exactly the kinda people we need here. we're a sanctuary for everyone who is Peaceful. ^_^ myself, I'm a Fighter because I'm a Lover. the way I see it, if you have something worthe keeping and protecting, that something is worthe Fighting for. if you Serve and/or Fight for a purposeless cause, an empty reason or no reason at all... you don't even have a motivation. I'm not saying folks who fight for themselves are lacking motivation or purpose. Selfishness is no worse than Compassion. but there is always the person who fights because he doesn't have anything better to do... that is just sad. I guess what I'm saying is I don't like the "rebels without a cause"... sweatdrop but I Respect anyone who has a Cause, even if I don't agree with that Cause. every Villain is a Hero to someone else, and vice-versa. ^_^ no need to give a damn what others think. be you. that's all we ca ask of ourselves. because we cn never satisfy everyone. that is why we form groups, and clans, and social circles. Thank you. And I'm very proud to be here. I'm glad to be able to give others the help and support that they need if they need it. I didn't when I needed it and most are amazed to even see me alive still but I am a fighter because I have been pushed down so many times in my life by so many people. For a time, I was going to give up but I always fought because something deep inside me told me to keep on fighting, that there was something worth all the fighting.
And the people that fight without a cause, the rebels, I don't think less of them, nor do I hate them or dislike them. Do you know why that is? The reason being is because they are people too. They are living, breathing, human beings and they must have a reason to do the things that they do. People make mistakes. A lesson I am very well aware of. The people that are the rebels and fight for no reason, maybe they had made a mistake in their lives previously and they have nothing now. And maybe they just need someone to show them in the right direction.
I do know one thing. If I ever meet a person like so, I will do everything in my power to help him/her get back on their feet and fight for a cause. I don't like seeing people hurting. It hurts me. Gods, yer incredible, woman! whee Chem, you realy know how to pick'em! you better keep her! seriously, I'm so glad you joined. smile I'm gonna like having you around here. -laughs nervously-
I plan to stick with him for forever and ever. :3
Thank you. I'm gonna like being here. It's a really nice Guild. Don't point this out as rude but.... The Guild could kinda use a bit of cleaning.. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 2:10 pm
xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight nahw, it's coolio. ^_^ I'm pretty underdeveloped in my communication skills as it is. sweatdrop I'm glad to see you here. smile folks like you are exactly the kinda people we need here. we're a sanctuary for everyone who is Peaceful. ^_^ myself, I'm a Fighter because I'm a Lover. the way I see it, if you have something worthe keeping and protecting, that something is worthe Fighting for. if you Serve and/or Fight for a purposeless cause, an empty reason or no reason at all... you don't even have a motivation. I'm not saying folks who fight for themselves are lacking motivation or purpose. Selfishness is no worse than Compassion. but there is always the person who fights because he doesn't have anything better to do... that is just sad. I guess what I'm saying is I don't like the "rebels without a cause"... sweatdrop but I Respect anyone who has a Cause, even if I don't agree with that Cause. every Villain is a Hero to someone else, and vice-versa. ^_^ no need to give a damn what others think. be you. that's all we ca ask of ourselves. because we cn never satisfy everyone. that is why we form groups, and clans, and social circles. Thank you. And I'm very proud to be here. I'm glad to be able to give others the help and support that they need if they need it. I didn't when I needed it and most are amazed to even see me alive still but I am a fighter because I have been pushed down so many times in my life by so many people. For a time, I was going to give up but I always fought because something deep inside me told me to keep on fighting, that there was something worth all the fighting.
And the people that fight without a cause, the rebels, I don't think less of them, nor do I hate them or dislike them. Do you know why that is? The reason being is because they are people too. They are living, breathing, human beings and they must have a reason to do the things that they do. People make mistakes. A lesson I am very well aware of. The people that are the rebels and fight for no reason, maybe they had made a mistake in their lives previously and they have nothing now. And maybe they just need someone to show them in the right direction.
I do know one thing. If I ever meet a person like so, I will do everything in my power to help him/her get back on their feet and fight for a cause. I don't like seeing people hurting. It hurts me. Gods, yer incredible, woman! whee Chem, you realy know how to pick'em! you better keep her! seriously, I'm so glad you joined. smile I'm gonna like having you around here. -laughs nervously-
I plan to stick with him for forever and ever. :3
Thank you. I'm gonna like being here. It's a really nice Guild. Don't point this out as rude but.... The Guild could kinda use a bit of cleaning.. sweatdrop yeh, it tends to fall into disrepair when School gets back in... sweatdrop Shan had almost singlehandedly cleaned it up around the holidays, and you should have seen it before then. ._. total mess. made me feel ashamed of myself. sweatdrop when activity picks up it can be alot better. smile I had better start doing some maintanence though... thanks for reminding me. ^_^
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 2:16 pm
Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight xX_Callum_Xx Chieftain Twilight nahw, it's coolio. ^_^ I'm pretty underdeveloped in my communication skills as it is. sweatdrop I'm glad to see you here. smile folks like you are exactly the kinda people we need here. we're a sanctuary for everyone who is Peaceful. ^_^ myself, I'm a Fighter because I'm a Lover. the way I see it, if you have something worthe keeping and protecting, that something is worthe Fighting for. if you Serve and/or Fight for a purposeless cause, an empty reason or no reason at all... you don't even have a motivation. I'm not saying folks who fight for themselves are lacking motivation or purpose. Selfishness is no worse than Compassion. but there is always the person who fights because he doesn't have anything better to do... that is just sad. I guess what I'm saying is I don't like the "rebels without a cause"... sweatdrop but I Respect anyone who has a Cause, even if I don't agree with that Cause. every Villain is a Hero to someone else, and vice-versa. ^_^ no need to give a damn what others think. be you. that's all we ca ask of ourselves. because we cn never satisfy everyone. that is why we form groups, and clans, and social circles. Thank you. And I'm very proud to be here. I'm glad to be able to give others the help and support that they need if they need it. I didn't when I needed it and most are amazed to even see me alive still but I am a fighter because I have been pushed down so many times in my life by so many people. For a time, I was going to give up but I always fought because something deep inside me told me to keep on fighting, that there was something worth all the fighting.
And the people that fight without a cause, the rebels, I don't think less of them, nor do I hate them or dislike them. Do you know why that is? The reason being is because they are people too. They are living, breathing, human beings and they must have a reason to do the things that they do. People make mistakes. A lesson I am very well aware of. The people that are the rebels and fight for no reason, maybe they had made a mistake in their lives previously and they have nothing now. And maybe they just need someone to show them in the right direction.
I do know one thing. If I ever meet a person like so, I will do everything in my power to help him/her get back on their feet and fight for a cause. I don't like seeing people hurting. It hurts me. Gods, yer incredible, woman! whee Chem, you realy know how to pick'em! you better keep her! seriously, I'm so glad you joined. smile I'm gonna like having you around here. -laughs nervously-
I plan to stick with him for forever and ever. :3
Thank you. I'm gonna like being here. It's a really nice Guild. Don't point this out as rude but.... The Guild could kinda use a bit of cleaning.. sweatdrop yeh, it tends to fall into disrepair when School gets back in... sweatdrop Shan had almost singlehandedly cleaned it up around the holidays, and you should have seen it before then. ._. total mess. made me feel ashamed of myself. sweatdrop when activity picks up it can be alot better. smile I had better start doing some maintanence though... thanks for reminding me. ^_^ Aww.. You shouldn't be ashamed. Surely it wasn't your fault. :3
And you're quite welcome. ^.^
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