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 Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 2:03 pm
Lyme's sucks since it doesn't always show up in the blood work. My sister-in-law had the huge bullseye, but it still didn't show up. So weird.
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 4:32 pm
aye. I dunno how you could possibly put up with it, Aakosir.
@ Spooky: hope your little one is alright. sad lyme disease, gods dang! gonk how long you gotta wait to find out for sure?
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Chieftain Twilight Captain
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 6:33 pm
Aakosir My husband, seriously, just denied me for a ******** video game! I am so pissed! evil Oh... evil ... Been there.... I think that was the first time my husband ever saw me truly angry with him.... ... He actually got really scared when he realized how I was handling that... stare He came out of his computer room to see me on the couch seething, and I was actually trying to hide it, because I felt like I was being childish.... but he just had to pry what was wrong out of me, and when he did, all he could keep saying was, "I wish you would yell at me," "Most women yell when they are mad," and "Why won't you yell at me!?" Obviously, I am pretty intimidating when I am actually mad. LOL ... I just pointed out that I hadn't ever denied him a damn thing when and where he wanted it, and he had the audacity to tell me that he was busy, and that he had to finish that damn map. So, he was ready to make-up there on the couch, but my mood was a bit destroyed... The next day he learned that I am not a fan of flowers, but that my mood was back, and I don't hold grudges.... The day after the next day he took me out on an awesome date, which was his way of saying sorry, and thank-you to me for being a forgiving woman... Although, I think he had some residual fear of my anger lingering. LOL
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 6:40 pm
@ Spooky
Lyme's is an issue around here during the warmer months. I am so paranoid of ticks. I used to hike in the woods around here allot, and there was a few times when I walked out through meadows and fields that were miles from nowhere, and suddenly find myself covered in thousands of seed ticks.... I would make it home in a third of the time it took me to make it to where I was. Then the next two days would consist of me running to the bathroom to strip and search at the slightest tickle or itch for any little black dot that I might have missed. Not to mention the extra showers I would take when I wasn't sure if I was looking at a speck of dirt or a tiny seed tick.
It was the subject of many nightmares as a teenager. rolleyes Ticks are horrible.
I hope things work out and that your son doesn't have anything serious...
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 6:45 pm
ScarletFrost XxEvenaxX Did I post any in the last week? Or two weeks? I can't tell anymore... -.- lol Dito.... burning_eyes I actually called into work sick tonight, because I feel like crap. First time I've done that since last April, when I had the flu. I'm looking forward to sleeeeeeeeep. stare
lol... yea I skipped a practice technically bc I decided to take a nap and didnt wake up until it was too late... >.> But I enjoyed sleeping. biggrin ^_^
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 7:44 pm
@ Spooky - I hope your son doesn't have Lyme disease, and that he feels better soon. That's another reason why I love this country, no nasty lyme-ticks hiding in the foliage, waiting to pounce as I walk through the woods, or across a paddock.
@Aakosir - They don't always find it because it's caused by a bacteria. That means they actually have to find one (or lots), to confirm the disease. You can have all the signs and symptoms you want, but the medico's like a specimen to be in your blood as confirmation smile
My husband wouldn't dare do that...having said that I'm usually the one who's denying due to my general ill-health (I'm a doctors nightmare, I swear sweatdrop ).
Spent my first proper day back in theatre, and am already collecting assignments. Thursday & Friday I'm in clinic (up at 5.30am to get in on time, I'm going to be a zombie gonk ), and I need to go out and get hubby a birthday present before Saturday...it never rains, but it pours. sweatdrop
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ScarletFrost Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 11:39 pm
My husband has gone mental. He's off the reservation. Absolutely loony! He wants to get me a Cintaq Wacom tablet for an anniversary/birthday/just-because-I-love-you gift next year. I obviously can't let him do it. For one thing I'm a watercolor and sketch artist--not a digital artist. For another the frickin' thing is $1000! Plus, the pens for it are like $80 each, and we have a daughter AND a cat, so the pen would last maybe a week before SOMEONE stuck it in their mouths and destroyed it. Hopefully, with such an extended goal and our perpetual financial status of "broke," he'll eventually come to his senses. **headshake of shame**
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 6:35 am
4laugh baking brownies, yea!
and i didnt know that it couldnt show up on blood tests gonk , i dont know when ill find out either...nervous really. he awoke friday i believe it was with a stiff neck and he said he couldnt really move his legs. thats when i looked on the web about it and called the doctor...since waiting at the ER would be meaningless here.
symptoms encluded the stiff neck and all......scary....and i hope not gonk
gonna go check on the brownies now.
and thank you for everyones concerns
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 6:39 am
Eltanin Sadachbia Aakosir My husband, seriously, just denied me for a ******** video game! I am so pissed! evil Oh... evil ... Been there.... I think that was the first time my husband ever saw me truly angry with him.... ... He actually got really scared when he realized how I was handling that... stare He came out of his computer room to see me on the couch seething, and I was actually trying to hide it, because I felt like I was being childish.... but he just had to pry what was wrong out of me, and when he did, all he could keep saying was, "I wish you would yell at me," "Most women yell when they are mad," and "Why won't you yell at me!?" Obviously, I am pretty intimidating when I am actually mad. LOL ... I just pointed out that I hadn't ever denied him a damn thing when and where he wanted it, and he had the audacity to tell me that he was busy, and that he had to finish that damn map. So, he was ready to make-up there on the couch, but my mood was a bit destroyed... The next day he learned that I am not a fan of flowers, but that my mood was back, and I don't hold grudges.... The day after the next day he took me out on an awesome date, which was his way of saying sorry, and thank-you to me for being a forgiving woman... Although, I think he had some residual fear of my anger lingering. LOL
Last night I brought it up. I said, "Do you realize how much I do for you? What do you do for me?" He shrugged. "Last night was rediculous. When you do that it makes me feel like your games are more important than me." No comment. "You're not denying it? Then your games MUST be more important than me." He had rolled away before I said that. I was so pissed. So AGAIN last night we slept on our sides of the bed, not touching...
On top of it all, he's smoking again. I asked if he could try to talk to me for help, I get "It's not going to help." Well that made me feel like s**t. "It's not you, it's just that it never helps," He said, once he realized he had hurt me. "How do you know? Have you ever tried talking to anyone?" No... He hasn't... So he said he's going to get the patches... I gurantee he will become addicted to those patches. Gurantee it! He is ADHD and has a very addictive personality. I've seen it in my dad and brother... And gods forbid if I married my father... I've heard that saying and there are more than a few things that remind me of my dad, but there are a bunch that don't... Sucks...
I really cannot remember the last time I denied him... But I can remember almost everytime he has denied me. It's like three times a week! I'm not joking! What do you think that does for my self-esteem! But nope, it's not his problem! It's all mine! Ha! Especially when I do a yoga workout and he criticizes me because I can't hold the pose for all 15 seconds, but only about 10... But nope, that's still my problem. And THAT is the reason I don't workout infront of people. I am easily discouraged... Especially when it's my husband saying it
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 6:42 am
ScarletFrost My husband has gone mental. He's off the reservation. Absolutely loony! He wants to get me a Cintaq Wacom tablet for an anniversary/birthday/just-because-I-love-you gift next year. I obviously can't let him do it. For one thing I'm a watercolor and sketch artist--not a digital artist. For another the frickin' thing is $1000! Plus, the pens for it are like $80 each, and we have a daughter AND a cat, so the pen would last maybe a week before SOMEONE stuck it in their mouths and destroyed it. Hopefully, with such an extended goal and our perpetual financial status of "broke," he'll eventually come to his senses. **headshake of shame**
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Chieftain Twilight Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 11:25 am
something is seriously wrong there... =.= what a douche!
is there any chance you can get him to attend Marriage Counciling with you? you'd have to realy go over the councilors available to find a good one, but they exist.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 11:49 am
Um.... just randomly popping in here to say that I am still here...
I don't really have any advice for married couples, all of my skills for counseling only apply to boyfriend/girlfriend situations. But, I'm willing to stick my knowledge to anything after watching my mother's failure at holding marriages first hand. If my advice is pointless well then just ignore it.
@ScarletFrost: I think you should explain to him that because of the art style you use, you wouldn't find much usage for such a tablet and that with your current financial situation it wouldn't be a sound investment. Try to persuade him to instead by you a nice set of watercolors and/or sketch pads.
@Aakosir: Start to deny him, it's psychology at that point. A man wants most what he cannot have, if you deny him then he cannot have you and he will want you more. This will force him to become romantic again and compliment you. And if that fails then I suggest a rather direct approach (this assumes he uses a desktop): Walk in to the room, sit in his lap, press the power button on the computer, and tell him you love him while looking into his eyes.
@Eltanin: Honestly enough, no advice here. Your husband is bad for having denied you but good in that he recognized his fault and worked to make amends with you; you are most likely correct in that he has some residual fear though.
@Spooky: Good to hear that the lyme was on a scare.
On a side note I'm fairly sure I'm one of the few people here who isn't married eek though I do have a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend 3nodding
And on another side note: Yes I am a guy, a very feminine guy.
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Chieftain Twilight Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:16 pm
meh... what constitutes femininity anyway? I don't agree with the societal standard. but regardless, it doesn't matter! whee we're all Children of this Universe.
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:21 pm
My husband is of the mind that because I sleep with him, I should get the bulk of the financial surplus. Not sure what that makes me, but there you have it.
Seriously tho, it should at least be 50/50, if not in exact $ then in usefulness and coolness of the items. I mean, if you get him an awesome $500 item and he finds an equally awesome item for $600 that's been marked down to $400, in my mind, that's pretty equal and even.
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ScarletFrost Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:22 pm
Chieftain Twilight something is seriously wrong there... =.= what a douche! is there any chance you can get him to attend Marriage Counciling with you? you'd have to realy go over the councilors available to find a good one, but they exist.
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