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A Bandit Queen

PostPosted: Tue Aug 09, 2005 9:50 pm


"What do you do in day care today, son?"

"I made a snake out of clay and then I masturbated!"

rofl
PostPosted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 10:40 am


Elitist Pretzel Eater
"What do you do in day care today, son?"

"I made a snake out of clay and then I masturbated!"

rofl

"Yes, I'm proud of you, son!"

They must need to spend a lot of money on bed sheets. I mean, you're not going to feel good masturbating on dirty sheets, huh?

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 3:42 am


Illuminescence
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"What do you do in day care today, son?"

"I made a snake out of clay and then I masturbated!"

rofl

"Yes, I'm proud of you, son!"

They must need to spend a lot of money on bed sheets. I mean, you're not going to feel good masturbating on dirty sheets, huh?


Uhm... you need sheets to... play with yourself?
I didn't know that.
rolleyes
PostPosted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 10:45 am


No, bed sheets, as in what you sleep on, not what covers you. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 11, 2005 1:00 pm


Illuminescence
No, bed sheets, as in what you sleep on, not what covers you. Sorry if that wasn't clear.


Ohh... but I thought we were talking about day care blah blah...
PostPosted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 9:56 pm


I choked on my water when I read that. Now I'm dead.
Thanks. gonk

But yes, it's ******** SCARY.
I don't want little children masturbating ;___;
That's just... ******** scary. DD:

And pointless, too.
Masturbating won't tell you what sexuality you are.

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Elder

PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 4:27 pm


Nironia the Lonely Spirit
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I don't think you guys get it, though.

Kids do what their parents don't want them to do. If there were suddenly masturbation rooms, not everyone would want to masturbate all the time, because parents wouldn't care (if this was ever accepted).

Plus, it would help solve the whole teen sex fiasco because sex is less taboo than masturbation. I know I've had the expierence of feeling completely guilty pleasuring myself because it's "Wrong", and you feel signifigantly less guilty when you do it with someone else.

Hopefully, a masturbation room would help tip the scale a little. If you can pleasure yourself without guilt, why bother with the risk of STDs and pregnancy?


I don't care if it makes people less guilty, kids should not learn about their sexuality until they are over ten years of age. It is sick to see the world pressuring people on sex, but on children? If that is considered human nature, then I don't consider myself a human being. I think of myself as Nironia.

Now teens is better, but I still think they are way too young to explore their sexuality. Masturbation should be a personal thing, and I can hardly see how it is taboo nowadays?!? Do we really need more children in this world? NO. So why in the hell do you feel guilty about it? Why are you letting stupid taboos make you feel that way about something that isn't anyone's damned business?

All I can say is, is that the world is letting it's human instincts ruin itself. If we are going to push forward and solve problems of society, we can't give in to ridiculously over the top addictions to sex, porn, violence, and other primitive subjects. It will ruin us, and it will hurt our children's chances of having a pure childhood.


Children start masturbating when they're around six years old.
It's because of people like you and the general populace saying "OMG MASTURBATION IS BAD DON'T DO IT!!" that the taboo and guilt comes from.
However, sex is talked about ALL THE TIME. "If you have sex, you could get STDs, or a girl pregnant." so people know signifigantly more about sex than masturbation.

Google "daycare masturbation." Almost every website that pops up tells you about 6 year old masturbating and how it is NORMAL and how parents should NOT overreact.
Example
PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 7:24 pm


O.O

I never said that masturbation was wrong. Teenagers go ahead and do it. Anyone over ten.

I'm just saying that at a young age... below ten... it's just creepy. I mean, I like to think as childhood as not worrying about sexuality. It's a complex and adult thing. Just frightening.

I never masturbated when I was a child. I never have at all. Where did this suddenly come from?

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Elder

PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:40 pm


Well, you're asexual..

Or maybe everyone is just confusing "exploration" with masturbation.
I mean, when I was a kid, I was wondering what my genitals were, so I handled them all the time. Can't say I got any pleasure out of it, but if they consider exploration masturbation, then, we're all guilty.

Point being was the rooms are so masturbation can be private. So if you can't convince your kid to not masturbate(or wait till s/he gets home), then you can say "go to 'the room'" so at least the boy isn't sticking his hand down his pants in the middle where everyone can see.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:01 pm


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Well, you're asexual..

Or maybe everyone is just confusing "exploration" with masturbation.
I mean, when I was a kid, I was wondering what my genitals were, so I handled them all the time. Can't say I got any pleasure out of it, but if they consider exploration masturbation, then, we're all guilty.

Point being was the rooms are so masturbation can be private. So if you can't convince your kid to not masturbate(or wait till s/he gets home), then you can say "go to 'the room'" so at least the boy isn't sticking his hand down his pants in the middle where everyone can see.


Well I still would find masturbation in children awkward, even if I was sexual. I've always liked children because they were so pure, so oblivious to the world of which adolescents are introduced to so suddenly. I always thought that they were beautiful because of that.

I hope children won't be expected to. It's wrong to persuade a child to do such a thing. Asexuals would have a problem there. Adults could get to an asexual child, and try and turn them around. They may start thinking the other way, that a child that doesn't masturbate has hypoactive sex disorder or something.

They'll grow up feeling out of place. Just like a gay guy or girl in a straight world.

It just reminds me of Brave New World. There was a part with all these children in the playground without clothes. And what they did was 'erotic play' for fun. The boys were all about it. One of the children didn't engage in it, so they were probably taken to the shrink or brainwashed. I bet he was asexual. Though I can't be sure.

All those kids, however, grew up into a sexual world, that was so sexual that it was expected to be promiscuous and have sex. Are world could turn into that. And all the asexual children of the world... would suffer.

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Saddie-sad

PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:04 pm


Mikusagi
I've just read an article saying that kids should be allowed to discover their sexuality, and therefor it would be good to have a masturbation rooms in day care centres.
Is it only me that finds this scary? And if my English is bad, I blame my book!


That is ******** creepy. There is many problems with that. One being that it would generate way to many sexual harrasment cases. Two: *****>: no. you have a bedroom or a bathroom explore there.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 4:10 pm


Saddie-sad
Mikusagi
I've just read an article saying that kids should be allowed to discover their sexuality, and therefor it would be good to have a masturbation rooms in day care centres.
Is it only me that finds this scary? And if my English is bad, I blame my book!


That is ******** creepy. There is many problems with that. One being that it would generate way to many sexual harrasment cases. Two: *****>: no. you have a bedroom or a bathroom explore there.


Agreed.

It's almost like they are encouraging it.

: (

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Buras_Mew

PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 6:18 pm


Saddie-sad
Mikusagi
I've just read an article saying that kids should be allowed to discover their sexuality, and therefor it would be good to have a masturbation rooms in day care centres.
Is it only me that finds this scary? And if my English is bad, I blame my book!


That is ******** creepy. There is many problems with that. One being that it would generate way to many sexual harrasment cases. Two: *****>: no. you have a bedroom or a bathroom explore there.


You said how I felt best. I quote you!
*quote*
Anyway, nasty, nasty, nasty.
School isn't a place to get pleasure by masterbateing... damnit, parents pay for their children to go to school to learn!
However, I highly, highly doubt that this would happen. Come on... as a person said before... the parents would be down the schoolboards throaths.
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