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Gavner

PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2005 7:10 am


loginbin3000
xd Well, there could be reasons for that.

That reason is?
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2005 9:32 pm


Meh lol

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Japanman111

PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2005 1:39 pm


nobody wants ta help me w/ my question? crying
PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 7:07 am


Japanman111
nobody wants ta help me w/ my question? crying

What is your question?

Gavner


Japanman111

PostPosted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 11:45 am


Japanman111
this iz kind of a continuation of an earlier question...how do i find other gay/bi ppl in my school w/out being found out? (btw im in highschool and i onlee kno of a few bi girls and thats it...and its a small school too... and i have like NO gaydar.... sweatdrop
this was my question
PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2005 7:37 pm


Japanman111: Does your school have a GLBT group? If not then I don't have much of a clue on how to help you...

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 27, 2005 9:02 pm


Japanman111
Japanman111
this iz kind of a continuation of an earlier question...how do i find other gay/bi ppl in my school w/out being found out? (btw im in highschool and i onlee kno of a few bi girls and thats it...and its a small school too... and i have like NO gaydar.... sweatdrop
this was my question


Well like Dreamerspirit said a GBLT chapter in your school.

Or you can casually bring up subjects like "gay marriage" especially if was on the news the night before ... or if something major happened in the gay community.

Based upon their reactions and responses you can find out who's more accepting of "gay people."

Sometimes they will be so ouspoken about it they might state their orientation.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 2:06 pm


Hmm, this sounds like a stupid question to me, but I still would like advice on it. My best friend for a while now knows that I'm bi. She doesn't care, she doesn't care about the orientation of any of her friends. But I really like her...of course she doesn't know that bit. She, and a bunch of my other friends, always tell each other that they love each other and hug each other and everything. And they have this pretend harem...I don't know what it's about. And she was talking about it with my other bisexual *whose a girl* friend. And they decided my best friend could have the guys and the other would get the girls...but she said that I was still her "b***h". I mean, I know she was kidding, but it drives me nuts sometimes...and I really don't know what to do. Also, I'm afraid if I do tell her the truth, that she'll freak out....and I mean, I don't like people hugging me and everything, just because I'm like that, but she might I don't know, like say I was taking advantage of her or something....*shakes head* I"m being stuipd and paranoid...but I still don't konw what to do. Sorry, this was too long.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 2:34 pm


cloakedinshadows
Hmm, this sounds like a stupid question to me, but I still would like advice on it. My best friend for a while now knows that I'm bi. She doesn't care, she doesn't care about the orientation of any of her friends. But I really like her...of course she doesn't know that bit. She, and a bunch of my other friends, always tell each other that they love each other and hug each other and everything. And they have this pretend harem...I don't know what it's about. And she was talking about it with my other bisexual *whose a girl* friend. And they decided my best friend could have the guys and the other would get the girls...but she said that I was still her "b***h". I mean, I know she was kidding, but it drives me nuts sometimes...and I really don't know what to do. Also, I'm afraid if I do tell her the truth, that she'll freak out....and I mean, I don't like people hugging me and everything, just because I'm like that, but she might I don't know, like say I was taking advantage of her or something....*shakes head* I"m being stuipd and paranoid...but I still don't konw what to do. Sorry, this was too long.


It's fine. Length only serves to help people analyze your problem.

What's funny is for 17 years of my life I hated being touched and hugged. LOL

She seems confortable enough with the idea of homosexual/Bi-sexuals. Why not tell her, I'm sure she won't rebuff you and cut you out of her life. If anything, if she's a decent and good friend, she'll let you down gently.

THOUGH I personally think that she may be a little curious herself. 3nodding wink
PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 2:36 pm


Yes, well when I first told one of my friends, she had said my best friend might go through another phase where she thought she wasn't straight....strange child she is....I dunno, I could tell her but I'm still scared I guess, I'm not a very open person when I like people....but thank you for your advice ^_^

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 2:48 pm


cloakedinshadows
Yes, well when I first told one of my friends, she had said my best friend might go through another phase where she thought she wasn't straight....strange child she is....I dunno, I could tell her but I'm still scared I guess, I'm not a very open person when I like people....but thank you for your advice ^_^


Neither am I ...
Well I shouldn't distrubting advice. LOL sweatdrop

Have you ever dated anyone before?

If not, then I must tell you telling someone you are interested in them is trouble enough, but when it's something as contraversial as your interest being the same gender it does tend to cause extra pressure.

Just take your time ... if it happens it happens, and if not there are other fish in the sea. 3nodding
PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2005 3:37 pm


Meh, yeah I've moved around a bit lately so I haven't really gone out with anybody. She's my friend from my..old old? school though, so I dunno, but thanks again.

cloakedinshadows


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 12:40 am


I REALLY fancy this guy... one of my best freinds, and we keep dropping each other hints and things and its quite amusing. But there is two problems D:
A) What if my m8s find out that im into him or vice versa (Though they know my sexuallity(bi))
B) On MSN a while back, i asked if he was gay and he said no... so what else? is he just making fun of me or something... I havn't tried asking him if he is bi yet though :/.
Thanks in advance if you can help me smile
PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 6:54 pm


I need some advice.
I am straight but i am trying to convince my girlfriend to go BI any suggestions on how to do that?

Gothikguy


Darkly0990

PostPosted: Thu Mar 31, 2005 12:33 am


Gothikguy
I need some advice.
I am straight but i am trying to convince my girlfriend to go BI any suggestions on how to do that?

And why are you trying to convince her to be bi?
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