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I'm guessing he needs to loosen up. You need those classes for your degree, right? And a degree means a sense of accomplishment and more money, beit from a better job or better pay. I'm guessing this is all good, no? And if you're taking care of the baby what's his complaint? I say go for it, it'll make you feel better.

I do, in fact, since one of 'em's my momma. Boy, do I know. You can tell him just the way you typed it here, with a gentle tone. The tone's the most important thing.

No prob, that's one of the reasons I'm here for. That, and convincing some of the girls here to give me nekkid bewbeh pictures. But don't tell them I told you that.

There are many ways to reply to that comment, and all would get me searched for, shot at, burned, slapped, yelloed at, murdered and/or maimed, maybe all at once. So, I will refrain from doing so...

LOL sorry... xd ok, well I am not that sorry after all your response was the intent of my comment. I was having fun.

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Most of my venting nowadays goes to my sexual frustration. Or the mitakes I've made in the past and, moreso, the impact they have on my life now. Due to problematic events, I've never had a girlfriend or been on a date. Quite pathetic, but due to my attachment to a young woman who drew me in and used me because I was too naive, I'm fairly inexperienced in dating and relationships as a whole. I'm also kinda shy now because of it, not as much as I used to be but bah, it just makes me frustrated that I can't go out, and swing some mojo and get a loving girlfriend because of my shyness or my problems with myself. @_@

Being single all 18 years of my life is kind of frustrating..

Well don't worry you aren't really alone. I know someone (my friend) is my age 25 and has had only one girlfriend. and they didn't date too long either. It is a rather long story that I'd not put up here. my own personal feelings are tied up in the mix. if you want to talk more about that pm me.

On another note. it's ok that you are shy. My empathy goes out to you on being used b/c or your naivety. Some girls just give us others a bad name. What I'd say is just spend this time focusing on you. Get all the things that you want to do accomplished; i.e. any school, career, dream plans. Later on the ladies will come. Besides, the more comfortable you are with yourself the more comfortable others will be around you. Focus on you. smile

side note. good picture. smile

I know what you mean, sorta. I mean, I've only been 16 years without dating, but still... I find it really odd when people complain about being without a "special someone" for five weeks.

Anyways, I wouldn't worry about it too much; if you do, you might sorta send out desparate waves, which might give people the wrong idea. People can be surprisingly perceptive, sometimes. So, I would agree with Samsonite. Many girls I know of find a guy who's well established within himself to be more attractive than one who's just looking for ways to get a girl. It's all in the pheromones.

Actually, I'm not quite sure what pheromones are, so I shouldn't say that. Speaking of which, can anyone tell me the exact location of a solar plexus?