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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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 Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 10:33 am
That's good you found somebody 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 4:10 pm
kingpinsqeezels The last boy I dated was a non-practicing Jew. His mother was raised Jewish, and practiced until they moved to Arkansas. He was an okay boyfriend, but I never really had much boyfriend experience, so I always assumed boys would be boys when he'd do something stupid. Anyway, the last few months of our relationship, I stopped feeling the same about him due somewhat to the fact that he let his mother control his life. She was always hateful towards me, and I don't think she ever really liked the fact that I was trying to convert. She would always tell him I was stupid, and other such things. He would never stop her though, so he's just as bad as she is. But anywho, there aren't too many Jewish boys my age here, so I'm pretty much left with boys who are protestant and Catholic. I am okay with that, but I really want to marry a liberal Jew someday. I think that would be best. instead of going off on the "parent's fault" tangent, hows about we look at this from a different angle? a child's behaviour reflects the parent's personality, even the parts that don't show, and vice versa. if the mother was such an a**, chances are the son would also have similar qualites. when one marries, one joins a family. so think about it. why would one want an unloving family? respect for one's parents is one of one's most sacred duties (for lack of a better term, anyway). very little comes before that. if i could point out one defining difference between jewish and non-jewish life, that would be it. respect for one's parents. after all, one owes one's parents everything. without them, one would be nothing at all. so maybe poeple shouldn't be so quick to disregard the opinions of their parents, or make use of the "changing times" pretense.
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Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 4:24 pm
Okay, I thought you should all know... sweatdrop ... I told my dad 3nodding !
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Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 5:38 pm
nathan_ngl Okay, I thought you should all know... sweatdrop ... I told my dad 3nodding ! how'd it go?
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Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 6:25 pm
ZonkotheSane kingpinsqeezels The last boy I dated was a non-practicing Jew. His mother was raised Jewish, and practiced until they moved to Arkansas. He was an okay boyfriend, but I never really had much boyfriend experience, so I always assumed boys would be boys when he'd do something stupid. Anyway, the last few months of our relationship, I stopped feeling the same about him due somewhat to the fact that he let his mother control his life. She was always hateful towards me, and I don't think she ever really liked the fact that I was trying to convert. She would always tell him I was stupid, and other such things. He would never stop her though, so he's just as bad as she is. But anywho, there aren't too many Jewish boys my age here, so I'm pretty much left with boys who are protestant and Catholic. I am okay with that, but I really want to marry a liberal Jew someday. I think that would be best. instead of going off on the "parent's fault" tangent, hows about we look at this from a different angle? a child's behaviour reflects the parent's personality, even the parts that don't show, and vice versa. if the mother was such an a**, chances are the son would also have similar qualites. when one marries, one joins a family. so think about it. why would one want an unloving family? respect for one's parents is one of one's most sacred duties (for lack of a better term, anyway). very little comes before that. if i could point out one defining difference between jewish and non-jewish life, that would be it. respect for one's parents. after all, one owes one's parents everything. without them, one would be nothing at all. so maybe poeple shouldn't be so quick to disregard the opinions of their parents, or make use of the "changing times" pretense. Ahh, well you have a good point. But I just don't know if I agree that you should respect your parents even when they're bashing the one you love. That isn't far. I wasn't blaming her completely either. I realize I'm not exactly the sharpest tool, but she didn't have to put these ideas in his head that I'm not good enough for him. Oh well though, that's over...and I'm happy.
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Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 6:30 pm
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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 1:09 am
i'm happy for nathan, and i'm happy that i'm living next to him, so he told me how did it go... mrgreen .
i won't tell, because it's nathan's decision whether he'd want to tell or not... nevertheless, i'm sure he would tell you... 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 3:45 pm
nathan_ngl Okay, I thought you should all know... sweatdrop ... I told my dad 3nodding ! OH MY GOSH! CONGRADULATIONS! HOW DID IT GO?!?!?!
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 4:37 pm
It went well, thanks everyone for caring ^^. My dad just feels all I need to do now is strengthen my belief, and prepare to take my life into my own hands, because now is a major turning point in my life... blaugh
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Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 7:02 pm
nathan_ngl It went well, thanks everyone for caring ^^. My dad just feels all I need to do now is strengthen my belief, and prepare to take my life into my own hands, because now is a major turning point in my life... blaugh I'm glad he took it well! biggrin 3nodding
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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 2:40 am
his dad is a very good man, come to think of it, i never saw him angry (like that : scream or that: evil )... he is a good person, i like him whee lol...
nathan, now you have to tell it to ypur mother blaugh ::wish you good luck 3nodding cool ::
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 8:44 am
tsshark his dad is a very good man, come to think of it, i never saw him angry (like that : scream or that: evil )... he is a good person, i like him whee lol... nathan, now you have to tell it to ypur mother blaugh ::wish you good luck 3nodding cool :: seconded! 3nodding
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darkphoenix1247 Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 5:13 pm
darkphoenix1247 tsshark his dad is a very good man, come to think of it, i never saw him angry (like that : scream or that: evil )... he is a good person, i like him whee lol... nathan, now you have to tell it to ypur mother blaugh ::wish you good luck 3nodding cool :: seconded! 3nodding thirded! oh.. wait.. ninja
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Posted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 6:03 pm
eek eek eek ... you are freaking awsome heart heart heart heart heart 4laugh 4laugh omg if my school had a jew club i'd be like all over that like flys on poo i swear i'd be like ninja ... i swear i'm a jew... ninja maybe.. somewhat... okay maybe not but hey moses is my homeboy sweatdrop 4laugh heart rofl 4laugh then if yoni was there he'd be like.... stare ::kick in shin and pushes out:: hee hee then yehudah would HAVE to pop up and let me back in because he's my bro and he's awsome like that
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 5:57 am
YvetteEmilieDupont omg if my school had a jew club i'd be like all over that like flys on poo I just love that saying 3nodding
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