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 Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 9:52 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Well duh.
No one tells everything to others.
....I meant that they have a harder time dealing with me because they (other person) do not care about me.
Guess what I handed to a manager today.
*gleeful*
indeed so isn't that the case with most people? i know i have a harder time dealing with people if i don't care about them but could just be me, far as i know congrats on managing to give them the "screw this place" letter and give them some extra choice words! no.
See with most people they can be nice to people they don't particularly care about and put up with them and still be around the person in question.
In my case, they basically leave.
No putting up with, just gone.
Well....not exactly.
It was a lot more professional than that, because I didn't want to burn that bridde, but they WERE a bit displeased about it being really only five days notice.
Which ******** them, five days is all they're getting because I couldn't manage a full week and two weeks was out of the question.
As it is, I'm not working past this Sunday for that place.
Hoo-frikking-ray.
Finally.
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 11:05 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama no.
See with most people they can be nice to people they don't particularly care about and put up with them and still be around the person in question.
In my case, they basically leave.
No putting up with, just gone.
Well....not exactly.
It was a lot more professional than that, because I didn't want to burn that bridge, but they WERE a bit displeased about it being really only five days notice.
Which ******** them, five days is all they're getting because I couldn't manage a full week and two weeks was out of the question.
As it is, I'm not working past this Sunday for that place.
Hoo-frikking-ray.
Finally.
okay that's definitely odd, then. could be a blessing or a curse, depending on how you look at it i know it was more professional than that, it's just more fun saying it like that. a bridge should only be burned after its usefulness is past. this one still has SOME degree of it, but thank the gods that you'll never have to go back there as an employee come monday
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Posted: Wed May 13, 2015 9:53 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama no.
See with most people they can be nice to people they don't particularly care about and put up with them and still be around the person in question.
In my case, they basically leave.
No putting up with, just gone.
Well....not exactly.
It was a lot more professional than that, because I didn't want to burn that bridge, but they WERE a bit displeased about it being really only five days notice.
Which ******** them, five days is all they're getting because I couldn't manage a full week and two weeks was out of the question.
As it is, I'm not working past this Sunday for that place.
Hoo-frikking-ray.
Finally.
okay that's definitely odd, then. could be a blessing or a curse, depending on how you look at it i know it was more professional than that, it's just more fun saying it like that. a bridge should only be burned after its usefulness is past. this one still has SOME degree of it, but thank the gods that you'll never have to go back there as an employee come monday He has asperger's...or so he's told me.
It's a blessing.
And frikking amazing to a certain extent....
We're very similar in that way, actually.
If I don't care about a person, I can semi-feign interest out of the learned social politeness, but not for too long.
If I care, I don't even have to try, even if it's about something not particularly my cup of tea.
Plus, I'm able to tell them I'm not super interested because I know it won't terribly offend them as long as I'm not super rude about it.
No ******** kidding.
They actually called me today asking if I could work tomorrow...
My response was a sigh and "I'm not working elsewhere tomorrow, but if I do, I won't have a single day off this week."
Followed by a no.
Because ******** no.
I'm not working every day this week, especially not when I have plans to see people I haven't been able to see for a month, mostly because of you ******** over my schedule, grocery store.
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 1:08 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama He has asperger's...or so he's told me.
It's a blessing.
And frikking amazing to a certain extent....
We're very similar in that way, actually.
If I don't care about a person, I can semi-feign interest out of the learned social politeness, but not for too long.
If I care, I don't even have to try, even if it's about something not particularly my cup of tea.
Plus, I'm able to tell them I'm not super interested because I know it won't terribly offend them as long as I'm not super rude about it.
No ******** kidding.
They actually called me today asking if I could work tomorrow...
My response was a sigh and "I'm not working elsewhere tomorrow, but if I do, I won't have a single day off this week."
Followed by a no.
Because ******** no.
I'm not working every day this week, especially not when I have plans to see people I haven't been able to see for a month, mostly because of you ******** over my schedule, grocery store.
i'm guessing most of that was about the boyfriend, and then about you in the second half. not quite sure what prompted either part, though, tbh wooooow. why would someone think that anyone who'd just put in their prior notice would come in on days they aren't scheduled to work? the person who tried calling you in must not have been thinking logically. hope your meeting with the person goes well, though!
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 5:27 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama He has asperger's...or so he's told me.
It's a blessing.
And frikking amazing to a certain extent....
We're very similar in that way, actually.
If I don't care about a person, I can semi-feign interest out of the learned social politeness, but not for too long.
If I care, I don't even have to try, even if it's about something not particularly my cup of tea.
Plus, I'm able to tell them I'm not super interested because I know it won't terribly offend them as long as I'm not super rude about it.
No ******** kidding.
They actually called me today asking if I could work tomorrow...
My response was a sigh and "I'm not working elsewhere tomorrow, but if I do, I won't have a single day off this week."
Followed by a no.
Because ******** no.
I'm not working every day this week, especially not when I have plans to see people I haven't been able to see for a month, mostly because of you ******** over my schedule, grocery store.
i'm guessing most of that was about the boyfriend, and then about you in the second half. not quite sure what prompted either part, though, tbh wooooow. why would someone think that anyone who'd just put in their prior notice would come in on days they aren't scheduled to work? the person who tried calling you in must not have been thinking logically. hope your meeting with the person goes well, though! The thing about whether or not him caring about me is a blessing or a curse.
That's what prompted it.
Unless that was directed at something else?
No kidding.
I was about fit to be tied...but seeing as it was the manager who likes me and isn't an issue...
I was polite about it more so than I would have been.
Meeting with the person?
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:01 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama The thing about whether or not him caring about me is a blessing or a curse.
That's what prompted it.
Unless that was directed at something else?
No kidding.
I was about fit to be tied...but seeing as it was the manager who likes me and isn't an issue...
I was polite about it more so than I would have been.
Meeting with the person?
i'd thought that the not caring thing was about people in general who can't deal with you at all if they don't care about you well at least it was the nice manager. lucky for them, since otherwise it would've been more disliked in response probably Quote: I have plans to see people I haven't been able to see for a month was the thing i thought meant there was a meeting with a person. may have misinterpreted, though
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:07 pm
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:10 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama The thing about whether or not him caring about me is a blessing or a curse.
That's what prompted it.
Unless that was directed at something else?
No kidding.
I was about fit to be tied...but seeing as it was the manager who likes me and isn't an issue...
I was polite about it more so than I would have been.
Meeting with the person?
i'd thought that the not caring thing was about people in general who can't deal with you at all if they don't care about you well at least it was the nice manager. lucky for them, since otherwise it would've been more disliked in response probably Quote: I have plans to see people I haven't been able to see for a month was the thing i thought meant there was a meeting with a person. may have misinterpreted, though Oh.
No, it's that he doesn't care about most other people.
I, not being used to people other than my mother and sister sticking around because they care about me even after I've severely freaked out at them multiple times, know that it's a lot harder for a person to deal with me if they don't care.
But usually they get tired of dealing with me regardless of if they care, and leave.
So someone not related to me continuing to care about me....is at least in my mind....confusing as all hell and somewhat miraculous.
Yup.
But honestly...People need down time. working every single day is gonna make a person nuts.
OH.
That.
It DID go well.
Finally got to see le bf....and I met (sort of) all of his family.
(sister didn't care so no "Hi, I'm"'s happened, already'd met his dad, and met his mom who is really nice from what little talking we did)
And I met his cat.
And a couple other things happened.
Like his mom inviting me out to eat with them...which I had to decline because people needed the car.
So she made a 'next time' comment.
>/////////////////////<
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:23 pm
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:42 pm
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 8:53 pm
Much better today than it has been in a while.
This week, I quit one of my jobs because it was causing me fairly big issues.
Today I got to see my bf and meet ALL of his family.
(Only met his dad before today....and that was only once)
A few other really good things happened this week too...
Mainly involving my bf being a horrible, terrible meanie (that's the tsundere part of me talking, fyi)
What about you?
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2015 11:06 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Oh.
No, it's that he doesn't care about most other people.
I, not being used to people other than my mother and sister sticking around because they care about me even after I've severely freaked out at them multiple times, know that it's a lot harder for a person to deal with me if they don't care.
But usually they get tired of dealing with me regardless of if they care, and leave.
So someone not related to me continuing to care about me....is at least in my mind....confusing as all hell and somewhat miraculous.
Yup.
But honestly...People need down time. working every single day is gonna make a person nuts.
OH.
That.
It DID go well.
Finally got to see le bf....and I met (sort of) all of his family.
(sister didn't care so no "Hi, I'm"'s happened, already'd met his dad, and met his mom who is really nice from what little talking we did)
And I met his cat.
And a couple other things happened.
Like his mom inviting me out to eat with them...which I had to decline because people needed the car.
So she made a 'next time' comment.
>/////////////////////<
ahhhhh, okay, that makes sense. both the reason for confusion and the explanation. can't say i've ever had to deal with people i didn't like (very often outside of the whole morton thing) but that's most likely attributable to the fact that males deal with much less unwanted interaction than females in general. stupid jerks trying to interact with people when they clearly make them uncomfortable. i don't think anyone would be able to stay sane for long if they worked 8+ hours a day 7+ days a week. that'd be enough to wear down even the most devoted workaholic, i'd think very nice, very nice! getting along well with the parents and the cat of the relationship partner is very important, i'd think. little less so on the siblings, but you'll most likely get introduced to one another during that next time the mother mentioned. all in all it sounds exactly like you said, that it went quite well
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2015 10:42 am
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Oh.
No, it's that he doesn't care about most other people.
I, not being used to people other than my mother and sister sticking around because they care about me even after I've severely freaked out at them multiple times, know that it's a lot harder for a person to deal with me if they don't care.
But usually they get tired of dealing with me regardless of if they care, and leave.
So someone not related to me continuing to care about me....is at least in my mind....confusing as all hell and somewhat miraculous.
Yup.
But honestly...People need down time. working every single day is gonna make a person nuts.
OH.
That.
It DID go well.
Finally got to see le bf....and I met (sort of) all of his family.
(sister didn't care so no "Hi, I'm"'s happened, already'd met his dad, and met his mom who is really nice from what little talking we did)
And I met his cat.
And a couple other things happened.
Like his mom inviting me out to eat with them...which I had to decline because people needed the car.
So she made a 'next time' comment.
>/////////////////////<
ahhhhh, okay, that makes sense. both the reason for confusion and the explanation. can't say i've ever had to deal with people i didn't like (very often outside of the whole morton thing) but that's most likely attributable to the fact that males deal with much less unwanted interaction than females in general. stupid jerks trying to interact with people when they clearly make them uncomfortable. i don't think anyone would be able to stay sane for long if they worked 8+ hours a day 7+ days a week. that'd be enough to wear down even the most devoted workaholic, i'd think very nice, very nice! getting along well with the parents and the cat of the relationship partner is very important, i'd think. little less so on the siblings, but you'll most likely get introduced to one another during that next time the mother mentioned. all in all it sounds exactly like you said, that it went quite well Considering you know what I look like, I get to deal with a LOT of people I never want to deal with.
Creepy little SOBs.
It's a part time job and I don't work 8 hours pretty much ever.
Rather rare occurrence, that.
It's just that after dealing with their s**t for so long...
I wasn't concerned about his sister, because I'm not gonna go anywhere just because she doesn't like me.
Not that I know what she thinks of me.
And yeah.
That works out perfectly, since he's wanting me to be around his family a lot so they can get used to me being around...
Because multiple reasons.
So having his mother invite me to food makes that easier.
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2015 12:27 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Considering you know what I look like, I get to deal with a LOT of people I never want to deal with.
Creepy little SOBs.
It's a part time job and I don't work 8 hours pretty much ever.
Rather rare occurrence, that.
It's just that after dealing with their s**t for so long...
I wasn't concerned about his sister, because I'm not gonna go anywhere just because she doesn't like me.
Not that I know what she thinks of me.
And yeah.
That works out perfectly, since he's wanting me to be around his family a lot so they can get used to me being around...
Because multiple reasons.
So having his mother invite me to food makes that easier.
that's one of the thins i really don't like about people. fricks not respecting boundaries and junk like that is just plain wrong. someone's uncomfortable? leave 'em be if you're the cause across two jobs, though, 8 hours is more likely. even if they are both part time. though i can definitely understand it being more the stuff you had to put up with more than the working itself understandable, and absolutely true. when parents like you, it's that much easier to become closer to someone platonically or otherwise than if they dislike you. hard to hang out with someone when their parents don't want you around, after all
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2015 8:41 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Considering you know what I look like, I get to deal with a LOT of people I never want to deal with.
Creepy little SOBs.
It's a part time job and I don't work 8 hours pretty much ever.
Rather rare occurrence, that.
It's just that after dealing with their s**t for so long...
I wasn't concerned about his sister, because I'm not gonna go anywhere just because she doesn't like me.
Not that I know what she thinks of me.
And yeah.
That works out perfectly, since he's wanting me to be around his family a lot so they can get used to me being around...
Because multiple reasons.
So having his mother invite me to food makes that easier.
that's one of the thins i really don't like about people. fricks not respecting boundaries and junk like that is just plain wrong. someone's uncomfortable? leave 'em be if you're the cause across two jobs, though, 8 hours is more likely. even if they are both part time. though i can definitely understand it being more the stuff you had to put up with more than the working itself understandable, and absolutely true. when parents like you, it's that much easier to become closer to someone platonically or otherwise than if they dislike you. hard to hang out with someone when their parents don't want you around, after all The problem is, they usually don't seem to be aware that they're the issue.
And most times, based on the situation, you can't really tell them to go ******** themselves or something.
Especially if you're a cashier....
Well....true...
But still, I could work both jobs in a day, feel tired the entire time at the grocery store, but be awake and happy at Teavana.
Atmosphere and not being treated poorly does a hell of a lot.
....yup.
I'm just not used to people inviting me out to dinner like that.
Hell, I'm not really even used to being asked out on an actual 'go someplace and do stuff' date thing by a boyfriend.
Partly because I don't need to go somewhere, I prefer time not things, and partly because I was usually in the same place as the boyfriend, so it wasn't really needed.
I recall mildly freaking out when I realized I'd been asked on a legitimate date.
Specifically seeing someone to go get food and that's it is not a normal occurrence in my life.
Much prefer snuggling the living daylights out of him anyway.
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