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Have you come out?
Ya, as soon as I knew
13%
 13%  [ 46 ]
Ya, but it took a while
41%
 41%  [ 141 ]
No, I'm not sure about my sexuality
17%
 17%  [ 58 ]
No, it's hard
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 21%  [ 74 ]
I'm straight, thanks
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Total Votes : 339


Seipher4

PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 4:06 am


i could never tell my parents
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 12:11 pm


i plan to tell my parents AFTER i move out. my parents are major homophobes xp

xAsh-chanx


Kinta_san

PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 7:31 pm


Well.........Im not to sure yet.But I hate that people look down on others just because they are different..I cant stand it.But I dont mind if I am bi I will find out sooner or later.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 7:33 pm


I just hope that when and if I ever find out.That my parents wont be upset.

Kinta_san


Kinta_san

PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 7:37 pm


My mother claims I normal.But Im hoping to find out for myself.
PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 10:44 am


Well happily all the friends i told are still my friends. Heres some reactions:

My BEST friend:
(After telling her about a dream where i was kissing a girl)
Friend: Dont be going lez on me!
Me: I think i am.
(She just looked shocked and like scared. It was horrible. But we talked about it seriously alot, she kept saying things like 'maybe its a phase' and 'are you joking'. But shes my best friend, she was almost the last person i told cuz i was most scared of her reaction, but thankfully she acepts it.)

My gay guy friend:
(I had been discusing things with him about my sexuality, and he made me realsie the way i was)
We had many conersations so i dont remeber what he said exactly but he did run off and tel all his friends. I was not happy about that.

All my other friends/aquiantenses:
A great portion of my school are at least bi, so they werent phased.

My mom:
She said that its a phase and ill grow out of it. I asked her if she went through this 'phase' and she sadi no. Then she likes to say 'why cant you just be normal?' Its annoying but oh well, at least she listens to me. My dad dosent know, he wouldnt be happy.

My sister:
She guessed, and i told her. She treats me terribley but has never told my dad or relatives, shes gotten close though.

Ive had relatively good luck with coming out. 3nodding Thank goodness.

irockmyselfandyou


KageKoneko

PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 11:32 am


Majority of the people I told had this to say...
"Oh, so that's why you..."
a)"...where with that girl."
b)"...wouldn't go out with me."
c)"...are single."
d)"...won't go out with him."
Oh course those are just my friends, as for my parents I'm waiting until I'm out of the house and settled in college. I might be more comfortable with telling them now if not for my mother's constant utterations of "I just don't understand it, it's just wrong." in reference to her gay co-worker/friend/sister's neighbor/ect...
PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:09 pm




Yeah, slight update here. The one person I came out to here ended up as my boyfriend not long after. Things just sort of built up from there ^^;

I've also come out to one of my best friends (online, but going to meet hopefully soon), and he's about as supportive as someone can be.

Eventually, I ended up coming out to an entire website on which I administrate; before that, some people found out through accidental hints in conversations, but most of them either don't care or just ignore it.

A good friend of mine offline that I've had for 8 years probably suspects, and probably wouldn't care, but it's never come up and so I have no reason to confirm any suspicions. A lot of my friends at school joke that I act gay, so I have no idea what they'd think. sweatdrop

As for my parents and sister...not likely that I'll tell them. I don't think they'd appreciate my boyfriend and I making out on the floor of our office. xd wow thats pretty cool my first boyfriend told me he was gay by kissing me and then thats when i truely realised that i was bi but then we both moved and lost contact but yeah then i got into a fight at school cuz this one jock guy said i was trying to molest him(never even crossed my mind) even tho im not out fully at school but yeah we got into a fight and ended up in a peer mediator thing with my class president as our mediator when he found out what happened he pulled me aside and asked me if i was gay and i told him i am bi but never touched the guy so yeah the guy got a detentions for starting a fight where as i got a relationship with the freshman class president ^_^

Demon_Haru


Mrs Reaper

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 10:08 am


I was quite lucky, the people I told were really cool with it.
When I told my brother (3 years younger than me) about 2 years ago he just smiled and said "I wondered when you were going to tell me!".... aparently he knew for a while eek
When I told my two best frinds, one of them confessed that she was also Bisexual, and the other just told me she was ok with it "As long as a girlfriend doesn't take my place"! (I love my friends! xd )
My parents don't know about it, I vowed I wouldn't tell them unless I got into a serious relationship with a woman, Although I think my dad would be ok with it.... It's my mum's possible reaction that scares me!!
I've had one boyfriend get very pervy and too much when I told him...... Suprisingly enough that realationship ended quite soon after! smile But I told my fiance the first night we met, and he's been fine with it ever since..... Even though I fancy his female best friend like mad! rofl
PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 11:34 am


That really sucks. I wish other people would just appreciate one person's sexuality. I may be staright, but I always feel sorry for the other people around me >.<

The Unflavored Skittle


~Rikku.Moonblade~

PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 9:13 am


Here's my story:

The first person I told was my best friend (on here Wolf Hawk Down). Here's how it went.

(Almost to years ago, in the choir room at my jr. high)

me:....*pokes W.H.D.* umm....
W.H.D: What?
me: I think.....I..umm
W.H.D: Would you just say it???
me: I.....I think I'm bi???
W.H.D: For real???
me: Ya.
W.H.D: That's cool. I think I am too. SWEET!!!

I love her to death. I think I'm starting to like her though ninja .



(My dad's reaction)

Me: Dad what do you think of people that are bi???
Dad: Why???
Me: Beacause I think I'm bi.
Dad: O.O

(My Mom's reaction)

Me: Mom I think I'm bi.
Mom: ^.^ Good for you sweetie. You know I don't care what your sexuality is.
Me: O.O


Yea....Isn't that great???
PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 9:28 am


~Rikku.Moonblade~
Here's my story:

The first person I told was my best friend (on here Wolf Hawk Down). Here's how it went.

(Almost to years ago, in the choir room at my jr. high)

me:....*pokes W.H.D.* umm....
W.H.D: What?
me: I think.....I..umm
W.H.D: Would you just say it???
me: I.....I think I'm bi???
W.H.D: For real???
me: Ya.
W.H.D: That's cool. I think I am too. SWEET!!!

I love her to death. I think I'm starting to like her though ninja .



(My dad's reaction)

Me: Dad what do you think of people that are bi???
Dad: Why???
Me: Beacause I think I'm bi.
Dad: O.O

(My Mom's reaction)

Me: Mom I think I'm bi.
Mom: ^.^ Good for you sweetie. You know I don't care what your sexuality is.
Me: O.O


Yea....Isn't that great???
Wow...thats lucky. My friend his a picture of her and I go "Indeed Ana, that picture is hawt" and I also included not in that way, but noooo when I was talking to my friend Jon, he was like "You know what Ana said?" and I go "What?" and he goes "Ana asked me if I thought you were bi or lesbian." I mean, for a stupid a** comment like that! It really hurt my feelings since shes like, my best friend...and also if I WAS bi or lesbianm she wouldn't accept my sexuality. TT~TT

The Unflavored Skittle


Yuurie

PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 11:18 am


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2005 1:59 pm


I started coming out a little bit in middle school, and though a lot of people were all like "Whatever floats your boat" a lot were all "Eww I don't get along with gay people" and I was like "I'm not gay I'm bi" and they're like "Oh ok thats cool I guess." Others were mean especially some of the guys. Some would be like "So do you wanna do me a favor or something?" but they'd say it in an evil making-fun-of-me way.

My sister when she found out was ok with it; she now always points out guys she thinks are hot. My mom was all "You know I don't agree with it but I'll always love you" My dad and grandparents can never find out lol. Or at least not till I move out!

Haneul Security


Merines_Amara

Beloved Shapeshifter

PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2005 10:10 pm


Well...the only person I told was my best friend...She had a sense I was and was shocked I told her I was bi, but she is happy for meh and is still my friend...when it comes to my parents and other friends...I promised my g/f I wouldn't tell anyone for awhile..but I had to let my best pal know...So for a little while I won't tell anybody else.. sweatdrop I am just afraid to tell people 'cause of their reaction. crying
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