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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 12:11 am
I've never heard the term "black wedding" before, to be honest. Is there a deeper thing to it other than wearing a black dress instead of a white one?
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Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 3:53 am
It's what the people who are getting married want, not what others think, so no, there's nothing wrong with a black wedding.
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Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 9:47 am
Get married however you wish. I'm personally having a ceremony for about 20 in a gothic castle in Prauge and wearing a black/gold/red wedding dress. Do as you wish and let no one stop you.
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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 9:03 pm
thats what i am having when i get married black is the s**t xd
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 9:50 pm
Is it okay? It's your wedding.
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 4:40 pm
DR490N double standards are a strange little thing. Here here.
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Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 11:50 am
I2aeth Isobel Bellamy Sure? Why not? The white wedding dress is a bit too distasteful for my own taste: the white symbolises purity eg: here's your shiny new wife all pure and virginal. Whereas the guy doesn't have to proclaim his status to all and sundry (not that is particularly true nowadays really xd ) in his getup
Notice the word "virginal."
It's common nowadays for more and more brides to have non-white dresses because they aren't a virgin anyways. However, "traditional" values dictate no sex before marriage and all that, so a bride's dress is "tradtionally" white because they shouldn't have been sleeping around.
I never got that. I want my wedding to be lime green and black. Or maybe aquamarine and black(because, theoretically speaking, if I got married, I'd be getting married to the man I currently love, and he likes aquamarine. <3)
Or something like that. If I ever got married, period.... XD I'd like a green and black striped tuxedo please. biggrin
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Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 9:21 am
_PsychoPathic-Tend3ncies_ I2aeth Isobel Bellamy Sure? Why not? The white wedding dress is a bit too distasteful for my own taste: the white symbolises purity eg: here's your shiny new wife all pure and virginal. Whereas the guy doesn't have to proclaim his status to all and sundry (not that is particularly true nowadays really xd ) in his getup
Notice the word "virginal."
It's common nowadays for more and more brides to have non-white dresses because they aren't a virgin anyways. However, "traditional" values dictate no sex before marriage and all that, so a bride's dress is "tradtionally" white because they shouldn't have been sleeping around.
I never got that. I want my wedding to be lime green and black. Or maybe aquamarine and black(because, theoretically speaking, if I got married, I'd be getting married to the man I currently love, and he likes aquamarine. <3)
Or something like that. If I ever got married, period.... XD I'd like a green and black striped tuxedo please. biggrin Lol, to be honest, I'm not even sure if I'd go with the tux - maybe a poet shirt and a vest, instead whee
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Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 5:00 pm
-Resurrected Writer- _PsychoPathic-Tend3ncies_ I2aeth Isobel Bellamy Sure? Why not? The white wedding dress is a bit too distasteful for my own taste: the white symbolises purity eg: here's your shiny new wife all pure and virginal. Whereas the guy doesn't have to proclaim his status to all and sundry (not that is particularly true nowadays really xd ) in his getup
Notice the word "virginal."
It's common nowadays for more and more brides to have non-white dresses because they aren't a virgin anyways. However, "traditional" values dictate no sex before marriage and all that, so a bride's dress is "tradtionally" white because they shouldn't have been sleeping around.
I never got that. I want my wedding to be lime green and black. Or maybe aquamarine and black(because, theoretically speaking, if I got married, I'd be getting married to the man I currently love, and he likes aquamarine. <3)
Or something like that. If I ever got married, period.... XD I'd like a green and black striped tuxedo please. biggrin Lol, to be honest, I'm not even sure if I'd go with the tux - maybe a poet shirt and a vest, instead whee What's a poet shirt? :F
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:53 pm
_PsychoPathic-Tend3ncies_ -Resurrected Writer- _PsychoPathic-Tend3ncies_ I2aeth Isobel Bellamy Sure? Why not? The white wedding dress is a bit too distasteful for my own taste: the white symbolises purity eg: here's your shiny new wife all pure and virginal. Whereas the guy doesn't have to proclaim his status to all and sundry (not that is particularly true nowadays really xd ) in his getup
Notice the word "virginal."
It's common nowadays for more and more brides to have non-white dresses because they aren't a virgin anyways. However, "traditional" values dictate no sex before marriage and all that, so a bride's dress is "tradtionally" white because they shouldn't have been sleeping around.
I never got that. I want my wedding to be lime green and black. Or maybe aquamarine and black(because, theoretically speaking, if I got married, I'd be getting married to the man I currently love, and he likes aquamarine. <3)
Or something like that. If I ever got married, period.... XD I'd like a green and black striped tuxedo please. biggrin Lol, to be honest, I'm not even sure if I'd go with the tux - maybe a poet shirt and a vest, instead whee What's a poet shirt? :F Something like this: http://www.pirates-cave.com/poet pirate shirt i1336zL.jpg
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 2:42 pm
yes i think tis fine, why wouldnt it be? have what you want tis your wedding
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Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 4:44 pm
-Resurrected Writer- _PsychoPathic-Tend3ncies_ I2aeth Isobel Bellamy Sure? Why not? The white wedding dress is a bit too distasteful for my own taste: the white symbolises purity eg: here's your shiny new wife all pure and virginal. Whereas the guy doesn't have to proclaim his status to all and sundry (not that is particularly true nowadays really xd ) in his getup
Notice the word "virginal."
It's common nowadays for more and more brides to have non-white dresses because they aren't a virgin anyways. However, "traditional" values dictate no sex before marriage and all that, so a bride's dress is "tradtionally" white because they shouldn't have been sleeping around.
I never got that. I want my wedding to be lime green and black. Or maybe aquamarine and black(because, theoretically speaking, if I got married, I'd be getting married to the man I currently love, and he likes aquamarine. <3)
Or something like that. If I ever got married, period.... XD I'd like a green and black striped tuxedo please. biggrin Lol, to be honest, I'm not even sure if I'd go with the tux - maybe a poet shirt and a vest, instead whee Nice. smile
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Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 10:47 am
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Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 5:41 pm
I didn't read all of the posts (my computer is a bit touchy lately, and didn't load them all), so this may have already been mentioned-
The "white wedding" concept is really only a little more than 100 years old. Most weddings usually either had a color theme or were in just plain black until the mid-Victorian era, in which upper-society types began wearing white wedding dresses. The style didn't become widely used by the general public until the 1920's.
Given the popularity of Victorian fashion within the goth scene, having an early-Victorian style wedding of all black (or color themed) wouldn't be all too out of place.
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