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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:17 pm
Hmm I'm not sure exactly what the laws about this are..
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:19 pm
Well, I think it's better for a man to be older, but not like an eleven year old to fifteen only because-this is what kids these days don't understand- THEY ARE TO YOUNG..
Where do they think they're going to go with it anyway, well think about it, and yes this is my rant, if they don;t want to be married just want to be together isn't that silly, marrage is together, but they'd end up breaking up because of one silly reason or another..
The reason for that is because they are too young, lots of kids these days date and get their hearts broken, filled with lies, and crushed thinking they'll never date again, what do they expect they have to know where they are taking it anyway, also it isn't good because lots of guys around that age don't want romance or anything of that sort, and females just get their hearts broken, honestly, dating at a young, yes I SAID YOUNG, an eleven year old is young, your teen years are young, dating on a young age normally leads to heart breaks,
Also I will not admit If I have kissed or not kissed/dated or not dated anyone because It's personal sorry.
I apologize for the grammar.
Also it's better when the males are 4 or 5 years older than females because females mature faster and that way females and males will both be mature without the male thinking it's creepy that the female is developing really fast and he isn't.
I agree with Noi as well, though teens have a harder time making the relationship stay a while than adults.
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:20 pm
I have never dated in my life. I'm 13. I'm entering 9th grade. I'm okay with that. Compared, I seem like a loser though. My friend once told me, 'Who hasn't had a boyfriend?'. In my hometown, we don't date as early as where I live now. Where I am now, my friend have had boyfriends since they were in elementary. Not all of my friends, but some. One had one when they were in kindergarden. Then like 3 boyfriends in 6th grade. Something like that. >> Another friend had a one boyfriend from 1st grade to 5th grade. .__., Most people, where I live, start dating in elementary school. I think that's too young. D:
Age shouldn't matter, but 11 years old is young. I'm repeating basically what everyone else said. D: Does she really know what love is at age 11? Is she that mature? O___o;; I mean if you're 13 dating a 19 year old, I think that's kind of ridiculous. If you're 24 dating someone who's 30, it seems okay. Even though it's the same age difference. ;P
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:22 pm
Devious_Kitsune Apple and I have a three year difference...But I agree, 11-year olds shouldn't be dating. ._.
EDIT: Yes, Apple, for me, is jail bait. rofl crying 3nodding sweatdrop But your okay with it...right? o.O
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:23 pm
StrawBerryApple 3nodding sweatdrop But your okay with it...right? o.O xd Of course I am!
....As long as we don't get caught. ninja
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:24 pm
psycho freak_2 Also it's better when the males are 4 or 5 years older than females because females mature faster and that way females and males will both be mature without the male thinking it's creepy that the female is developing really fast and he isn't.
I told my friends about girls maturing faster than guys (You say female/male, I say girl/guy. You sound so much smarter. xD). Once a guy objected. talk2hand Off topic, kinda~
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:25 pm
eclara I have never dated in my life. I'm 13. I'm entering 9th grade. I'm okay with that. Compared, I seem like a loser though. My friend once told me, 'Who hasn't had a boyfriend?'. In my hometown, we don't date as early as where I live now. Where I am now, my friend have had boyfriends since they were in elementary. Not all of my friends, but some. One had one when they were in kindergarden. Then like 3 boyfriends in 6th grade. Something like that. >> Another friend had a one boyfriend from 1st grade to 5th grade. .__., Most people, where I live, start dating in elementary school. I think that's too young. D:
Age shouldn't matter, but 11 years old is young. I'm repeating basically what everyone else said. D: Does she really know what love is at age 11? Is she that mature? O___o;; I mean if you're 13 dating a 19 year old, I think that's kind of ridiculous. If you're 24 dating someone who's 30, it seems okay. Even though it's the same age difference. ;P Also a lot of them are experiencing puppy love.
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:26 pm
eclara I have never dated in my life. I'm 13. I'm entering 9th grade. I'm okay with that. Compared, I seem like a loser though. My friend once told me, 'Who hasn't had a boyfriend?'. In my hometown, we don't date as early as where I live now. Where I am now, my friend have had boyfriends since they were in elementary. Not all of my friends, but some. One had one when they were in kindergarden. Then like 3 boyfriends in 6th grade. Something like that. >> Another friend had a one boyfriend from 1st grade to 5th grade. .__., Most people, where I live, start dating in elementary school. I think that's too young. D:
Age shouldn't matter, but 11 years old is young. I'm repeating basically what everyone else said. D: Does she really know what love is at age 11? Is she that mature? O___o;; I mean if you're 13 dating a 19 year old, I think that's kind of ridiculous. If you're 24 dating someone who's 30, it seems okay. Even though it's the same age difference. ;P I know, kids these days are starting to date at an extremely young age. Like its not just about cute little crushes anymore they're actually talking about relationships.
Personally I don't see anything wrong with taking your time instead of rushing into dating just because everyone else is doing it.
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:27 pm
Devious_Kitsune StrawBerryApple 3nodding sweatdrop But your okay with it...right? o.O xd Of course I am!
....As long as we don't get caught. ninja ninja heart Thas good. Age differences don't bother me... I just feel bad about it. >.>
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:28 pm
psycho freak_2 eclara I have never dated in my life. I'm 13. I'm entering 9th grade. I'm okay with that. Compared, I seem like a loser though. My friend once told me, 'Who hasn't had a boyfriend?'. In my hometown, we don't date as early as where I live now. Where I am now, my friend have had boyfriends since they were in elementary. Not all of my friends, but some. One had one when they were in kindergarden. Then like 3 boyfriends in 6th grade. Something like that. >> Another friend had a one boyfriend from 1st grade to 5th grade. .__., Most people, where I live, start dating in elementary school. I think that's too young. D:
Age shouldn't matter, but 11 years old is young. I'm repeating basically what everyone else said. D: Does she really know what love is at age 11? Is she that mature? O___o;; I mean if you're 13 dating a 19 year old, I think that's kind of ridiculous. If you're 24 dating someone who's 30, it seems okay. Even though it's the same age difference. ;P Also a lot of them are experiencing puppy love. Yes. Yes. There's seems to be too much of it for me. >__< I've only had 'crushes'. xD
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:30 pm
- Tainted Star x3 - eclara I have never dated in my life. I'm 13. I'm entering 9th grade. I'm okay with that. Compared, I seem like a loser though. My friend once told me, 'Who hasn't had a boyfriend?'. In my hometown, we don't date as early as where I live now. Where I am now, my friend have had boyfriends since they were in elementary. Not all of my friends, but some. One had one when they were in kindergarden. Then like 3 boyfriends in 6th grade. Something like that. >> Another friend had a one boyfriend from 1st grade to 5th grade. .__., Most people, where I live, start dating in elementary school. I think that's too young. D:
Age shouldn't matter, but 11 years old is young. I'm repeating basically what everyone else said. D: Does she really know what love is at age 11? Is she that mature? O___o;; I mean if you're 13 dating a 19 year old, I think that's kind of ridiculous. If you're 24 dating someone who's 30, it seems okay. Even though it's the same age difference. ;P I know, kids these days are starting to date at an extremely young age. Like its not just about cute little crushes anymore they're actually talking about relationships.
Personally I don't see anything wrong with taking your time instead of rushing into dating just because everyone else is doing it. Kids seem to be doing a lot of things earlier these days. (I feel old. D smile Once my friends were talking about some 5 year old, running up to them and cursing them out. ><
I would much rather take my time. :]
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:34 pm
11 years old is too young to even know what love is?? I don't think she should be dating and already saying things like my heart is turning to ashes...haha she still has SO MANY THINGS TO GO THROUGH...i mean I feel bad for her but that's life...u get heart-broken but then u learn and move on stronger and wiser! xDD
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:35 pm
Just read the last posts of the first page~ S T A T I C ! Last time I checked, it was only illegal to have sexual relations with minors. For Michigan.
"Once you're sixteen, you can have sex with anyone under eighteen and over sixteen. Once you're eighteen... go wild." Yay, Michigan...?!
Correct me if I'm wrong. I tend to be when it comes to laws. I think that's what they did in Toronto. They changed the age from 18 to 16. I was kind of shocked. Why would they change it lower? D: Well at that time, I still shuddered at the thought of sex. I think. O___o;; I need to write more in my diary. D: Going to grow up to have Alzheimer's. D:
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:38 pm
Aoi-Tsuki_Yuki 11 years old is too young to even know what love is?? I don't think she should be dating and already saying things like my heart is turning to ashes...haha she still has SO MANY THINGS TO GO THROUGH...i mean I feel bad for her but that's life...u get heart-broken but then u learn and move on stronger and wiser! xDD The stronger and wiser thing! I say the same exact things. I mean the SAME and EXACT things. O___O;;
And I agree. biggrin Quote: haha she still has SO MANY THINGS TO GO THROUGH... You sound so experienced.
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 6:38 pm
I'm... Odd. Yes, that's the word I'll use. ^^ I married my husband straight out of high school. heart
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