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 Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 9:23 pm
xd Wow awsome razz must've been funny O_o or yous just might've been drunk on the fumes sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 12:22 pm
I was in middle school. yeah a little young for such a thing i've heard, but we've been together even since.
I met a girl who was just so much like me. we became best friends, we were inseprable. There was just soemthing about her adored and could never get enough of. She told me she was bi, which was cool. I started thinking about my own sexuality. I'd always just been....diffrent from everyone else in some way or the other i realized hey!, i've been fantasizing about women! So i told her i thought i may be bi which she responded to well. She was happy for me. I started to feel like i wanted to be more than a friend to her, i just adored her so much, she was beautiful, smart, funny, and she just understood me like no one else has. i just wasn't making a connection between me being bi, and me being with her. It didn't seem liek i had the option, i mean, no one had ever been attracted to me before, so why would she?
Either way, in a shy way (which was odd for her, because we would ways one up who could be bolder) she told me that she realy did have fealings for me, and cared about me. Then it was like...EVERYTHING made sense. Like being smacked in the back of my head and going "Duuuh!" And i just felt like...alive for the first time in my life.
We continued with such a sweet, romantice relationship. I never felt presured, the way i always did with men, so i felt like i could take things slow. Which was nice, because when we finaly were together there was no awkwardness, none of that stuff that tends to happen in relationships where physical stuff is rushed.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 8:18 pm
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 9:14 pm
lemonthunder2 I was in middle school. yeah a little young for such a thing i've heard, but we've been together even since. I met a girl who was just so much like me. we became best friends, we were inseprable. There was just soemthing about her adored and could never get enough of. She told me she was bi, which was cool. I started thinking about my own sexuality. I'd always just been....diffrent from everyone else in some way or the other i realized hey!, i've been fantasizing about women! So i told her i thought i may be bi which she responded to well. She was happy for me. I started to feel like i wanted to be more than a friend to her, i just adored her so much, she was beautiful, smart, funny, and she just understood me like no one else has. i just wasn't making a connection between me being bi, and me being with her. It didn't seem liek i had the option, i mean, no one had ever been attracted to me before, so why would she? Either way, in a shy way (which was odd for her, because we would ways one up who could be bolder) she told me that she realy did have fealings for me, and cared about me. Then it was like...EVERYTHING made sense. Like being smacked in the back of my head and going "Duuuh!" And i just felt like...alive for the first time in my life. We continued with such a sweet, romantice relationship. I never felt presured, the way i always did with men, so i felt like i could take things slow. Which was nice, because when we finaly were together there was no awkwardness, none of that stuff that tends to happen in relationships where physical stuff is rushed.
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 4:03 pm
I really don't know what made me bisexual........I just am, I have always been attracted to women more than men, but I still like guys......I just love being with and loving girls.........
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 4:26 pm
this one time at band camp!
no, just kidding
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 4:35 pm
I had an idea since I was like 12 BUt I fell in luv with a girl for the first time at 16 yrs old in high school . Well ermm yea she was my first G/F Lucky me she was curious so we dated for almost a year . I came out of the closet All okay Didnt get teased by kids in high school but Yea I had some looks when I was walking down the hallway with my GF I tought it was cute .
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 4:37 pm
ask_nini I had an idea since I was like 12 BUt I fell in luv with a girl for the first time at 16 yrs old in high school . Well ermm yea she was my first G/F Lucky me she was curious so we dated for almost a year . I came out of the closet All okay Didnt get teased by kids in high school but Yea I had some looks when I was walking down the hallway with my GF I tought it was cute . Girls are luckier than guys, because straight guys love lesbian chicks. (even though a lotta straight guys at my school wouldnt be loved back by straight chicks... )
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Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 9:33 pm
Girls almost always seem to fine love quicker
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Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 8:04 am
ok, i was simply fooling around with a fired and then i continued to with him and a few others. and it kinda just started there since 6th grade.. sweatdrop i was a youngin'
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Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 11:16 am
Well, I would have to say that I discovered I was bi when I was surfing online 2 years ago looking for some new anime series.. I came across a Gravitation website, and I thought it was sooo cute. I knew I couldn't be GAY (tho its still a possibiblity) since I still like girls, so I decided I was bi. It really helped pull me out of my dark (nearly suicidal) emo state into the charismatic girly guy I am today! Now that I totally manipulate my sexuality, I have gained tons of friends in school, got a couple of looks from some cute boys in school, and sheltered myself from all humiliation by a strong wall of female honeys! Girls at my school LOVE gay/bi guys (because theres only 387 students in the whole high school, I am a rare breed) so its easy for me to get around and live well.
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Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 2:13 pm
i found out that i was bi/gay from the atrachion that i had tward guys and that was ....about.... 6 years ago lol and im very open about it to everyone and i fel in love with a guy from work and he protected me no matter what happened and now that we arnt going out anymore he is still out there for me wien i need him most and now i have a boyfriend that is some what here for me he lol felt odd my crying on him but ya i bea=came bi/gay from the guys out there lol
*LOVE YOU SEXY GUYS OUT THERE*
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Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 5:29 pm
Well.... I've always kind of looked at girls. And I've always been perfecty ok with gays. I supported them actually. But I didn't find out I was Bi until Oct. 23rd of '04. I was having a birthday slumber party and me and two friends were playing truth or dare. My friend, Michelle, had dared my other friend Ashley to give me a hickey on my chest. She did. Later Michelle dared Ashley to lick cupcake off my cleavage. She did. That night we slept in the same bed. Which wasn't a big deal because I have one bed and a mattress. Obviously, someone was going to have to share. Anyway the next day, Ashley and I made out. With Michelle watching the whole time and egging us on. So yea... That's how I found out I was Bi. I don't think I'll ever be full-blown gay. I like guys too much whee
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Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 8:41 pm
I had suspected that I could be bi since 6th grade or so, but in June 2004 I really realized it. I was on a 4-day trip with my class. The hotel we stayed at had 2 beds per room and there were 4 people per room(everyone in the room was of the same gender). I just felt awkward sharing a bed with my best friend for some reason. It was then that I started really questioning my sexuality. The summer of 2004 I finally came to the conclusion that you should love somone for thier soul, and not thier body. I had always gone by that motto, but never applied it to gender. So, thats how I realized I was bi. wink heart
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Special Agent Dana Scully
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Posted: Sat Mar 19, 2005 9:58 pm
When I first realized I was gay...It's an odd story to say the least.
I was 14 when I first started having dreams about being with women. The star performer in said dreams was Madonna. Yes, you heard me, Madonna. Boys were always boring to me. I had no interest in them at all. The girls I was surrounded by were...well, stupid. All they seemed to care about was make-up, dresses, parties and boys. It was annoying. Madonna had a brain. She had (IMO) talent. She made comments on social and political issues. Thus, I thought she was wonderful and I dreamt constantly about her. heart heart
Of course, with no other examples of women dating other women, my little crush on Madonna made me nervous. So I asked my mother if people liking other people who were the same gender was okay. She told me that it was called homosexuality and it didn't exist. eek Yep, you heard me right. She said it was made up by people who made pornography. *sigh* After that, I pretty much threw myself into dating boys. And kissing boys. And by age 16, sleeping with boys. And being thoroughly miserable with it all. I was certain I was insane. I actually woke up every morning and wondered if the "white-coat guys" would show up at school to finally take me to an insane asylum. I had friends who I knew were different the way I was, boys I hung out with because they loved Madonna too, but they were just as afraid to admit how they felt as I was. xp
A year later, I found out just why my mother told me what she did. /She/ was gay. I lived with her and her lover of six years and had no /idea/ that they were together. She was terrified that I'd end up gay if I found out about them so she did everything she could to make sure I'd be straight...oops? stare Despite all her well intentioned lies, I had my first kiss, first sexual experience and first relationship (lasted three years) with one of her close friends...double oops. xd From that moment on, I have been a very out lesbian. No more closets for me, no matter what the consequences. wink
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