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 Posted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 8:59 am
i cant wait for my bf to move back to HB.....then things will be so much better 4laugh
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Posted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 9:18 am
Oh, I do Gin, I do~ Got several other schools I've reviewed that are waiting in the wings~
^^;
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Ryuka Navali Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 3:15 am
blaugh Awesome plan Yuki!!! I think its great that you have ambitions!!! I still need to get the urge to step outside my apartment... XD
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 11:15 am
You kinda need that for gainful employment dear... :XP:
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 1:30 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2009 1:41 pm
OHMYGOD, I WANT TO GO HERE!
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 9:25 pm
Every time I think I've finally stopped loving him, I get dragged right back into it... sad How come other people seem to get over people so easily, when I've been stuck in this unrequited love for nearly six years?
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 7:35 pm
Yuki, In order to detach yourself from someone the way you plan to, you need to step away from them in all aspects of your connection. Talk to him sparingly. Avoid overall contact. Things will die down.
Ive been in this place before...Its as cruel as the unyielding world, taking without giving back unless in a negative manner.
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 9:35 pm
I don't want to, though - he's like my best guy friend gonk I know I should, and I've been limiting contact as best I can...it just makes it worse!
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Posted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 12:19 pm
If its really that bad, Yuki, then maybe its time you came to a decision;
1. Come out about your feelings entirely and while the moment is fresh ask him out
If he says no, then move on and stop fooling yourself.
If he says yes...PARTY YOUR BUTT OFF
OR
Just let him go entirely. I know its the hardest decision, but i had to make it too..Or you could make up your own solution, these are just the ones ive found to work. >o>
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Posted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 7:13 pm
Yuki, I've had this problem only twice before.
Scenario one: He liked me, I liked him, so we dated and I broke up with him. Later, we talked again and we liked each other still, so we gave it another shot. This time he broke my heart after a week because he wasn't ready and he knew he wouldn't get another chance. Stupid me, I let him back in. All he wanted was to hook up and so one night I texted him and poured my feelings out to him, the whole I love You thing too. He got it the next day and called to tell me he just wanted to play and that he didn't understand how i would ever think he wanted more when thats all he ever would say whenever I messed up or did something he didn't like. So I told him he was a liar and refused to talk to him. Still don't. But I felt like I lost my best friend.
Scenario two: I really liked this one guy for the longest time. I thought of no one else at the time. He didn't seem interested at all, so I tried to move on and date other people. His stupid face always invaded my mind. We weren't the best of friends until after we graduated high school. In fact, he use to torture me. But anyways, that summer he was like my closest friend, one of the best at the time. Even though we always hung out and stayed close, I slowly began to let him slip from my mind. It just took time, lots of it actually. Oh, and lots of stupid boys in the middle. It also took me realizing that he was a high school dream, and that my life dreams were more important and it was time to let go. Every once in a while I still wonder about him, even though he's with one of my friends, but for the most part I moved on.
I've found that the best way to get over someone is to either find somebody new, let time pass, or be the best of friends until time tells you not to. smile
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Posted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 7:14 pm
I'm just going to try and move on, I think, while keeping him in my life. He's not going to realize I mean anything, (if I do mean anything), if I'm always there waiting for him. I'm tired of waiting, too.
Once I start up college again, it'll be easier.
(I found a quote to live by, too - “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Here's hoping I can stick to it!)
[edit] lol, posting at the same time now, are we? XD
But yeah...he just...it's weird, with him. He's an egotistical b*****d, very narcissistic, but at the same time, he's always been there for me - and, whenever I start to date someone new, he always makes those little niggling, doubt-making comments about the guy...even though he knows that his opinion means a lot to me. (You know, 'cause I rate him as a best friend first and 'the guy that broke my heart' second.)
I'm gonna start collecting ball-jointed resin dolls, on a total tangent.
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Feb 14, 2009 6:10 pm
Ketsueki Yuki I'm just going to try and move on, I think, while keeping him in my life. He's not going to realize I mean anything, (if I do mean anything), if I'm always there waiting for him. I'm tired of waiting, too. Once I start up college again, it'll be easier. (I found a quote to live by, too - “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Here's hoping I can stick to it!) [edit] lol, posting at the same time now, are we? XD But yeah...he just...it's weird, with him. He's an egotistical b*****d, very narcissistic, but at the same time, he's always been there for me - and, whenever I start to date someone new, he always makes those little niggling, doubt-making comments about the guy...even though he knows that his opinion means a lot to me. (You know, 'cause I rate him as a best friend first and 'the guy that broke my heart' second.) I'm gonna start collecting ball-jointed resin dolls, on a total tangent. And if things start to get bad, you always have our favorite pasty-faced Shermin' ex psychiatric labrat Cage Kennylz
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Posted: Sat Feb 14, 2009 6:26 pm
No, Yuki doesn't listen to that kinda stuff, thanks xp
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Ketsueki Yuki Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:46 am
But you should, i've avoided beating the s**t out of about three different people just because of his music
Mind you, it might work the other way around for you, but i will never know if you never listen to it.
So. For science.
LEEEESTEEEEEN
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