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neko-chan007
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PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 2:02 pm


Im trying to download the zen nano plus program on my laptop. It's driving me mad stressed
PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 2:47 pm


My friends here suck, I told them a week ago I wanted to go to the bar tonight and they were all for going as well. Little did I know they were planning a movie night tonight and I guess they forgot to mention it cause I just found out like 10 minutes ago. WTF is that s**t? scream

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PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 6:15 pm


I can't get my art. He said something about what I wanted hitting a "weak skill" and being unable to do it. crying gonk crying
PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 9:19 pm


What did you ask him for?

Jiggalicious


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PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 9:28 pm


I'm waiting for a phone call. Doggie has a tumor on her face...and it needs to come off and be analyzed. Trying to keep the cool is not so easy these last few days while waiting to hear anything.

Hoping to know soon when I can go in...and somewhat worried the answer won't be the best.

I'll be keeping my hopes up.
PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2006 10:23 am


*hugs Jiggy* I'll be thinking of you and your doggy hun. heart

He didn't say exactly which part of the comission was the difficult part, but I'm guessing its that my character is Drow, which is a very hard skin tone to do.

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PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2006 11:00 am


I dunno...in anime style it's a one shot color thing, imho, with easy highlights to the color. In some ways it's less difficult than doing human skin tones. smile

Thanks for the thoughts, hon. heart
PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2006 8:12 pm


Can i get a what what?! Lol I loooooooooove the Initial D live action movie. And I get to see my aussie boy for the whole weekend so yay for me!!!!!

NanaLolita


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PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2006 8:52 pm


YAY for you nana
PostPosted: Sun May 21, 2006 6:04 pm


I don't like venting because it always feels like I'm whining, but I need to let some of this out before I explode.

My girlfriend insists on my voicing my feelings. If something is bothering me, then I'm supposed to say something about it as apposed to leaving it pent up inside of me.

Okay sure, that makes sense, right? It would if every time I tried to voice myself it didn't end up with her becoming defensive, offensive, or--my absolute favorite--completely ignoring my existance. And then, on top of that, nothing changes. The same things I voiced my opinion of I have to put up with time and time again.

What, then, is my insentive to voice myself? What reason do I have to not keep everything bottled up inside?

I love her to death, but I swear that this same repetative bullshit has got to stop. Either tell me to quit bitching or stop with the mind games.

*closes his eyes and takes a deep breath*

Sryne
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PostPosted: Sun May 21, 2006 6:07 pm


haha, when will women learn that men dont talk about things for a reason? namely that nobody listens anyway.
PostPosted: Sun May 21, 2006 6:13 pm


Some of us do. I want my husband to tell me what he's feeling and thinking instead of bottling it up and getting all grouchy and distant. And I mean it when I ask him that. When he does open up, I do my best to listen to him and be supportive. Even change if necessary.

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Sryne
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PostPosted: Sun May 21, 2006 6:16 pm


I wish my girlfriend would at least listen and hear what I'm saying. She constantly tells me to open up and talk to her and tell her how I feel, but when I do I know she's listening, but she isn't hearing what I have to say. She blocks out the meaning of my words and takes it as my attacking her some way or another.

It's discouraging and makes me feel worthless.
PostPosted: Sun May 21, 2006 6:19 pm


I'm sorry hun *hugs*

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PostPosted: Mon May 22, 2006 12:51 pm


Sryne
I wish my girlfriend would at least listen and hear what I'm saying. She constantly tells me to open up and talk to her and tell her how I feel, but when I do I know she's listening, but she isn't hearing what I have to say. She blocks out the meaning of my words and takes it as my attacking her some way or another.

It's discouraging and makes me feel worthless.


She's trying to do what's right but maybe she doesn't realize that inviting you to say what you feel isn't always going to get her the calm talk she's maybe hoping for. And so are trying your best ...so don't be discouraged...

The best thing you can do is tell her you'll talk to her when you've thought things over and can calmly bring them to the table. That might not be right then and there...but it will happen if you need to do it. Also, it might be good to write it all out and read it to yourself and see if what you're saying would seem inflammatory or accusatory to you if you were distanced from it and it was addressed to you.

I'm in your position in my relationship, by the way. My bf is the talker, the feeler, the emotional one who wants to know how we function, know what I'm thinking at all times. I feel like I'm the one who is messed up in that respect. I feel like a walking freakshow sometimes. So, I'm in your corner. I don't want to discuss things to death. Sometimes I just want to be...and be without a fight.

Hang in there! *hugs and hugs*
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